We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Placecards??

24

Comments

  • Loulou2010
    Loulou2010 Posts: 13,245 Forumite
    did your mother never teach you "if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all?"

    you put nothing into this thread you were just being rude.

    i would put first and second :) x

    your weddings getting close! x


    touchy!!

    just put whatever u feel happy with??
    "I have learnt that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one"
    "You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”
    Maya Angelou
  • floss2
    floss2 Posts: 8,030 Forumite
    Loulou2010 wrote: »
    touchy!!

    TBH, I agree with fly dragon fly - why post something like that on here?!

    Any, OP - I am putting Mr Joe Bloggs, Miss Joanne Bloggs etc.
  • RainbowDrops
    RainbowDrops Posts: 4,674 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    floss2 wrote: »
    TBH, I agree with fly dragon fly - why post something like that on here?!

    2nd'ed.

    Everyone has their right to their own opinion, but the OP was asking for advice, and that post wasn't helpful and would be better placed in a new thread for people to discuss without derailing a genuine request for help.

    Anyway, to answer the OP, in the weddings I've been too, the place cards have had first name & last name.
  • Loulou2010
    Loulou2010 Posts: 13,245 Forumite
    tbh i would have found that helpful! i wish someone would have told me that the place cards didnt matter! spent ages making mine and noone took a blind bit of notice of them on the day
    "I have learnt that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one"
    "You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”
    Maya Angelou
  • mypie
    mypie Posts: 291 Forumite
    Loulou2010 wrote: »
    tbh i would have found that helpful! i wish someone would have told me that the place cards didnt matter! spent ages making mine and noone took a blind bit of notice of them on the day
    Really. I friging hope they take notice of mine. did they sit at random tables or just different seats at their table?
    “A house is made of walls and beams;
    a home is built with love and dreams.”
    2012 Challenge to buy most gifts and non essentials from money made online.:money:
  • Loulou2010
    Loulou2010 Posts: 13,245 Forumite
    we had a table plan as well as placemats so they looked at the table plan and just sat anywhere on there table....
    "I have learnt that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one"
    "You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”
    Maya Angelou
  • Loulou2010
    Loulou2010 Posts: 13,245 Forumite
    tabskitten wrote: »
    YAWN!!

    Sorry OP- just I think I may be the only Bride in the world who finds weddings a total waste of money- i just cannot wait to be married to my OH but find the fluff that goes with it too mundane for words- so I honestly am interested and want to ask all the brides on this forum........WHY does any of it matter if you are marrying the man of your dreams how can you possibly care about place mats? Am i really missing something here? My MIL certainly seems to think so!!

    nope i dont think ur missing anything! i wish i hadnt spent so much time worrying about the little details as none of it mattered on the day!
    "I have learnt that even when I have pains, I don't have to be one"
    "You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”
    Maya Angelou
  • anderson8
    anderson8 Posts: 1,224 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    i hope they take notice of mine too, if people just sit wherever they want at my tables, they probably wont know the person sitting next to them. im not a lot of + partners during the day and i know some people will feel intimidated not knowing anyone if they dont sit in their seat.
    i think table plans are there not only to help your guests mix but also to put people together who already know each other so theyre not like a wallflower
  • fly_dragon_fly
    fly_dragon_fly Posts: 2,110 Forumite
    when ever i go to wedding i take the place card i still have the last 5 wedding i went too. :)
  • mshelsbels
    mshelsbels Posts: 739 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    edited 26 April 2010 at 1:57PM
    I'm just putting the first names of my guests - we have lots of Johns so John. H or John. R etc.
    Funny how some folk are quick to be critical isnt it, everyone's entitled to their opinion and all that, but its a bit of a shame really. Makes you wonder why some people join a wedding forum if the "fluff that goes with it is too mundane for words":eek::eek:
    Back to topic, I'd be gutted if no-one noticed my place cards -I'd like to think its the little touches that will make the day even more memorable and its something nice I wanted to do for my guests.
    th_Picture029.jpg
    th_Picture066.jpg
    HTB is currently printing out the names which are glued to the 'seat' of the chair. Have made 54 in total!

    Good luck Loony :o xx
    Women marry men hoping they will change, men marry women hoping they won't! Inevitably they will both be disappointed.
    Albert Einstein
    :smileyhea
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352.2K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.6K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.3K Spending & Discounts
  • 245.2K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 600.9K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.5K Life & Family
  • 259K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.