***Thinking positive Tuesday 16 March Daily chat

beanielou

Luc~So sorry that they are such !!!!!! as to turn you down.
Try not to let it get to you too much.Hard I know.xxxxx

Snaggles

Luc I know you must be taking it very hard, and it's understandable, but you will get through this - you will find something, and you, hubbles and bean (and maybe bean2 before long ) will be in a better position financially. Look at Bookie, who thought there was absolutely no hope, and going under was inevitable, and yet we hardly see her these days because she's doing brilliantly and things are slowly starting to come together for her. Never give up hope. :grouphug: And don't forget we are here whenever you need to get things off your chest.

Just to make it clear - it is NOT moaning. xxx

Lucifa73

beanielou wrote: »

Luc~So sorry that they are such !!!!!! as to turn you down.
Try not to let it get to you too much.Hard I know.xxxxx

I have actually been physically sick from crying:o:o:o

Need to pull myself together before Nathan wakes up and Hubbles gets home

Lucifa73

Snaggles wrote: »

Luc I know you must be taking it very hard, and it's understandable, but you will get through this - you will find something, and you, hubbles and bean (and maybe bean2 before long ) will be in a better position financially. Look at Bookie, who thought there was absolutely no hope, and going under was inevitable, and yet we hardly see her these days because she's doing brilliantly and things are slowly starting to come together for her. Never give up hope. :grouphug: And don't forget we are here whenever you need to get things off your chest.

Just to make it clear - it is NOT moaning. xxx

You're right Snaggs. Feels like I've been punched in the gut.

But it could be worse.

Maybe I should put that in my sig....

teabythesea

Ghost have you tried looking at right move? This is the place we are interested in please don't take it hehe! http://www.rightmove.co.uk/property-to-rent/property-28810247.html?backToListURL=/user/shortlist.html%3Ftype%3DLETTING It's cute enough and big enough for now really

schoolrunmum

Oh Luc-I'm truly sorry you didn't get the interview,however I do think it's a great idea to write to them and say you would love to join them in future-bear you in mind....
Bun....hope you sorted ESTA out-and NO,YOU DON'T PAY!!! There was an article in the Times a little while back,about scammers setting up websites and charging you to fill in the details....
Back from hosp-obviously with series 7 of chemo for BF....
Now,lunch and piano..and I might even hang some washing out..how exciting is my life...

Wow

BILLIE wrote: »

Hopefully our group hugs just might make you feel a little bit better.......

I have just stubbed my toe, does that qualify for a group hug?


Probably not.:(

Bunnyinthelights

Luc,
I really wish I could come over right now and give you a massive hug, pass you tissues and make you endless cups of tea.

I know it feels like they 'dont want you' but they haven't MET you, only a few bits written on pieces of paper-nothing can convey YOU unless they meet you and sadly, they had (for the minute) passed up an amazing opportunity to do so.

I know now probably isnt the time to give suggestions-but maybe you sould try doing self employed like Sammy suggested? It cant be any worse than not working...and at least you would be getting back into the 'swing' of things?

Feel free to tell me to naff off...

Snaggles

Lucifa73 wrote: »

You're right Snaggs. Feels like I've been punched in the gut.

But it could be worse.

Maybe I should put that in my sig....

It could be worse yes - it's not a whole lot of consolation when you feel like you just want to hide under the duvet and cry all day though.

We wont let you give in though, you do realise that, don't you.

Have a good cry, then go and wash your face, put some mascara and lipgloss on (it makes you less likely to cry again if you know you will end up looking like something from Kung Fu Panda :rotfl:) then make a cup of coffee or tea and relax for a few minutes, take some deep breaths and think nice thoughts (about Sunday night ).

You're having a bad day, and you are going through a really difficult patch in your life, but it is only a difficult patch, and you know from previous even worse patches that it will get better, and you will be happy again.

:grouphug: I'm going to have to stop giving you dodgy hugs now or people will start to talk!

Can you get out for a little run today at all? Only a little one though, it's just to lift your spirits and bring some of your energy back. If not, find a cupboard or a hotspot to tidy. Anything that will make you feel like you have achieved something and wrenched back control of the day from the bad day gremlins.

gonzo127

i cant believe how much rent is in London as thats more than my mortgage