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The cutting out/cutting down alcohol thread (part 7)

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  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Stupidly, admitting that I'm struggling :o

    For me, it's admitting that alcohol has that hold on me that makes me deal with it. Have no idea if that makes sense shrug.gif

    Anyhoo, feel better for saying it & will (hopefully) get through the night ok :D

    Of course, it also depends how scary Dr Who is...meep! :eek:
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  • penelopedee_2
    penelopedee_2 Posts: 2,698 Forumite
    Don't blink - see you can't leave the TV to go and get a drink :rotfl:
    This time I haven't smoked since 6th Jan 2014 and still going ok.
    Fingers crossed x
  • DecemberBaby_2
    DecemberBaby_2 Posts: 535 Forumite
    Hugs ((())) HB :) I'm doing the Merry bit but not finding it easy either.

    The evening kind of looms ahead! Shouldn't be like that!
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Don't blink - see you can't leave the TV to go and get a drink :rotfl:

    :eek:

    But what if I need to hide behind the sofa? scared0016.gif
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Hugs ((())) HB :) I'm doing the Merry bit but not finding it easy either.

    The evening kind of looms ahead! Shouldn't be like that!

    Hugs to you to, hon smiley-hug002.gif

    Know what you mean about the evening looming, it's so depressing that drink can have that effect. Everything we can do with a drink is still there so why should it make difference?
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • DecemberBaby_2
    DecemberBaby_2 Posts: 535 Forumite
    Thanks HB, That's exactly what I meant. I've decided to go off to Mr Ts's
    and get a few things to pass the time. Need hair dye as I'm going to a
    do tomorrow lunchtime.

    DB x
  • PharmaRep
    PharmaRep Posts: 22 Forumite
    Really feel i've let myself down tonight. Went to the supermarket to get dinner for DS and I and the wine bells rang too loud!!! Now having my first glass of a cheeky Chilean Cab Sauv:(:(
  • 69chick
    69chick Posts: 544 Forumite
    I am drinking tonight also, although it is planned, for some reason I can't seem to imaging a sat night without some wine :o am really looking forward to dr who though (have sky plussed it) I love the angels ones, really spoooooky!!!! will also have to watch BGT first as ds loves it lol

    Honey bear you know you can do it hun and with style.:cool:...DB did my hair today as my roots were shocking had it done at a salon last time as I was being a bridesmaid but made do today with a tesco special offer dye and am quite pleased with it actually :D

    Catch you all tomorrow
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  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    PR, don't beat yourself up. And having one glass doesn't mean you have to have another ;)

    69chick, enjoy Dr Who :)

    I am declaring 1 for me & going to log off & read with tea & chocolate :D
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    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • fedupandskint
    fedupandskint Posts: 10,358 Forumite
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    Just a quick one - it took me almost a year to realise a Friday or a Saturday night AF were no different to any other night without drinking alcohol. They were a night like any other one and what difference did drinking make to these evenings when I managed perfectly well not drinking in the week.

    It took me ages to get this thought straight in my mind as the weekend were always drinking nights. Now I can manage them fine AF

    Once I made this connection in my mind it made things much easier for me at weekends.

    I'm dying my hear tomorrow as haven't been able to because of the eczema for ages - we're the dying hair bear bunch!
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