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Had to Cancle My Wedding!

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Hi all I havent been on for a while its been hard!
I have sadly had to cancle my wedding as my fiance a bad accedent!
I did post about my bridesmaid dresses but I dont know where the post has gone.
Its better to have loved and lost than not loved at all
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  • Mrs_Moore_To_Be
    Mrs_Moore_To_Be Posts: 1,294 Forumite
    Oh my, Shel!
    Im so sorry for your loss, how very sad. How are you bearing up? xx
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  • fly_dragon_fly
    fly_dragon_fly Posts: 2,110 Forumite
    oh dear shell :( i am heartbroken for you.

    there is nothing i can say to make you feel better so i shall send you my hugs and prays :( x
  • Stephb1986_2
    Stephb1986_2 Posts: 6,279 Forumite
    I'm so sorry for your loss, Thinking of you at this sad time

    Sending all the love in the world to you

    Steph xx
  • joho
    joho Posts: 4,767 Forumite
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    Oh Shel - commiserations to you. Hope you have plenty of friends and family around you to support you. Best wishes to you. x
    If you have nothing constructive to say just move along.
  • xShelx
    xShelx Posts: 313 Forumite
    Thank You for your Lovely messages x
    Its better to have loved and lost than not loved at all
  • tattycath
    tattycath Posts: 7,175 Forumite
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    Shel...I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Words can't convey.... (((((hugs)))))
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  • hudilin
    hudilin Posts: 12 Forumite
    Shel, I feel so sad as you,hope all will going better for you
  • xShelx
    xShelx Posts: 313 Forumite
    Oh my, Shel!
    Im so sorry for your loss, how very sad. How are you bearing up? xx


    I go through stages of being ok and then in the pits! I have help from the Doctor so thats good! Gotta keep strong!
    But after planning a wedding everyday to now nothing! with all t he wedding crap around me is driving me mad!
    Its better to have loved and lost than not loved at all
  • Mrs_Moore_To_Be
    Mrs_Moore_To_Be Posts: 1,294 Forumite
    I bet it is, can a relative or a friend take it all away and store it for you until you are feeling up to sorting it out a bit more? might be an idea?

    Im glad you have help, and of course you have all of us, and we are great listeners.

    Although its good to be strong is also okay to fall apart a little too xxxxxxx
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  • xShelx
    xShelx Posts: 313 Forumite
    Maybe but also Id rather get rid of it asap so its not inthe back of my mind, Ive been calling the bridal shops and trying to sort out the bridesmaid dresses and the lady at the shop has been telling me not to worry for now, but I just need to get rid of it all. Maybe im mad but I just dont want a reminder! its 10 days till the Wedding day! I just want to black it out, maybe I need to go away on holiday but I have no funds after spending it all on the wedding
    Its better to have loved and lost than not loved at all
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