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Learn to control money but do not allow it to control you

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  • Firewalker
    Firewalker Posts: 2,682 Forumite
    Have arrived after some messing about and losinf my way - of course. Now need to continue working so will try to write more tomorrow; failing that will write when back home.

    Firewalker
  • Firewalker
    Firewalker Posts: 2,682 Forumite
    Hi FW

    once again I've been reading the updates on my phone so not posting; today is the first chance I've had to catch up properly. I find your posts so thought provoking.

    But one thing struck me, not about money at all; when I read that you run a lot, I visualise you as tall, muscular etc. so I take it that your 'traditional build' is not the same as Mma Ramotswe, as I can't imagine her running anywhere!

    Did you complain about the hotel?

    Gilly, may be not the Africal traditional build but still a stick insect I am not. But I will be one day soon - have stuck a picture a perfectly skinny woman in my vision book (another matter that I tried to stick it in with lip gloss thinking it is glue:rotfl:).

    About the hotel, we did tell the receprionist about it; but it is an Airport hotel and they rely on passing trade; so not pulling their weight. Scandal! When I got stuck in Dusseldorf before Christmas the Aiport hotel was clean, organised and, well we may as well say it, rather lovely and welcoming.

    Firewalker
  • NorthernLas
    NorthernLas Posts: 1,271 Forumite
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    FW - You can dream about a skinny build, but you have to accept what 'god' and your parents gave you first.

    Having met you 'in the flesh' so to speak, I think you are lovely just the way you are. But what I think, doesn't really matter. However, do consider that skinny women have no padding to cushion the blow when they trip and often a restricted diet leads to increased risk of osteoporosis and damage to fertility, livers and kidneys.

    Instead, why not dress to enhance your assets, you are a knock-out now, but think what funding you could achieve with distraction!!! :)

    NL x

    p.s. Do you know about Freecycle? it is a great way to get rid of stuff you don't want to take to the tip or things that are too heavy to sell. Also some charity furniture people collect.
  • greenbee
    greenbee Posts: 17,650 Forumite
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    Firewalker wrote: »
    Gilly, may be not the Africal traditional build but still a stick insect I am not. But I will be one day soon - have stuck a picture a perfectly skinny woman in my vision book (another matter that I tried to stick it in with lip gloss thinking it is glue:rotfl:).
    Maybe we should ask MrFW for his opinion??? :p
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,616 Forumite
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    edited 9 May 2011 at 12:00PM
    I recommend the Trinny and Susannah book. I can send you mine. Pm if interested. I have seen pictures of you, you look fine to me love sw.

    PS Mr W will always love you!!!!
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • Memory_Girl
    Memory_Girl Posts: 4,957 Forumite
    greenbee wrote: »
    Maybe we should ask MrFW for his opinion??? :p


    Wouldn't worry - MrF is in Luuuurrrrvvveeee:p:rotfl:

    MG
    FINALLY AND OFFICIALLY DEBT FREE
    Small Emergency Fund £500 / £500
    Pay off all Debts £10,000 / £10,000
    Grown Up Emergency Fund £6000 / £6000 :j
    Pension Provision £6688/£2376
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,616 Forumite
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    Good why does that not come as a surprise to us? I dont know anyone that doesn't love her.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • Memory_Girl
    Memory_Girl Posts: 4,957 Forumite
    Good why does that not come as a surprise to us? I dont know anyone that doesn't love her.



    She is referrred to in our house as "the lovely FW" - so I'm behind yo on that one :D

    MG
    FINALLY AND OFFICIALLY DEBT FREE
    Small Emergency Fund £500 / £500
    Pay off all Debts £10,000 / £10,000
    Grown Up Emergency Fund £6000 / £6000 :j
    Pension Provision £6688/£2376
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,616 Forumite
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    I feel safe because she is here. She is the kindest person.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • MrsMoo2U
    MrsMoo2U Posts: 4,005 Forumite
    ^^^^^^^^^ what you all said with knobs on!!
    Some days there aren't any trumpets, just lots of dragons. Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, I will try again tomorrow -- Mary Anne Radmacher
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