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MSE Parents Club Part 12

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  • greent
    greent Posts: 10,790 Forumite
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    weezl74 wrote: »

    It seems to be that IRL people say that children get very expensive as they grow up. How much does everyone feel this HAS to be the case?


    My DD is 12 and DS1 is 10. I know some of her friends parents will spend £500 on each child at Xmas/ birthdays - that's just ridiculous! Ours get about £75. OSMetimes more (eg they have DS lites) but not often. They don't get pocket money from us as such - they get money into their bank accounts. They do get monthly pm from my mum, weekly from DHs mum and occasional from DH's gran. They save this and buy stuff they want (DS games, books etc)

    DD has my old laptop in her bedroom and one of my mum's old mobile phones. She has PAYG and I have only put £25 on there in a year - she's pretty good. Laptop is essential for secondary school.

    I'd agree with the school costs - and they're worse when at secondary. The uniform (winter and summer version) (inc compulsory crested blazer), dance kit, summer sports kit, winter sports kit, swimming kit, then the trips etc. Ours also would like each parent to pay min £20/ mth by standing order towards new school sports hall - they phone you up to see why not if you don't send the form back:eek:

    Clothes wise DD is fine. SHe gets some Debenhams clothes from my friend's daughter. I buy some from Debenhams, NExt, Matalan, Tesco, Sainsbury - atm it's ok. I suspect it will change:cool:

    greent x
    I am the master of my fate; I am the captain of my soul
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  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
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    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • Fitzio
    Fitzio Posts: 2,199 Forumite
    Forgot to say - well done to Evie!!! Newbie Maz, you must be ecstatic!

    Well done Maddy!
  • tarajayne
    tarajayne Posts: 7,081 Forumite
    I like them all SS, they're beautiful.X
    Too many children, too little time!!!
    :p
  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    edited 16 November 2010 at 3:32PM
    Relax MFD, look:

    *nothing to see here*

    Sorry they're so big.
    Organised Birthdays and Christmas: Spend So Far: £193.75; Saved from RRP £963.76
    Three gifts left to buy
  • Sami_Bee wrote: »
    :T:j

    a wooden spoon?

    That's the kind of thing...I could only think of rude things :o



    Oh SS - they are beautiful.
    r.mac wrote: »
    please listen to MFD - she is a wise woman :D
    Proud Mummy to the gorgeous Benjamin John born 14 March 2009, 8lbs 14oz
    A new little seedling on the way, due 30 September 2012
  • tiamai_d
    tiamai_d Posts: 11,987 Forumite
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    Afternoon! SS, Molly is just too cute getting!

    So, whats been happening?
  • tarajayne
    tarajayne Posts: 7,081 Forumite
    tiamai_d wrote: »
    Afternoon! SS, Molly is just too cute getting!

    So, whats been happening?

    Nothink! :cool: In others words, although I read back I can only remember Rhys's tshirt! :rotfl:
    Too many children, too little time!!!
    :p
  • tiamai_d
    tiamai_d Posts: 11,987 Forumite
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    Arrrggghh! I can't log on to my bank I keep getting this
    Secure Connection Failed

    SSL peer reports incorrect Message Authentication Code.

    (Error code: ssl_error_bad_mac_alert)

    * The page you are trying to view can not be shown because the authenticity of the received data could not be verified.

    * Please contact the web site owners to inform them of this problem. Alternatively, use the command found in the help menu to report this broken site.

    :mad: Pain in the !!!!!
  • tiamai_d
    tiamai_d Posts: 11,987 Forumite
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    tarajayne wrote: »
    Nothink! :cool: In others words, although I read back I can only remember Rhys's tshirt! :rotfl:

    Oh, what about his tshirt? (is it funny? I need a laugh)
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