silly girl

Skintslimmer

Nothing, nada, NOWT in it for you but heartache.

Be the better person. He sounds like one to keep to the fantasies but never EVER again in real life. It'll end in tears: yours and his wife's.

I have been there, tempted on more than one occasion... and would never do it to the other woman. Think about how you'd feel if you were her. Then remember Karma really does come back around.

creased-leach

There is another alternative- his wife might know, and not mind. Not as unusual as it sounds- by a long chalk- and would explain how he could afford to be blase in front of other people.

Sunshine12

A flirtatious quiz master that likes snogging random women in the middle of a pub where everyone knows him. You've hit the big time there!! He sounds like a right plonker!!

chedixon

He's just a rascal, a quizy rascal :dance:

(sorry, couldn't resist that one)

mrcow

westyw wrote: »

No, I don't think it, but I do wonder about her. I used to see him out and about a lot and she was never around.

I have seen her with him out shopping. He isn't as chatty then!

She'll only know about the kiss if he tells her or 1 of the friends that he was with, I'm not silly enough to think I was his 1st tho.

Maybe she doesn't mind, out of sight out of mind for her.

He sounds revolting.
And you sound a little obsessed.


Steer well clear. Of course you're not the first. And you won't be the last.

Go out and find yourself someone nice. There are plenty of "normal" people around. You don't have to go round kissing skaggy losers.

You'll probably catch something off him. Like herpes or worse.

You can do better than this.



Edit: And go and have a shower. You don't know where he's been.

westyw

Well I was out again last night and guess who I bump into!

I spotted him across the room and after a good hard think last Sunday and putting it into perspective I turned away and carried on my evening and never looked back.

Our paths crossed at 1 point, he was passing me by and whispered hi, I smiled and carried on my conversation with my friend. That was it! and no I haven't spent the last week obsessing about him.

and I don't need a shower as 1 poster suggested as I didn't do anything.

Thread closed.

paddy's_mum

With any luck, and if there's any justice in this world, while he's out being loud, flirtatious, needing attention and kissing other women, she's at home hiding her massive lottery win and preparing to leave the country!

jackieglasgow

Good for you westyw. There's been too many threads over the last week about women whose men played away from home. If the "other women" were a bit more sensible about who they chose to get involved with, these men might have managed to keep it in their pants, and gotten on with keeping their wives happy.

Morglin

westyw wrote: »

Yes its an alias, yes I've been silly!

A few years ago I used to go to a pub quiz once a week and the quiz master used to try his luck with me. Now he is a charmer and used to flirt with a few of the ladies and although I was flattered I didn't let it go any further, after all he was married, and still is!

Last night I bumped into him, I should have walked away. I didn't.
We had a dance and a drink and a chat then we had a dance, and another. I then did go to see my friend who was incidently chating to her off/om bf, which I think ended for the last time.

I did look back at 'him' and he was gazing puppy dog eyes at me and I melted a little, bad moment, I went back over.
We again had a dance and a giggle and a kiss.

and now I'm muddled up, I'm not going 'there', I won't be the other woman, I won't be seeing him again. I'm just sounding off as I don't want to talk to anyone in RL about it as it will esculate in RL, most of my friends will think I want him but its a no go.

and I don't doubt I'm the 1st with him nor the last, I also won't be at the pub quiz on his night!

But why am I led here in bed dreaming of him, damn him.

A bit of daydreaming won't hurt anyone - but, I'd leave it to being a pleasant fantasy, if I were you.

Lin

Sunshine12

westyw wrote: »

Well I was out again last night and guess who I bump into!

I spotted him across the room and after a good hard think last Sunday and putting it into perspective I turned away and carried on my evening and never looked back.

Our paths crossed at 1 point, he was passing me by and whispered hi, I smiled and carried on my conversation with my friend. That was it! and no I haven't spent the last week obsessing about him.

and I don't need a shower as 1 poster suggested as I didn't do anything.

Thread closed.

Good for you. You are probably too good for him anyway. :T
p.s Id ignore the shower comment too. Bit melodramatic to say the least!!