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Moral Dilemma -Should I give them the money?

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  • zenseeker
    zenseeker Posts: 4,551 Forumite
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    You have to tell them, or you will just face problems down the line. And bear in mind that if it is noticed, the poor guy who made the mistake could get fired, you want that on your conscience? Just grow a pair and face up to the £700 you owe.
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  • sarahg1969
    sarahg1969 Posts: 6,694 Forumite
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    They have 6 years to claim the money from you, as with any debt. You may as well pay it now, before you are tempted to spend it on something else.
  • StaffsSW
    StaffsSW Posts: 5,788 Forumite
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    preable wrote: »
    I have NO morels and would let the 6 months run by xD

    EFA.
    preable wrote: »
    at least i was honest enough to say that i wouldnt tell them hahaha

    So being "honest" about being dishonest makes it Ok?
    You appear to have the morals of an expense-hungry MP, and likely to be just as popular in reality.

    I should be stunned to see so many posts like this on MSE, where moneysaving and fraud are seen to be one and the same, but sadly I'm more stunned that people actually admit to this.
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  • Broken_hearted
    Broken_hearted Posts: 9,553 Forumite
    I would put the money in a high interest account while you wait.
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  • hermum
    hermum Posts: 7,123 Forumite
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    preable wrote: »
    at least i was honest enough to say that i wouldnt tell them hahaha

    No you actually said you had no mushrooms, or type of.
  • hermum
    hermum Posts: 7,123 Forumite
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    stevew8975 wrote: »
    EFA.



    So being "honest" about being dishonest makes it Ok?
    You appear to have the morals of an expense-hungry MP, and likely to be just as popular in reality.

    I should be stunned to see so many posts like this on MSE, where moneysaving and fraud are seen to be one and the same, but sadly I'm more stunned that people actually admit to this.


    Luckily they & the OP are in the minority
  • theonlywayisup
    theonlywayisup Posts: 16,032 Forumite
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    Let me have his Ebay ID, I will help clear your concience.
  • tub28
    tub28 Posts: 131 Forumite
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    So if someone did it to your Dad, you would go bananas - but it's OK for you to do it to someone else? - and after they did you a favour by delivering it.

    Do you really need us to tell you what you should do?

    This is not moneysaving - it's theft
  • charlies_mum
    charlies_mum Posts: 8,120 Forumite
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    This happend to me a few years ago, but it was for £7,500. When we informed the caravan dealer, he had no idea he didn't have the money :eek:
    You're only young once, but you can be immature forever :D
  • GregtheHammer
    GregtheHammer Posts: 1,036 Forumite
    No dilemma in my opinion, yes you should give them the money or basically its theft
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