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Freaky Friday ~ Daily Chat 7th May 2010
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red, it's more how he's been acting - getting drunk, basically ignoring me, coming in much later than he says he will, taking drugs. I just feel I can't trust him 100% and I know it shows, I've told him how I feel and he needs to regain my trust....but I want to see how long this "new" him lasts....
I guess you just have to give it some time then if he is trying to change, know it's hard though.Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012."I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."0 -
hey elf really glad you had a good day, sorry didnt manage to wave as i havent gone passed Canterbury yet as i dont finish work for a few hours
and as to relationship issues we are always about so you can have a rant or unload about them
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It's, I know he's trying to change, but part of me is thinking "It isn't going to last....he will turn back into the person he used to be" and the other is thinking "give him a chance, you need to do that". I'm just puzzled. I can't get through it in my head and it's annoying now...** Total debt: £6950.82 ± May NSDs 1/10 **** Fat Bum Shrinking: -7/56lbs **
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I do it all because I'm scared.
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red, it's more how he's been acting - getting drunk, basically ignoring me, coming in much later than he says he will, taking drugs. I just feel I can't trust him 100% and I know it shows, I've told him how I feel and he needs to regain my trust....but I want to see how long this "new" him lasts....
well you are giving him a chance and he knows it, thats good as at least he knows if he screws it up hes only got himself to blaimDrop a brand challenge
on a £100 shop you might on average get 70 items save
10p per product = £7 a week ~ £28 a month
20p per product = £14 a week ~ £56 a month
30p per product = £21 a week ~ £84 a month (or in other words one weeks shoping at the new price)0 -
Yup, he knows if he messes up or takes coke again, I am gone the next day, and I've told him this....But so far, it seems to be going OK.** Total debt: £6950.82 ± May NSDs 1/10 **** Fat Bum Shrinking: -7/56lbs **
**SPC 2012 #1498 -£152 and 1499 ***
I do it all because I'm scared.
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It's, I know he's trying to change, but part of me is thinking "It isn't going to last....he will turn back into the person he used to be" and the other is thinking "give him a chance, you need to do that". I'm just puzzled. I can't get through it in my head and it's annoying now...
stop trying to get it through your head, just relax be your (loverly) self and go with the flow,
concentrate on your exams and just try and enjoy the time you are together.Drop a brand challenge
on a £100 shop you might on average get 70 items save
10p per product = £7 a week ~ £28 a month
20p per product = £14 a week ~ £56 a month
30p per product = £21 a week ~ £84 a month (or in other words one weeks shoping at the new price)0 -
I have one exam in a week and a half and I need to revise 4 areas to go with the 2 I've done....I am actually enjoying it as I'll sit down and watch as many of the films as I can over that time (when I go home...either Sunday or Monday, I'll discuss it with Pint as to which would cause me less stress) so I might watch one or two here.
I'm not loverly, I'm completely mental.** Total debt: £6950.82 ± May NSDs 1/10 **** Fat Bum Shrinking: -7/56lbs **
**SPC 2012 #1498 -£152 and 1499 ***
I do it all because I'm scared.
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stop trying to get it through your head, just relax be your (loverly) self and go with the flow,
concentrate on your exams and just try and enjoy the time you are together.
Wise words Gonzo
Sometimes it's best to accept that you can't totally understand or decide on a situation and just go with that for a while. Debt@16.12.09 £10,362.38, now debt free as of 29.02.2012."I cannot make my days longer so I strive to make them better."0 -
I do appreciate the wiseness of Uncle gonzo and Auntie red.....but it's hard not to think about it.** Total debt: £6950.82 ± May NSDs 1/10 **** Fat Bum Shrinking: -7/56lbs **
**SPC 2012 #1498 -£152 and 1499 ***
I do it all because I'm scared.
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lol
loverly mental same thing to me, really i can see no point in being sane its far too boring!Drop a brand challenge
on a £100 shop you might on average get 70 items save
10p per product = £7 a week ~ £28 a month
20p per product = £14 a week ~ £56 a month
30p per product = £21 a week ~ £84 a month (or in other words one weeks shoping at the new price)0
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