MSE Parents Club Part 13

BeenieCat

Actually i think if he hadn't paid her (bint that she is) i wouldn't even care it's just the way he was bragging about it "i've paid for my kids, my 2 kids come first" and "i'm buying myself a car so my 2 kids can come and visit me" etc etc. And i'm just jealous/bitter/angry/disgusted/hurt that he is using Amber to get at me :mad:. Be a !!!!!!!! to me by all means but why say you don't care about her?!?!?! Fooks sake. Can you tell he's been texting me again today and set me off on one...lol

SusanC_2

BeenieCat wrote: »

Actually i think if he hadn't paid her (bint that she is) i wouldn't even care it's just the way he was bragging about it "i've paid for my kids, my 2 kids come first" and "i'm buying myself a car so my 2 kids can come and visit me" etc etc. And i'm just jealous/bitter/angry/disgusted/hurt that he is using Amber to get at me :mad:. Be a !!!!!!!! to me by all means but why say you don't care about her?!?!?! Fooks sake. Can you tell he's been texting me again today and set me off on one...lol

To be honest, although in general I think it's best for children to have both parents in their life, it does sound like Amber is better off without him.

Sami_Bee

3onitsway wrote: »

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OH is off - it's his first day of shifts which has turned out to be a rest day. The shift pattern is confusing me, he's on til 10pm tomorrow - will he eat when he gets home? And a couple of 3am finishes at the weekend, his sleep pattern is going to be messed up. I'm sure we'll get used to it eventually.

I never understood MILs, shifts I do remember her eating evening meals with us after being awake for about and hour then going to work - ick pasta for breakfast!

I forgot to say last night your holiday place looks like it's going to be fab!! If he likes the horses there is a stables 5mins from me that deals purely in kids that are disabled/downs/ASD that wouldn't be too far for you to take him occasionally (and meet me for a starbucks while you're at it )

Somnium

DK - yes T has an orange swim seat I never saw you, you should of said hi x looking forward to Thursday

BeenieCat

I know... just.. it's so hard

This time last year i was 20wks pregnant and he left me :( Took my car and fooked off, missed the scan, bad mouthed me to his ex and his family. All because we got back together and like an idiot i thought we were ok but he wasn't. How can you know someone for 10 years and not know they're capable of being such a !!!!!!?
I spent 6 years saying i'd never ever ever ever even considering having another baby if i was going to be a single parent again. What a muppet!!

searching_me

fall down to 3 says ...

you cant help who you love ...

you dont know someone til you know someone ..

and expect the unexpected ...

3 sayings i live my life by ... you're a better person for it and if it hadnt happened you wouldnt have your beautiful daughter x

cazscoob

tiamai_d wrote: »

Caz, we have the megane estate and I love it! It was mine till bloody DH bought the trajet then decided it was crap and I should get it. I hate the trajet....

i am so not stalking you and copying you lol! first the phone and now the car:o

3onitsway wrote: »

I am looking forward to it, but am not too!

I'm really scared of the 6+ hr drive :eek: and i'm a bit worried they're all going to be the hairy legged hippy types! I don't know why, I had an email of one of those in charge yesterday and she' sounds quite normal. :rotfl:


It's very easy to stay in and do nothing - you need to get yourself out, it makes you feel better (and I always find the children are easier to handle if they've been tired out during the day!)

i bet you have a great time and the kids will love it! the drie may be mad but i bet its easier than your crazy roads lol!!

not planning on doing anything today as the house is a bombsite although i would love the new nanny mcphee dvd so might nip out for that!

redmel1621 wrote: »

Glad things are looking a bit brighter caz Don't rush it though, but getting out is great....tbh it's something I am struggling with a bit lately, you are doing fantastic and good on your OH for pushing you;)

the only reason i am going out is because i am not getting the option? how are you feeling? did you get any sleep last night?

BeenieCat wrote: »

How can you know someone for 10 years and not know they're capable of being such a !!!!!!?

Huge hugs Beenie and you are not alone here i have been with OH for 10 years and i never thought that he was capable of hurting me so much. i feel that i dont know who he is anymore and it makes me feel so sad and yet angry at the same time. If you love someone enough you do put up with all their crap and lies and you do believe anything you tell them as why wouldnt you?? dont let him hurt you anymore and at the end of the day you have the best thing of all a beautiful baby girl! One day she will grow up and see him for what he is and look back at what you went through to make her the person she will grow into! he is the one missing out not you or her x

tiamai_d

Beenie, I have a friend who works for the CSA and I was chatting to him about the problems you have faced, as well as another friend. He says that half the computers dont work so its actually done by whoever you speak to on the phone. If you get a nice one, things go well, if you get a lazy !!!!!!.... So keep phoning up, go through the full story and make sure they get all the facts correct. Then call up again and check.

BeenieCat

Thanks guys

Back in a bit, gotta go to the JC and get this uni thing signed (hopefully)

BeenieCat

I'm back! I killed the thread with my misery!! Sorry

And sorry Caz i know you're going through !!!!!! worse than mine Am being all self obsessed as per