Had to Cancle My Wedding!

Horace

Am sending my condolences Shel, its a horrible thing to happen.

I agree with the others, ask one of your friends or family to box everything up and remove it so you don't have to see it. If you can, go away for a break, a trip to the countryside or the seaside can be very therapeutic and will give you time.

poppyscorner

Hi Shel,

I saw this thread this morning and didn't know what to say so I said nothing but you have been in my thoughts all day I just want to send you healing thoughts and my love really. I still can't quite think of anything to say but wanted to let you know I'm thinking of you
Take care hun I can't begin to imagine how you're feeling xxx

Gemmzie

I saw the other thread and hoped it was just a delay...I'm so sorry to hear about your loss Shel. Please consider contacting Cruse, when you feel ready, they offer fantastic support.

bigmomma051204

Hi - didnt want to not answer... a couple of years ago (seems like yesterday) my fiance had a car crash - he survived thank God but for a long time afterwards we didnt know he was going to - he is now disabled but so glad to be alive and i am soo grateful he is here..... so although i cannot say i understand how you are feeling now, i have an idea - you need to get through this in any way that you can... have people around you if thats what u need .... be alone when u need... and remember you can always come on here - we may only be virtual, but we can still listen to you xxx

louisecat

Just wanted to say that I don't think I read many of your posts on here but I am so sorry to hear about your loss can't think of anything to say without it coming across as clich!d but sending heartfelt condolences your way!

Stephb1986_2

I'm still thinking of you and have been all day. I can't imagine what your going through. If you need to talk to someone without posting it on the boards send me a pm my door is always open for you love.

Thinking of you

Steph xx

jackieglasgow

Shel I saw your other thread, and assumed you were changing your colour. I am so sorry to hear your news. I think the advice someone (sorry!) gave about asking to move your deposit to another hotel if its a chain, and going away for a wee break there is a good one. Take care of yourself. X

xShelx

Hi I came back to read all the messages I am overwhelmed with the messages I have recieved! Thank You all for the support and lovely messages!
Its strange to see that strangers care more about me than my 'friends' do!
I have had so much trouble from my bridesmaids it makes me wonder why I asked them to be my maids in the first place!

Thank you all xx

bigmomma051204

i agree - i actually found people on forums etc MUCH better at helping me deal with my oh's accident etc... i guess in a way its easier because family and friends are grieving too.... sorry to hear ur friends are being a bit of a nightmare... mine just completely didnt bother with me - after they all found out, you'd think they would ring or pop over but they didnt... not one of them... neither did oh's mates bother with him - didnt even visit him in hospital when he started to be awake again etc.... even my family didnt help very much at all...

I just got on with stuff myself, looked online when i needed support and to sound off and just got on with caring for my little boy, going to work etc etc

keep your chin up - you are strong and you will cope, despite how hard it gets at times xxxxxx

LegalBlonde

Shel I am so so so so sorry there is nothing I can say. If there is anything at all you need just let me know. And take care of yourself, have some you time and get away from it all x x x