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  • BeenieCat
    BeenieCat Posts: 6,567 Forumite
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    But if he gave up his flat and everything to be with me that'd prove he does care and we only ever used to argue cos i said he didn't,.

    So confusing... I'm seriously thinking about it i have a future in my head and he's in it, but i don't know if i'm just dreaming. He's always been in my future, it's as if i've been waiting for him to sort his head out and come back. Sad i know, but i've never managed to shake it off even though i've tried to move on and plan my life without him in it. Just don't know if he'd put enough effort to start making up for not being there for me and that's where we'd fail. Argh i dunno, he always does this, throws a spanner in the works when i don't expect it :mad:

    Anyhoo... what do i do with venison burgers? i don't have any buns or anything so should i be classy and have them with chips? lol... DS isn't here so i'm late getting food.
  • MadDogWoman_2
    MadDogWoman_2 Posts: 2,376 Forumite
    Beenie - Grrrrrrrr at stupid council woman, definitely take it higher if you can. Don't take him back, it's just the backlash from the silly council woman making you think it's an option.

    Hugs all round.

    Katie is definitely boundary testing with me at the moment, we'd been home for all of 5 minutes from work and CM before she ended up on the stairs.

    GISI - Katie has her last swimming lesson on Saturday - I've come up with the plan to keep the routine of swimming by going on a Saturday but to our local pool instead so that she can have a play and a practice.
    Proud to be dealing with my debts
    DD Katie born April 2007!
    3 years 9 months and proud of it
    dreams do come true (eventually!)

  • redmel1621
    redmel1621 Posts: 6,010 Forumite
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    BeenieCat wrote: »
    But if he gave up his flat and everything to be with me that'd prove he does care and we only ever used to argue cos i said he didn't,.

    So confusing... I'm seriously thinking about it i have a future in my head and he's in it, but i don't know if i'm just dreaming. He's always been in my future, it's as if i've been waiting for him to sort his head out and come back. Sad i know, but i've never managed to shake it off even though i've tried to move on and plan my life without him in it. Just don't know if he'd put enough effort to start making up for not being there for me and that's where we'd fail. Argh i dunno, he always does this, throws a spanner in the works when i don't expect it :mad:

    Anyhoo... what do i do with venison burgers? i don't have any buns or anything so should i be classy and have them with chips? lol... DS isn't here so i'm late getting food.

    Can't help with the venison burgers sorry!

    re, your oh! Has he said why he has had a sudden change of heart?
    Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot,
    Nothing is going to get better. It's not.
  • kindofagilr
    kindofagilr Posts: 6,825 Forumite
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    Hi Kindof. How are you and Elliot getting on?

    Hey, we are getting on smashing thanks :) we havent had tears for 3 whole days now lol :) although he is currently not happy about being in bed even though he is tired lol

    He still wakes up twice a night but is having 9oz of milk each feed 6 or 7 times a day!

    He's found a new squeal lol he sounds so cute doing it lol and he never stops doing it now he knows how lol

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  • Becciboobah
    Becciboobah Posts: 125 Forumite
    My LO watched Toy Story the other day and proceeded to ask if I could teach him how to fly! Now that's a difficult question!
    ;);) Better to say nothing and look a fool than to speak and remove all doubt :D:D
  • Becciboobah
    Becciboobah Posts: 125 Forumite
    Thank you all for your kind welcomes, much appreciated. I will try to keep a track of who's who! Apologies if I get slightly confused at first, just pretend I'm a senile great-aunt :-)
    ;);) Better to say nothing and look a fool than to speak and remove all doubt :D:D
  • Becciboobah
    Becciboobah Posts: 125 Forumite
    Charlotte has decided she would like a baby brother and she is going to call him Trifle :rotfl:She also wants to be a princess who flies helicopters when she grows up.[/QUOTE]

    My SIL asked her little girl if she wanted a brother or sister, she said sister and that she wanted to call it 'Bed'....out of the mouths of babes!

    Trifle is a good name though, I quite like it :D
    ;);) Better to say nothing and look a fool than to speak and remove all doubt :D:D
  • got-it-spend-it
    got-it-spend-it Posts: 5,016 Forumite
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    Becci- there is a list on the first page with details of regular posters if you get really stuck! In fact if you ask Sami Bee I am sure she will add you to it.
    :DYummy mummy, runner, baker and procrastinator :p
  • Sarah_Joanne
    Sarah_Joanne Posts: 3,089 Forumite
    Hi becciboobah!

    Beenie go back and read your old posts (you won't even need to go back very far!) to remind yourself why you should never go back there. He does not deserve you and you deserve so much better.
  • redmel1621
    redmel1621 Posts: 6,010 Forumite
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    Hi Becci and welcome:)

    Don't worry if you get confused, I still do...especially when people keep changing avvies x
    Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot,
    Nothing is going to get better. It's not.
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