buyer not received item, but proof of postage

Hi all, having an issue with ebay/paypal.

I sold an item on 4/4/10, posted 6/4/10 the same day buyer paid.

I offered free 1st class postage but also offered special/recorded at additional cost. they wanted the free postage

I got proof of postage from post office - buyer has opened paypal dispute - and paypal have automatically deducted the money from my account 'until the matter is resloved'

The buyer only contacted me once last week, i said i have proof of postage and requested email address to forward scanned proof of postage to them with no reply, I also suggested tehy contacted local sorting office to see if item is there waiting for them, but got no reply. Now today i get the paypal dispute

Any advice what to do now?

I have responed to the paypal dispute stating i offfered multiple postage options and have proof of postage and have replied to buyers initial email but had no reply. what are the chances of actually getting the funds re-applied to my account? It wasnt a massive amount but £37 is still a sizeable sum to me
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  • TonyMMM
    TonyMMM Posts: 3,419 Forumite
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    Proof of postage is no good - you need proof that the item was delivered. It's a hard lesson for you in how ebay works, but they will get their refund ...however you should be able to claim from Royal Mail.
  • macfly
    macfly Posts: 2,728 Forumite
    No chance at all. If the item has gone missing you are the only one who can make a claim from Royal Mail. Not the buyer's fault, or yours, so a refund is the only way to go.
  • quietheart
    quietheart Posts: 1,875 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Just be glad you have your proof of posting, Royal Mail will probably pay out around £30 or you may have the package returned by RM.
  • lewt
    lewt Posts: 9,158 Forumite
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    I would always add the 75p cost of recorded. its not worth posting without there is too many people prepared to claim it didnt come for their money back.

    Once i lost out the cost of a game, never again.
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  • Unfortunately a lesson learned :(

    Personally i have a limit of £10 - if an item sells for more than £10 i automatically send via recorded delivery, even if the buyer only choses to pay the standard delivery option (as i offer numerous delivery methods too).

    I see it as the extra 75p or therabouts that i'll pay means i don't lose out completely should the item go missing.

    I know other people set their limit lower at say £5, it's basically a limit at which you'd be prepared to lose out on if it happened ;) And at no extra cost to buyer of course.
    Mummy of 3 lovely munchkins :smileyhea
  • macfly
    macfly Posts: 2,728 Forumite
    Who is losing out here? If you get proof of postage, which is free, you will be compensated. Some have had bad experiences, but I never have. One item gone missing out of hundreds. If your item is worth less than £40, it's pointless. If more you should be sending insured.
  • ah so even if they refund the buyer i can still claim the cost back via my proof of postage? I am not wanting the buyer to be out of pocket, but at the same time i dont see why i should be either when they stated they wanted it to be sent 1st class.
  • mazza111
    mazza111 Posts: 6,327 Forumite
    It's you who has the contract with Royal Mail. You could always try the delivery office of the person you sent the item to, not ideal but I would be checking that first. It could be that it's sitting there for 3 weeks waiting to be collected. Did you put a return address on the package?
    4 Stones and 0 pounds or 25.4kg lighter :j
  • macfly wrote: »
    Who is losing out here? If you get proof of postage, which is free, you will be compensated. Some have had bad experiences, but I never have. One item gone missing out of hundreds. If your item is worth less than £40, it's pointless. If more you should be sending insured.

    Luckily i have never had to claim from RM (or i have never bothered if the item has been just a couple of £) - don't they only offer compensation in postage stamps? Or is that old now? Even though it's got value i'd find it a pain in the bum.

    Also too many a time i have heard on forums of people complaining how difficult it is to get compensation from RM. Never had to as i always try to cover myself by paying the extra if it goes over my own limit - that way i abide by Paypal's annoying rules too, not only that you get less people trying it on ;). Also saves myself hassle of having to chase something up, spesh as i don't particularly enjoy filling out those little proof of postage slips. :p

    I have had a few where buyers have (maybe or maybe not) tried it on - they'll claim non-receipt after a few days, it would have been paid for at 'sellers standard rate' but posted recorded so i'll just check the tracking number and it'll say something like attempted delivery - then i just tell them and advise them to call their local sorting office as it's prob sitting there waiting for them after all. Makes me look more helpful too :D, i usually get a nice thank you reply after ;)
    Mummy of 3 lovely munchkins :smileyhea
  • they stated they wanted it to be sent 1st class.

    Sounds a little suspect to me if i'm honest - they clearly wanted it on a non-trackable method :( But there is little that can be done about that now, just when you leave feedback make it clear they claimed non-receipt and you gave a refund ;) That way you'll give future sellers a heads up to send recorded, no matter what method they pay for ;) Leave a plain and simple feedback - not neg in the slightest just factful.

    Yep you can claim from your POP slip, not sure the full details but i think you can get info on RM website.
    Mummy of 3 lovely munchkins :smileyhea
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