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  • shellsuit
    shellsuit Posts: 24,749 Forumite
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    westyw wrote: »
    your all right, I won't be going there, I do have the sisterhood bond and no way on this earth do I ever want to a marriage wreaker. Thats why I can't speak to my friend who I was out with. She thought he looked a real nice man etc and was saying go for it girl, she does know he's married but said if she loved him etc she wouldv'e been out with him.

    I think she must've put up with a lot over the years as he a huge flirt.

    Ah well he was good in my fantasy! I bet he wouldn't be as good in RL, lol

    You kissed him.

    With some people, just a kiss can wreck a marriage.


    The 2nd bit I've highlighted ~ i've never heard so much shoite in a long time.

    So his wife mustn't love him because she wasn't out with him? Behave!
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  • westyw
    westyw Posts: 7 Forumite
    No, I don't think it, but I do wonder about her. I used to see him out and about a lot and she was never around.

    I have seen her with him out shopping. He isn't as chatty then!

    She'll only know about the kiss if he tells her or 1 of the friends that he was with, I'm not silly enough to think I was his 1st tho.

    Maybe she doesn't mind, out of sight out of mind for her.
  • larmy16
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    My mind has been wandering tho, why doesn't she go out with him? He is a gregarious man needing a lot of attention, he is a loud man, at the quiz he holds court and loves to be the centre of attention. He was out with a mixed bunch last night that must know his wife, must've seen us kiss and danceing. He wasn't shy or secretive about it.


    He sounds like a total pain........one to avoid. Poor wife.
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  • westyw
    westyw Posts: 7 Forumite
    no, but I do see your point
  • westyw wrote: »
    My mind has been wandering tho, why doesn't she go out with him? He is a gregarious man needing a lot of attention, he is a loud man, at the quiz he holds court and loves to be the centre of attention. He was out with a mixed bunch last night that must know his wife, must've seen us kiss and danceing. He wasn't shy or secretive about it.

    She didn't know where he was really going

    She doesn't drink

    She doesn't like watching while he behaves that way

    She believes it is right to give him freedom out with his mates

    She has another activity gym/dance lessons/she is at home looking after the kids...
    Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x
  • viktory
    viktory Posts: 7,635 Forumite
    westyw wrote: »
    No, I don't think it, but I do wonder about her. I used to see him out and about a lot and she was never around.

    Perhaps she isn't invited?
  • MyRubyRed
    MyRubyRed Posts: 941 Forumite
    Walk away!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • jackieglasgow
    jackieglasgow Posts: 9,436 Forumite
    Don't you mean RUN?
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  • belfastgirl23
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    edited 28 March 2010 at 5:24PM
    My best bet would be that his wife is home looking after his kids. Not unreasonably.

    I'm really glad to see you know not to take it any further. A man like this is trouble with a capital T. There's an excuse for women who meet a man and not realising he's married start to date. But if you know he's married and go for it you deserve the heartache you would undoubtedly end up with. Good to see you know enough to know this :)
  • jennieshrew
    jennieshrew Posts: 348 Forumite
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    very silly girl

    why does his wife have a duty to accompany him to the pub?
    :A
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