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Weekly Flylady Thread 10th May 2010

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  • hex2
    hex2 Posts: 4,736 Forumite
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    Valli wrote: »
    ooo I like THAT ;)

    now THAT made me laugh :D

    mumto5, I know I rant so I try very hard not to discuss absent parents or the CSA or I get very, very wound up. I would never ever abandon responsibility for OUR boys be that financial or otherwise and I just dont understand when other people do.

    Pack lunches are done, DHs stuff for his stupid o'clock start is sorted, just uniforms to put out now but my legs hurt from running :o.
    'If you have a garden and a library, you have everything you need' Marcus Tullius Cicero
  • ceebeeby
    ceebeeby Posts: 4,357 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    Hi everyone, here's my weekly hello post to you all!

    Hope everyones well and thanks for keeping me gleaming (not that I was very good last week, but will do better this week!)
  • toottifrootti
    toottifrootti Posts: 6,427 Forumite
    Dusty thats good news about the £100 rebate - is it a joint main - could you claim a share from any of your neighbours?
    I haven't read any of the thread as it's just been terrible here at the moment.
    FFP huge (((hugs))) angel - sorry to hear things are bad with you - you know you can pm me if you want to xx
    Hex breathe.....breathe..... I didnt know you were having such a problem with ExW - I hope today's letter helps (((hugs))) I used to love gardening when i got it all tidy and could potter until bedtime! Its lovely to look at but its not quite the same when you havent done it yourself! Anyway I will be watching everything that has been planted for signs of growth - it has just rained so that will help!
    pigpen your bedroom looks very sophisticated - what a lovely job you and OH have made of it - I hope you enjoy sleeping in it tonight - try to keep the gibble out!!!!
    Is rach on holiday?

    hope lil_me is feeling better.

    I hope things are a bit better for LadyL too.

    Love and special hugs to LadyL, Diva, Graaaaaaaaan, Jinky, Natty, Pooh. mummyyof5, Mumto5 and all the flyladies who are poorly just now.

    I havent managed a lot today because i fell asleep on the sofa this afternoon!
    Went to my meeting at 7 and have caught up on here and soon it will be bedtime.

    Oh well there is always tomorrow.
    love and hugs to you all
    toots xx
    Peace will be mine
    could do better - must try harder
    Live each day as if its your last
    DFW Nerd #1000 Proud to be dealing with my debts

  • hi everyone. i lurked last week and am loving this thread. sorry for spelling, a dodgy keyboard. i am just going to try to takcle the level 1 this week and if a manage to do anymore its a bonus. i have done level1 today woohoo
  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,562 Forumite
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    edited 10 May 2010 at 9:35PM
    for the blackberries you could make to-die-for bramble jelly.
    You'll need a cooking apple - that's how I get my pectin...


    Potty
    I know you do the chutneys that's why I put you both down as preservers not jammers

    (ask her for her red onion marmalade recipe)
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • nopot2pin
    nopot2pin Posts: 5,721 Forumite
    Valli wrote: »
    for the blackberries you could make to-die-for bramble jelly.
    You'll need a cooking apple - that's how I get my pectin...


    Potty I know you do the chutneys that's why I put you both down as preservers not jammers

    (ask her for her red onion marmalade recipe) - and she is a great purveyor of !!!!!! (preserver's !!!!!! that is - lined up jars..labelled...*swoons*)


    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
    Red onion marmalde recipe is on the preservers thread... made an onion one recently.:drool:

    Right... kitchen duties
    TTFN
    Potty
    :D
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    Valli wrote: »

    BUT they (KHs) don't see it as paying for their child, they see it as giving their ex-partner their money so she can blow it on essentials like Gin and generallly make a profit out of them. I have even heard tell of NRPs who would rather GIVE ther money to the kids than pass it onto the ex. Totally forgetting the kids have to be fed, housed and clothed and all that costs. I get, for two teens, £56.00 per week. Easily what they eat in food alone especially as they have school dinners. And he STILL thinks I am making a profit. I actually get MORE in tax credits than I get from him - and he has a working partner and they both work full time.
    **shrug**

    I am NOT saying they are right mind...but I honestly believe that a lot of NRPs think PWCs are 'using' their children to make a 'profit', and that we are somehow better off because our kids are our meal tickets...

    yeah that's why I am e baying the kids outgrown clothes...
    Mind you TWO of my items are listed with a SP of £0.05! :rotfl:
    Today e bay tomorrow I take over Harrods - bet the Qatari Royal Family are quaking in their sandals :rotfl:

    And I just want to be able to afford DS2's school uniform for the new school year.. I have shirts.. pack of 5 for £2 from bargain crazy last year!

    KH refused to even pay anything towards DD2's trip away which was another £190 I had to find.. with 2 weeks notice! I just want to call him exceptionally rude names beginning with C and rhyming with hunt... which is a very special word used only in exceptional circumstances.
    pigpen your bedroom looks very sophisticated - what a lovely job you and OH have made of it - I hope you enjoy sleeping in it tonight - try to keep the gibble out!!!!
    Is rach on holiday?

    I have been dragging boxes from DD2's room and sorting through them.. I have so far filled a binbag for charity shop and a binbag for the neighbours wheelie bin.... well mine are both full (of carpet!)

    There is so much to sort through it is unreal!!!

    Yes, Rach is on holiday walking miles and miles and miles!!!
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
    08/12/2023 £33602.00 (4.81% int.)
  • rosepink1984
    rosepink1984 Posts: 2,753 Forumite
    Sorry I've not been on since earlier, haven't read the thread, so love and hugs and commiserations and congratulations as required

    I had a text from Lady Liberty earlier, she says she is feeling rough but wants me to pass on her love to you all
    "Snowflakes are one of nature's most fragile things, but just look what they can do when they stick together."
    Sealed pot challenge no.576 Loose change pays your debt challenge #2 no.1 Wannabe flylady
    Weight lost since 9 June 2009: [STRIKE]5.5[/STRIKE] 6 lbs
  • Dustykitten
    Dustykitten Posts: 16,507 Forumite
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    Managed to sneak another hour in the garden after dinner whilst the kids were playing outside.

    DS3 has got his worrying head on so it's taken until now for me to get out of his room.

    Just need to set the WM and then it won't be long before I head to bed although like PenPen I'm glued to News24

    Smiley welcome and good luck

    Toots - it is the main from our boundary to our property so not shared and with next door one side empty and the other an old lady who has sold we'd have no hope anyhow
    The birds of sadness may fly overhead but don't let them nest in your hair
  • toottifrootti
    toottifrootti Posts: 6,427 Forumite
    smiley_28 wrote: »
    hi everyone. i lurked last week and am loving this thread. sorry for spelling, a dodgy keyboard. i am just going to try to takcle the level 1 this week and if a manage to do anymore its a bonus. i have done level1 today woohoo
    :xmastree:welcome to the thread smiley - I will send you a pm shortly.
    Peace will be mine
    could do better - must try harder
    Live each day as if its your last
    DFW Nerd #1000 Proud to be dealing with my debts

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