Frightened about my future - part 2.

mouseann

Fitzer2000 wrote: »

Nah, didn't get anything and the self-serve tils weren't open! I'm at a "hot-desk" in London, Half the attendees won't arrive til 2ish so I've a bit of spare time! Warm and muggy here, not a big fan of this weather, could do with a heavy storm to clear the air.

I actually like the hot weather - but I am not at work and neither am I in London!

nanna58

Afternoon all :j:j:j

I adored my mum too di but she sadly died many moons ago when iws 16. :A Dad lived till 1993 didnt get along too well with him and although i loved him i didnt like him much (if that makes sense).Took care of him tho till the end.

It hurts so much when someone yoyu love is so ill.:A:A

How are you ann today not too hungover i hope:T

mouseann

nanna58 wrote: »

and although i loved him i didnt like him much (if that makes sense).Took care of him tho till the end.

Nanna, that makes perfect sense!

I have the same sentiment about som members of my own family!

And at least you did the right thing by him.

How are you ann today not too hungover i hope:T

I'm very well today, thanks. But glad that all that drinking was virtual! Looking forward to watching the tennis shortly.

nanna58

Ann i do so admire the way you took on your probs really i do. i pay mine each month and although it leaves me with just enough i never have any xtra. I dont know if i have the courage to do it.
like you i am not a debt dodger i think i should pay it back, so at what point do i say enough is enough?

never-in-doubt

nanna58 wrote: »

so at what point do i say enough is enough?

Now - lets sort it Nanna.... :beer:

I'll be back later today - need to get an hours kip cos working through the night! If you want help, just say the word!

nanna58

Thank you nid :j:j:A

working till 9 tonight speak later.Good luck to Miss Nid with prom xxxx

di3004

nanna58 wrote: »

Afternoon all :j:j:j

I adored my mum too di but she sadly died many moons ago when iws 16. :A Dad lived till 1993 didnt get along too well with him and although i loved him i didnt like him much (if that makes sense).Took care of him tho till the end.

It hurts so much when someone yoyu love is so ill.:A:A

How are you ann today not too hungover i hope:T

Hi nanna, that is very sad indeed.
And with you being so young as well, god bless.:A
And thank you nanna, I will do.:AXXXX

mouseann

nanna58 wrote: »

Ann i do so admire the way you took on your probs really i do. i pay mine each month and although it leaves me with just enough i never have any xtra. I dont know if i have the courage to do it.
like you i am not a debt dodger i think i should pay it back, so at what point do i say enough is enough?

I agree it is not an easy option, Nanna. And not a decision taken lightly!

Just think of all the interest the banks have had from you over the years.

I think I took this option because there was no way I was going to get it paid off in my lifetime - or, indeed, after - given the way house prices are going, plus all the extra "add-ons" the banks manage to find!

Why don't you take an incremental view? Have a look at UE, assess the options and then take it from there? I know Niddy will look after you well and you can always share your experiences with everyone on here - avoiding the phone calls, dealing with the various stuff in the post, etc. It is SO helpful to know that you are not alone on this.

But, it has to be your decision, Nanna.

End of lecture!

pixiechick_2

Application finished and about to be posted.

I'm off shortly to visit the last school I taught at because it's their summer fair. I hope they hold it on the field so that I can get my sunshine fix

I'll probably get all emotional seeing my ex-pupils.

mouseann

pixiechick wrote: »

Application finished and about to be posted.

I'm off shortly to visit the last school I taught at because it's their summer fair. I hope they hold it on the field so that I can get my sunshine fix

I'll probably get all emotional seeing my ex-pupils.

Oh bless, Pixie.

Perhaps they may find a vacancy for you? Except I realise that it doesn't work like that!