Underwear for big girls?

jinky67

shellsuit wrote: »

Umm, please don't take this the wrong way, but I'm not entirely sure why you are marrying him!

He should love you as you are, rolls n all! My OH does!

Has he actually told you that he hates your boobs, and why would you want to marry him if he doesn't want to touch you?

That's so sad, my heart goes out to you

Shell I was going to say that as well:(

people should love you for who you are:cool:

shellsuit

The more I think about this, the more upsetting it is.

Especially as I've re-read and saw were you have mentioned there will be no 'wedding night' as he will have had a drink.

I want to slap him for being so shallow ~ sorry skintcatt

Skint_Catt

S'ok all - I'm used to it all - he's a wonderful, wonderful man and I've got used to the lack of

I want to lose weight for my own confidence so it'll be ok when I get there - he hasn't said he hates my boobs but as he hasn't touched them once in 3.5years I can't be too far wrong. It unusual for me as the guys I've dated before haven't been able to get enough of them but as I said I've got used to it, come to accept it and I'm marrying a very special man.

shellsuit

Skint_Catt wrote: »

S'ok all - I'm used to it all - he's a wonderful, wonderful man and I've got used to the lack of

I want to lose weight for my own confidence so it'll be ok when I get there - he hasn't said he hates my boobs but as he hasn't touched them once in 3.5years I can't be too far wrong. It unusual for me as the guys I've dated before haven't been able to get enough of them but as I said I've got used to it, come to accept it and I'm marrying a very special man.

A wonderful and very special man? Who makes you feel worthless?

You deserve so much more x

(Sorry I'll shut up now, don't want to upset you at all )

missjennipenni

I was going to say the same as the other posters. I couldnt imagine finding a part of my H2B so repulsive that I wouldnt touch him

Im sure you must be happy though, or else you wouldnt be marrying him I suppose

NEH

Firstly don't beat yourself up...

Bravissimo were good to me in Edinburgh, had a bad experience in the Aberdeen one as they measured me incorrectly but I can't fault the Edinburgh storre who sorted the mess out and gave me my refund....

I would still recommend them or John Lewis though....

As for missing a wedding night, a lot of brides don't get a wedding night, tiredness, alcohol whatever it is it just doesn't happen in a lot of cases.....

as for pretty underwear just remember this there will be bridesmaids and mums helping you to the toilet all day and you may not feel comfortable poncing about in skimpy underwear in front of them you could aways change later on once you are out of your dress...

and i had light control pants as i was wearing a silk dress, my advice would be is if you go down that route wash them a couple of times before wearing and then wear them a couple of times beforehand. I got to the second course i think and i felt like i needed to explode and as for eating any more it became difficult as i was uncomfortable....

Stephb1986_2

Skintt I have the same size knockers as you love they have seen better days and I'm only 23! It's because I'm always losing weight and putting it back on its a bloody nightmare!

My OH loves my boobs for some odd reason but he's not allowed to touch them as one is permanantly sore the doctors say there is nothing wrong but that doesn't stop the pain it's like it's been stung by nettles all the time

Skintt you should want to lose weight because you want to not for anyone else. I choose when I want to lose weight because I feel like it. I hope your ok love.

Steph xx

Skint_Catt

I do want to lose weight for myself and my confidence. He doesn't make me feel worthless, honest - I just have so little confidence in myself for my own reasons - nothing to do with him.

I want to be healthy and confident in myself and especially for when/if we have children! The fact that we're more likely to concieve once I've lost is a bonus

jinky67

Skint_Catt wrote: »

I do want to lose weight for myself and my confidence. He doesn't make me feel worthless, honest - I just have so little confidence in myself for my own reasons - nothing to do with him.

I want to be healthy and confident in myself and especially for when/if we have children! The fact that we're more likely to concieve once I've lost is a bonus

well thats ok then:T:A

shellsuit

Skint_Catt wrote: »

I do want to lose weight for myself and my confidence. He doesn't make me feel worthless, honest - I just have so little confidence in myself for my own reasons - nothing to do with him.

I want to be healthy and confident in myself and especially for when/if we have children! The fact that we're more likely to concieve once I've lost is a bonus

So long as you are happy I will allow the wedding to take place.



















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