MSE Parents Club Part 12

SugarSpun

Thanks Caz, if the fairies are happy to fly then would they like directions and to give their return address please?

Hurrah for babies peeing in the appropriate place! And cute picture EA.

Beenie, Mel, if Caz's fairies can find me with the pink set I'll be all set, although I do see a bit of an ebay market...

Pink_Princess_1

Evansangel wrote: »

:mad::mad: rant alert

My sister just text me saying "Love that im getting kicked out on my birthday"

She's trying to make me feel guilty about not letting her move in with me. She has had a few weeks and still has 3 weeks to find somewhere else to live but she'd rather text me and make me feel guilty.

She doesn't seem to understand that we're not allowed to have people live with us and not allowed more than 1 pet (she has 2 cats) and also we have a baby and no where for her to sleep.

She goes out and gets drunk all the time and comes in anytime between 11pm-3am and then sleeps in until 1pm and will moan if Lily makes a noise and wakes her.

And she will expect me to let her friends stay round, what she does is tell them i will say yes then bring them here and say "Oh they have no where to stay now" :mad:

Everytime she moves somewhere she always ends up getting kicked out and i have always let her stay over so she has somewhere for the night but it ends up being another night, and then another night.

Everywhere she lives someone always has a problem with her and bullys her. Maybe she's the problem if its been in a few different houses?!?!

Argh. She's 18 btw.

Sorry to moan here

I always think that people deserve a chance but when they continue to make the same mistakes then they have to learn the consequences ifkwim. She cannot expect you to bail her out all the time especially when you have your own family to think of now. Dont feel guilty when you have helped her out in the past. Meant to add that Lilly is the double of your OH on your new FB pics - little cutie

Evansangel

Pink_Princess_1 wrote: »

I always think that people deserve a chance but when they continue to make the same mistakes then they have to learn the consequences ifkwim. She cannot expect you to bail her out all the time especially when you have your own family to think of now. Dont feel guilty when you have helped her out in the past. Meant to add that Lilly is the double of your OH on your new FB pics - little cutie

I said that to her and she said "Well i'd help Chloe no matter what if she was homeless, even if i had my own family"
Chloe is our younger sister (who is only 9 so wont be moving out for some time yet! )

And awww thanks Everyone says she looks like OH but one person said she looks like me the other day so

BeenieCat

kindofagilr wrote: »

Aww you dont like my pics *sniff* lol just kidding

Gorg pics red, ea and weezl

Aww !!!!!! sorry That's cos i skimmed before i went out with the dog and saw your pics, and be the time i came back i forgot to comment about them. He looks so lovely and big though! :D

The word "forgot" seems to be a popular one of mine these days :rotfl:

got-it-spend-it

I am loving all the photos on here tonight. It totally agree with SS that it is so lovely when we have a photo flurry on here.

cazscoob

directions would be great SS!
i didnt notice the time and the little ones were still playing! Erin is asleep already and Charlie is down already???

Evansangel

got-it-spend-it wrote: »

I am loving all the photos on here tonight. It totally agree with SS that it is so lovely when we have a photo flurry on here.

I always have pics i wana show you all but i dont want to feel like im showing her off :rotfl:

I love all the pics too, its nice to see all the babies growing up

aless02

got-it-spend-it wrote: »

I am loving all the photos on here tonight. It totally agree with SS that it is so lovely when we have a photo flurry on here.

Yes! More piccies!! More babies!! :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

SugarSpun

EA give her the number of a hostel. I can see helping once, but twice or more? Not if it's always the same problem.

A friend of mine once called me in the middle of the afternoon and said she was having to leave her flatshare that day. I checked with my ex (not ex then, obviously) and told her she could stay with us for the night. She gave me this long story about what had happened, and in she came. She ended up staying for three days and left rather hastily on the third day, and stopped texting/replying to my texts after that.

Her landlord (lived in the same house as the friend who got kicked out) was the fiance of another friend of mine, and I was talking to her about it. It turned out that the friend had stripped her clothes off and hopped into bed with her landlord, and when he turned her down she exited sharpish :eek:

Which got me thinking about how she'd fled our place, so I checked with Ex and sure enough... she'd hopped into the shower with him while I was in the supermarket!! :eek:

I don't think EA's sister's going to be hopping into bed with her, it just came to mind.

tiamai_d

Tough love EA, she needs to learn to grow up.

ETA, I think my neighbour is in the jail. Her mum has been here past 2 weeks staying but no sign of her.