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well just when i thought it was safe to go back into the water ... things with hubby took another twist last night ... got more twists in it than a twizzler this has
hubby has admitted to me that he was thinking about leaving me weeks ago and doing so with this other woman .... now nothing has ever went on physically with this other woman but you know what i am done ...
so hubby is moving out today he is going to his mothers to try and see if he can live there for a short while ... he has asked me to re consider and have a think etc .... i know he loves me i know i love him but some hurts ... well you just dont get over them do you
sooooo i now need to organise to get this house sold ... i need to organise my debt and i need to organise what i am going to do with my life ... i am once again really hurting (seems i am doing alot of that recently... and i dont like it )... buti know i will be stronger for it all ... although i do have to admit i am kinda scunnered with always being strong and going through things and becoming stronger ... i just want peace and quiet for a while0 -
:grouphug::grouphug::grouphug: Dodgey hugs definitely the order of the day.0
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Sorry to hear that El, my thoughts are with you xVSP - £14.76 | Saving for a Deposit0
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:grouphug: Sorry to hear that this is happening."Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
"We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
"Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky." OMD 'Julia's Song'0 -
Oh El, I'm sorry this has happened. I wouldn't get over that either
xxx2023: the year I get to buy a car0 -
El, you know my thoughts on this. You also know where I am if you need. Whatever happens, it is not much fun. But it is NOT the end of the world. What is important right now is that you start working out what YOU want from all this - that way, when you and OH do talk about whether you have a future, you know what it is you are deciding on.
Stay strong xxxSuccessful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)0 -
you know one of the interesting things is i really know it isnt the end of my life... i know i have a bright future... i know now that what i need to do is put me first ... i have kinda thought this is where my marriage would land up for a wee while now and i have been getting excited in a way about my future... but i also have to admit that i am hurting... i am hurting alot ... i have had hubby on the phone texting me and phoning all day wanting to talk to try and explain things ... he is saying that he was playing us off against each other because he didnt think i loved him so he thought if he brought her into the picture i would fight for him and realise how much i love him ....
childish games by a desperate man
son has arrived home and knows the situation he was at his grans when hubby arrived and asked ... he came straight home to see if i was ok .. bless him0 -
Be strong El, like you say, look after yourself, think about what YOU want and make the right decisions for YOU.
It's good that your family are checking on you and that support will help you whatever you choose.VSP - £14.76 | Saving for a Deposit0 -
you know one of the interesting things is i really know it isnt the end of my life... i know i have a bright future... i know now that what i need to do is put me first ... i have kinda thought this is where my marriage would land up for a wee while now and i have been getting excited in a way about my future... but i also have to admit that i am hurting... i am hurting alot ... i have had hubby on the phone texting me and phoning all day wanting to talk to try and explain things ... he is saying that he was playing us off against each other because he didnt think i loved him so he thought if he brought her into the picture i would fight for him and realise how much i love him ....
childish games by a desperate man
son has arrived home and knows the situation he was at his grans when hubby arrived and asked ... he came straight home to see if i was ok .. bless him
Pretty childish and risky tactics there - silly man.
Glad to hear you have the support of your son.
Hugs xxDebt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012."I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."0 -
Sorry to hear that you are going through this but get what you want out of this as the others have said.Glad your son is sticking by you0
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