MSE Pregnancy Club 18

Krystaltips

I would say something monster... But only in a p!ss taking way...

rach

sir_monster wrote: »

Afternoon all

Meant to be working from home today as had someone to fix our internet and waiting for a delivery of mat reduced stuff from New Look. I say meant to be as got really bad nausea, not sure if it is the heat or just cos I'm getting bigger.

Anyway I did do some stuff and was using DH's computer, was e-mailing it back to work and it went to a file location that contained something I guess I shouldn't have seen. So I went to that file location (half hidden in a new folder) and is a lot of pictures there (nothing illegal, but pics of women in underwear!!). I feel a bit put out that he has hidden this, but I guess this is a guy thing - should I say anything?? Sorry is non-preg related but is stressing me a bit.

And good luck Sammy xx

Just seen this. Not sure what to say, I guess it's pretty natural but I'd still feel put out as you do and upset (esp as pg!). Can you see when it was created? I think if it was me I'd have to say something to him about it, but try not to be too accusatory!

pigpen

monster.. great boost for your hormonal ego that I am sure.. I'd say something in a taking the pee manner.. and I'd probably tell everyone just because I find it amusing. .. possibly along the lines of.. do you remember when I looked like that?.. but no it isn't a great feeling when you feel like a heffalump and they are looking at half starved women..

Rach.. I think I've just about had enough of being hot and tired and in pain.. I NEED to get to the end of next week though as DS3 is at high school and I have school runs to do..

kitkat5566

Sir M: I would say something personally, maybe even make a joke of it. Men are strange creatures and I think they are just a bit fascinated by the female form but it doesn't mean your OH doesn't love you and the way you are. I often catch my OH drooling over women on tv so I just do it back to him now, it's quite funny as he even gets a bit moody about it!

smartie12

Oh shit... realised a little while ago that I haven't felt bean all day:( Have been busy but I definatly haven't done my usual "will you stop beating me up" moan:o I'm hurting where he's lying up against my ribs but not even a good old shove is making him kick.

I'm going to have something to eat, have a glass of ice cubes and then phone the labour ward if nothing.

I don't like all this pregnancy over worrying/paranoia:o:(

sammy_kaye18

Monster - Me and boyfriend are pretty open with stuff like that - I know he has much worse than underwear photos on the computer.I got him a treat a while back though and left my account logged in a with a well toned 'cowboy' photo as my screen saver - needless to say he joked about it but wasn't amused and he said 'oh yeah well I guess Im not fanciable because I don't look like him then' to which I replied 'well Im not a size 10 like your photos so does that mean the same then?'. Not had a problem since - he looks at his stuff, i look at mine and we have a pretty open relationship in that sense - although if any photos were taken by him he 'd have major problems!

sir_monster

Thanks everyone, just wish I'd never seen it was only by accident. Good advice to say it in a joking manner. Rach seems a mixture of dates (going back a year or so) as diff folders but last one was 'modified' on Sunday. Not sure if he has been downloading it or what?? I know how much he loves me as he is very affectionate, but as you said PP doesn't make you feel attractive when he is looking at skinny things when I feel like a heffalump!!

Hope bubs starts moving smartie.

rach

I guess it's all about your own relationship, I'd never cope with that sammy I'm far too insecure! sir monster you know where I am if you need to rant/cry about it! RU going for the start of the thing on sat? I was planning to so could catch you then (unless he's coming with you! my dh is staying at home to clean!)

pigpen

~~~squiggly baby vibes for smartie~~~

smartie12

Change the pictures for something else... like really ugly old ladies (no offence to really ugly old ladies or anything!)