MSE Parents Club Part 12

BrunoM

Hi Caz,

I certainly don't expect you to act on other people's opinions, and only you know the absolute full picture and how you feel etc. You did ask for opinions though, and I agree with Beenie.

As an absolute bare minimum the texting should be utterly out of the question, and it's just a strong indication of his bad faith.

I hope you can work this out somehow

cazscoob wrote: »

morning, had a bad night sat on the phone to him and got all the answers i wanted and now i feel sick, have had 2 hours sleep as it is all tumbling through my head:( i promised the kids a day at the beach but all i wanna do is curl up and give up. Everything has been a lie since my baby girl was born, just wish i had been brave enough then to do what i have just done. the worst thing is i still love him, but i have so much hate and anger in me and i know i cannot be stupid again and make the same mistake again.

cazscoob wrote: »

BM hope your ok and if you wanna chat pm me xx

Well as of yesterday i am a single woman, i found out that the !!!!!! he started texting last year after erin was born was told a lot of lies her and they have been seeing each other for 16 months. when he disappered in feb he paid for her to come up and they stayed in edinburgh. i told him to leave and he tried to apologise, i couldnt take it so picked up a hammer and smashed his car up. i have never felt like that in my life and she then told me she had a miscarrige with his baby. he states this is lies but i cant believe a word he says. i feel strangely calm and strong, im worried im going crazy lol!!! i dont really know what to do next? i will not take him back and if i say i will please bann me from talking on here!
i really have missed you all!!! can i get links for wedding pics xxx

Sarah_Joanne

gill_81uk wrote: »

That was my plan today but I had to leave a message. I asked him to phone me but he emailed instead. His email ends as tho he wants no more contact about it, I guess as he's due to retire soon he doesnt want the bother.

Maybe call again and leave a messgae if no reply, or email back and ask for contact details of the new person so you can confirm details.

BeenieCat wrote: »

Caz he's been taking the p!ss out of you since you were pregnant with your baby he KNOWS you still love him that's why he's taking advantage of that. I can see why you're letting him stay there but OMG i can't actually believe he's still texting her while he's there. I think you're just going to get more and more hurt he obviously has no respect for you at all, and you are prolonging your pain by letting him stay there. Get rid you are worth 10000000000000000000000 of him and the slapper who has the audacity to text you after she's played a part in turning your life and kids lives upside down. :mad::mad::mad:
Of course he does. He is talking out of his lying cheating arse. He feels bad cos he got caught and realises the new bint isn't a patch on you. But it doesn't mean he won't continue to have his cake and eat it, AND then spit it out.

Ditto what Beenie said. I don't mean to be blunt but I fail to see how he can possibly respect and love you to do that to you at all, never mind for such a long time You deserve so, so much better than he can give you. You are a fabulous person and you deserve (and WILL find) someone to treat you like a queen, but you can only find them once you get rid of him. ((((hugs))))

hammyhunter

Fitzio wrote: »

Was thinking about the early risers and wondering where Hammy is (H was up around 6.30am and I was telling DH that it's nothing compared to some!). Not sure if it's just me getting confused, but seems like a few days since she posted. Might just be me getting mixed up though.

Fitzio Thank you for noticing.:A. I have been lurking. I feel as if I do nothing but moan and hate to be seen like that . To be honest, things are really tough with D at the moment. This heat has really exacerbated (sp?) his eczema and the poor mite is barely sleeping *sigh*. It is not helped as he now pulls himself to standing in his cot but doesn't know how to get back down so he starts crying - it is really tiring but mega cute to go and find him standing up in the cot holding his arms out .


I am getting really worked up as his apparantly urgent referal to the paediatrican for his allergies and eczema is nowhere to be seen and it has been 3 weeks now - I know 3 weeks is not long in the grand scheme of things but my little boy is suffering and I want it to stop. NOW. Anyway, enough of my moaning I hope Holly and her sleep gets back to normal for you

Evansangel wrote: »

Just got Lily a doctors appointment, its on Thursday.

Her Eczama has got so red and she's learnt how to scratch it now

:grouphug: Big hugs EA, I hope you get somewhere on Thursday. Make sure you keep Lily's nails short and/or keep her in scratch mitts


Sorry about your car JM. It's terrible that people can do such mindless vandalism

Hi DT1 and cafcgirl :hello:

Hugs Caz, I personally think texts are totally unacceptable but I am not in your shoes. If you need anything, give us a shout :grouphug:

Sarah_Joanne

Heaton Park Manchester Meet

7th July

Please put your name below if you are attending

Boo & Isla

Gill & Thomas
jillie & Kian
searchie & jayden...
3 & V
Glam and Jack (hopefully )
Sarah & Alfie
Gymfiend & Guy (so long as they have no housey things to do)

aless02

hammy, have you lit a fire under your GP? Or can they phone the hospital (or whoever) to expedite things? I wonder, honestly, if taking him into A&E would get something accomplished... (not an expert here) Poor David, I wish I could help him.

workinmummy

Awwh Hammy, poor you and poor D.

My vibes are obviously rubbish and do not work.

Moan, moan and moan a bit more, we don't like it when people go missing, do we? Beenie? Caz? BM?

Much needed hugs being sent in your direction.

Just jumped on to check on Caz, now i'm off to go see to my little monkey, who does not want to sleep also.

JAM1376

Heaton Park Manchester Meet


7th July

Please put your name below if you are attending

Boo & Isla

Gill & Thomas
jillie & Kian
searchie & jayden...
3 & V
Glam and Jack (hopefully )
Sarah & Alfie
Gymfiend & Guy (so long as they have no housey things to do)
JAM and Charlotte

searching_me

not long been in from work and the gym and tbh im ready for bed .. im cream cracked ...

how is everyone? i warn you in advance i may fall asleep on the lappy x

JAM1376

Huge hugs to Caz and Hammy - no advice for either of you (cos I'm rubbish at advice ) just big hugs

Hi everyone else

I am a bit chuffed - we have lowered the base on C's cot (it's still next to our bed) and tonight, for the first time in about 2 months, she went to sleep with me sitting next to the cot (on our bed) and not lying next to her with my boob in her mouth :j

The fun starts here. When she next wakes (anytime now) I'll feed her and then put her back down awake. When she wakes after that, I will only offer water and put her straight back in her cot if she climbs out. I see a long night ahead although she surprised me and only cried/whinged for 8 mins before she went off :j

Does this sound like a good plan??

Oh and I invited mesen to Heaton Park if thats ok? :rotfl:

xxx

BeenieCat

Wahhhhh the man up the street can't get time off work to accompany me on Weds when the council bint does her STUPID "teaspoon experiment". AKA make Beenie out to be a psycho liar.

I NEED someone here with me cos although it's only going to take a few minutes, i feel i need a witness to some of the crap she says to me and i just know she's going to make a fool of me on the day. This means i'm going to have to get my alcoholic stinking mother round, and i'm worried her loud and brash mannerisms will paint a false picture of ME.

But i can't be on my own because she's gonna get this other woman to (her words) "put a teaspoon on their draining board and see if we hear it from your living room". Ummm???? Well actually. Go fook yourself cos i've never said THAT is the issue. The issue is the bench they built onto the adjoining wall which they constantly bang and slam on. The draining board isn't even on that wall.

Why is she making me out to be a liar? What's in it for her? I don't get it.