MSE Parents Club Part 12

pinknico

Have nothing useful to say Tia but sending lots of hugs.x

Somnium

for those of us going to ikea on Wednesday...

http://www.ikea.com/gb/en/store/croydon/shopping_with_children

hadn't realised they had such good facilities seems ideal really and am now feeling a lil less aprehensive about our first solo trip out.

Oh and shame we're not meeting a bit later meatballs are only £1.50 after 3pm on Wednesdays very:money:

tia - all sounds like a big pile o pants grr to them and huggles for you x

tarajayne

(((Hugs))) Tia. X [EMAIL="!!!!py"]!!!!py[/EMAIL] parents!

Yes Buttons, Hugh Whatshisface, known locally as pl0nker!!!

jillie1974

(((hugs))) tia

tiamai_d

Thanks girls. I am feeling very bad right now, not really with the parents, more just feeling that everyone and everything has it in for me. The boys are being very cheeky and rude, not doing as they are told and it just feels like they have it in for me, that they hate me and of course it's all because I am just useless at everything. Then I snap out of it and know that feeling like that is just silly, they are just little boys they are not capable of being nasty. Then I snap at them, feel guilty and feel useless. Then I can't keep the house tidy or clean so again, useless. I even had one moment where I was convinced that DH was plotting to have me admitted to hospital! Went through this after the boys but nowhere near as bad as this, reality is being twisted. Luckily most of the time I know it's not real, but when I'm doing it, it's scary.

Sorry, I'm just having a bad day, I'll shut up now. As you were.

/rant.

weezl74

Tia, it's no comfort I'm sure, but I feel this way sometimes too, a kind of unsafe from everyone and they're out to get me-ness. I had it in little waves after fergie and now in waves again after kessie.

Big hugs for you.:(

You are an amazingly strong person, surviving things in a miraculous way, like that consultant said to you. So I know you'll be ok. But have more hugs in the meantime whilst it feels so crappy.

Shall we draw some more pictures of red staircases to cheer ourselves up

cazscoob

Tia i have feelings like this also just evrything getting to you all at once where as if it was a little at a time then it wouldnt be so bad! Im not really talking to my mum at the moment and i know how crap it can be, its usually worse when things are about money as that usually changes everything!
Hope your ok and you know where i am if you ever want a chat or even want a meet up one day for some retail therapy
Go to the docs and talk it through and see how you get on, even see about getting reffered to a CPN xxx
*HUGE HUGS*

elle_gee

pinknico wrote: »

Have nothing useful to say Tia but sending lots of hugs.x

Seconded!


Som, maybe I imagined it, but I think some Ikeas have a BFing area too, like slightly screened off from the main restaurant area


Lovely afternoon had here. We went for a walk and Rhys got twenty mins nap en route, then awake to play for a bit and then we both had an hour's nap together. He's not slept that long in the day for ages but then he had no nap this morning with getting up late. We've had some success with "Ga" and "Da" sounds today and he's now consistently saying "Yeah" when you ask a question... not sure where he got that from :whistle:

tiamai_d

Yes, I want to draw boabies

SusanC_2

There was me thinking that home-educating was more expensive - it sounds like sending your child to a school costs a bomb!