•○•○•○• 13/14th Weekend Chat •○•○•○•

LouiseJ

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

Or just completely rude T wats?

That is odd Lou, cos honestly you are lovely and such a good friend.
I think to be honest we are all a bit all over the show at the moment, lets just hang on to getting the stuff done that needs to be done and worry about freaky work people another time?

Many hugs xxxxx

Yes Buffy............you are right, I quite like being the freak so they are the boring ones and I have much more important things to focus on.

We have a challenge to be getting on with have we not:D

Snaggles

Well, I'm very glad that 'ironing' has made you so smiley.

ZTD

Snaggles wrote: »

Well, I'm very glad that 'ironing' has made you so smiley.

It's pressing the button and seeing it all whoosing out...

LouiseJ

Right, I am going to ask you all a question and I would like you to be brutally honest.................

Has anyone who has met me IRL ever felt uncomfortable or intimidated by my presence or have I given off (dont talk to me you are not good enough) signals??

Even in the slightest?

Lucifa73

Snaggles wrote: »

Well, I'm very glad that 'ironing' has made you so smiley.

Didn't you know its one of my favourite pastimes....

Buffythedebtslayer

LouiseJ wrote: »

Yes Buffy............you are right, I quite like being the freak so they are the boring ones and I have much more important things to focus on.

We have a challenge to be getting on with have we not:D

Just to clarify they are the freaks not you!

And yes we do my dear! Pringles were the horrid prawn cocktail ones so I shall be ok. might have to go healthyeating shopping tomorrow after work tho.


big hugs xxx

Buffythedebtslayer

LouiseJ wrote: »

Right, I am going to ask you all a question and I would like you to be brutally honest.................

Has anyone who has met me IRL ever felt uncomfortable or intimidated by my presence or have I given off (dont talk to me you are not good enough) signals??

Even in the slightest?

Jesus Christ NO, blimey in Manchester you were so friendly and I was terrified, you made me feel at ease, not intimidating at all!

xxx

spud30

Good luck with your challenge Lou and Buffy xxx

ZTD

LouiseJ wrote: »

Right, I am going to ask you all a question and I would like you to be brutally honest.................

Has anyone who has met me IRL ever felt uncomfortable or intimidated by my presence or have I given off (dont talk to me you are not good enough) signals??

Even in the slightest?

No. Not in the slightest.

To be brutally honest in return: Lou, you're a babe. Some women can't deal with being "shown up". Just bear that in mind.

Snaggles

I have the opposite problem - I always hold people at a bit of a distance and very touchy-feely people who are very friendly towards me make me feel uncomfortable, particularly at first. It takes me a long time to let people get close. I can only be so close to you lot because we got to know each other online gradually, and because of that, I've become comfortable with the close friendships we have formed.

Same with partners - I am always attracted to people who are a little bit distant. Then I wonder what I have done wrong to make them act distant. :rotfl:

I'm such a f*ck up!


ETA - Lou, absolutely not hon.