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How..do you bring up a 7 yr old with..

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  • I know, my dad is a loser who never signed on, never worked, so we never got a penny! Things are fine tho she's down to just the three jobs!:D
  • lill
    lill Posts: 180 Forumite
    The OP said she already has. I know I would.
    did she? I dont see where it says she has??
  • lazer
    lazer Posts: 3,402 Forumite
    Nursebooby wrote: »
    ..a £5 a week contribution via the CSA? Almost a year of stress from the git, shopped him to benefits fraud, tax fraud..nothing from either..no feed back. He works the 32 hrs minimum, now on the side got a van and mower doing gardening spare time, partner a bloody bank manager..they even sell second hand cars on the side!! No one seems to care. Grr..sorry hormones :mad:


    His Partner being a Bank manager is entirely irrelevant - your children are not his Partners responsibilty. If your Partner was a bank manager would you allow the childrens Dad to contribute less because you have more to support them?

    Is he self employed? - maybe the profits from the business to low for anything beyong the contribution?

    Does he sell cars - or does his partner sell the cars?
    Weight loss challenge, lose 15lb in 6 weeks before Christmas.
  • ~daisy~_2
    ~daisy~_2 Posts: 2,566 Forumite
    wow some harsh responses here - not judging and being nice....etc etc
    :j MFi3 wannabee :j
    mortgage owing 04.07 £36,000
    mortgage owing 07.10 £0 !!!!
  • minimoneysaver
    minimoneysaver Posts: 2,222 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Some of these posters are getting some very bitter responses. MSE isn't what it used to be. Where has the friendly community gone?
    OP, I had the same response the other day when I posted a question. It really puts you off posting and asking for advise.
  • jamespir
    jamespir Posts: 21,456 Forumite
    Some of these posters are getting some very bitter responses. MSE isn't what it used to be. Where has the friendly community gone?
    OP, I had the same response the other day when I posted a question. It really puts you off posting and asking for advise.
    i think most people were freindly
    cnat see anyone being mean
    Replies to posts are always welcome, If I have made a mistake in the post, I am human, tell me nicely and it will be corrected. If your reply cannot be nice, has an underlying issue, or you believe that you are God, please post in another forum. Thank you
  • I can't believe these posts, um I thought we all agreed that absent parents should contribute, !!!!!! is going on???????
    Blackpool_Saver is female, and does not live in Blackpool

  • Gingham_Ribbon
    Gingham_Ribbon Posts: 31,520 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    lil wrote:
    did she? I dont see where it says she has??
    Nursebooby wrote: »
    ..a £5 a week contribution via the CSA? Almost a year of stress from the git, shopped him to benefits fraud, tax fraud..nothing from either..no feed back. He works the 32 hrs minimum, now on the side got a van and mower doing gardening spare time, partner a bloody bank manager..they even sell second hand cars on the side!! No one seems to care. Grr..sorry hormones :mad:
    jamie wrote:
    i think most people were freindly
    cnat see anyone being mean
    Have a look at your own posts, maybe? Was the '!!!!!!' really necessary?
    May all your dots fall silently to the ground.
  • Nursebooby wrote: »
    ..a £5 a week contribution via the CSA? Almost a year of stress from the git, shopped him to benefits fraud, tax fraud..nothing from either..no feed back. He works the 32 hrs minimum, now on the side got a van and mower doing gardening spare time, partner a bloody bank manager..they even sell second hand cars on the side!! No one seems to care. Grr..sorry hormones :mad:


    this is where it was said
    Blackpool_Saver is female, and does not live in Blackpool

  • lauren_1
    lauren_1 Posts: 2,067 Forumite
    I've been Money Tipped!
    The fact that you shopped him may have resulted in you shooting yourself in the foot, if he had to pay the Inland Revenue or the Social back (including court fines or any other 'government debt') the deductions from his wages will take priority over the CSA payments.

    The wouldnt give you any feedback as its classed as private information, the only things you are entitled to know would be disclosed in the CSA calculations

    Good luck
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