Not Sure How To Take This?

meerustar

essexhoney wrote:

i sent the item yesterday as i had a feeling that i wouldnt be about today to do so (couldnt have been more right my waters broke this morning am just about to leave for the hospital :eek: )

:j CONGRATULATIONS:j

I'm guessing your little bundle of joy will be with us now as your waters broke yesterday so I (and I imagine all MSE'ers) wish you and you family all the very best.

Is this the first MSE baby??? Are you going to call him/her Ernie Fortune???:rotfl:

I think we all should celebrate with a few :beer: :beer: :beer:

(sorry to go off topic, but an MSE birth is as good as any to change a topic, lol)

Good Luck

essexhoney

Still no arrival they sent me home!!! She is now 2 days late - officially squatting :rolleyes: :rotfl:
Unless i go on my own over the weekend which isnt looking very likely at the moment then they are inducing me on monday - finally the end is in sight :rotfl:

Thanks for all your advice on this one, i certainly seem to get them dont i :rolleyes: have decided for now not to leave feedback and see what happens Cheers all

essexhoney

Help! :mad:

Im now recieving abusive messages from this idiot and not sure how to report them, i had already reported him for the feedback and ebay are asking for the full email including all headers as they cant access my messages, but i cant work out how to do it on gmail does anyone know? Can i also report the abusive messages to them at the same time?

I really dont need this at the moment

hjb123

Is there no way of forwarding these messages - as if you were forwarding them to a friend etc. Are you able to access your messages okay in ebay? Is this person just emailing you - he hasnt pulled your contact details off at all - Im guessing that would be the last thing you need

Good Luck with baby!

mishkanorman

I would tell him polietly that you dont take kindly to harrasment and considering you have his home mail address you suggest unless he would like the police to become involved he refrains from any further contact.

print off everything you get, and although its the last thing you need right now the rage might force you into labour !!!!


mishka


PS pm his ebay id so i know if i ever come across the pr8t

FloFlo

Just wanted to say all the best and that some people are idiots - I would definitely leave a neg and then add him to blocked bidders list.

angelcake

Hi, awww didn't seem so long ago I had my lil lad, he is 8 months now!! - it goes so quickly so real try not to let idiots like this get to you! can't hubby deal with it? - we are not allowed and soo will tell us off but quickly post the id or pm me so I can block him (and am sure a whole loada peeps will to!). You could try phoning ebay and say you are worried about the harassment. Personally I would cancel cheque and send it back to him and tell him where to go!! :mad:

Hope the birth goes ok. :beer: Take Care xxxx

essexhoney

i have left him neutral feedback since recieving the last email from him quite simply stating that he wanted the item before payment cleared and implied negative feedback would be left if i didnt do so.
Since then i have had 4 more abusive emails! :mad: I replied to the first one stating that if he continued to be abusive then i would report him to ebay though it doesnt seem to have bothered him :rolleyes:

Some extracts from some of the emails i have recieved are:

Just read your spitefulvindictive grey fb -reflects your mindset that you want it all and more besides.
Cost papersheetpacking=10p retained for ebay inspection.

I never expect(qv implies) from any seller that i receive goods in advance of payment you lie about me in public in a cowardly way.

If you really are 9 mths pregnant as you claim then you still have to use a PstOff or bank to cash your wkly child-benefit girocheques-OK.

There was never any (blackmail) implied neg feedback on my part - you lie.
My long trckrecord speaks volumes.
Other sellers would have used a padded jiffy bag costing about £1 - so why cant you.

Sellers like you have a black-widow-spider mentality waiting only for only complimentary without any constructive add-on remarks.

Ebay doesnt need sellers who adopt your tactics.
i cant wait for your reply again if you dare.


There is a lot worse after that where he is swearing and generally being very abusive towards me, i really dont think i have done anything to deserve this after all i still sent the item the day before the payment cleared and sent it recorded at my cost, just to cover myself as i had a feeling i was going to have a problem with him

I tried forwarding the messages but it still doesnt show the headers to it which is what ebay want to see

Does anyone have the link so that i can add him to my blocked bidders list i did have it but now i cant find it Always the way when you need something isnt it :rolleyes:

Thanks for all the replies i think i would have gone insane by now if it wasnt for you lot :rotfl: My OH is desperate to let him deal with it he wants to tell him exactly what he can go and do :rotfl: and as much as i agree he aint doing it with my ebay account :rotfl: :rotfl:

hjb123

I can imagine that your other half will be wanting to deal with it - he wont want any unnecessary stress for you or your unborn baby! What sort of headers do ebay want to see? SUrely they should be able to get them out of your messages! Wont they accept them without headers?

essexhoney

the email that ebay sent me back was this

Hello ****,

Thank you for writing to eBay. I apologise for the delay in responding.
My name is Chip and I'm happy to assist you further regarding the email
you received from '***************,' buyer of the item you sold, item
number ************. I understand you feel this buyer is trying to
blackmail with feedback issue once you fail to post the item on their
preferred date.

To investigate this issue for you, I will need to see the full email and
also the header information. We're unable to view the emails you receive
in the My Messages section of your My eBay.

Please reply directly to this email and copy and paste both the email
and the email header into your reply. Please do not send them as an
attachment, because we cannot open attachments for security reasons.

What is a header?

Every email has a "header". The header gives information about the
email, including who sent it and who the recipient was. I have included
an example for you.

Sample email header:

Return-Path: <sender email address>
Received: from mail-pacbell.net (mail-gw5.pacbell.net [216.12.29.23]) by
ixmail9.ix.netcom.com (8.8.7-s-4/8.8.7/(NETCOM v1.01)) with ESMTP id;
for <recipient email address>; Mon, 23 Jan 2006 06:34:48 -0800 (PST)

From: <sender email address>
Received: from 207.314.221.68 (ppp-207-314-221-68.sntc01.pacbell.net
[207.314.221.68]) by mail-gw5.pacbell.net (8.8.8/8.7.1) with SMTP id
GAA15251;
Mon, 23 Jan 2006 06:34:28 -0800 (PST)
Message-ID: <35F5D568@pacbell.net <mailto:35F5D568@pacbell.net>>

Date: Mon, 23 Jan 2006 06:34:32 +0100
Reply-To: <sender email address>
X-Mailer: Mozilla 3.03-PBI-N303 (Macintosh; I; 68K)
MIME-Version: 1.0
To: <recipients' email address>
Subject: TITLE OF EMAIL
Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii
Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit

How can you find the header?

You can usually find the headers of an email using the "Properties"
function of your email program. I have included instructions below on
how to find these using some email systems.

If you are using a different email program or system, please ask your
email administrator for assistance or consult the Help files of your
email system.

Here's how to find the header information for an email using:

- Outlook Express:
1. Click on the message.
2. Go to the File menu and select "Properties".
3. Click on the "Details" tab.

- Microsoft Outlook:
1. Open the message in a separate window.
2. Go to the View menu and select "Options".

- Netscape Mail/Messenger:
1. Click on the message.
2. Go to the View menu and select "Headers".
3. Click on "All".

As a reminder, if you are attempting to retrieve the headers in the My
Messages portion of My eBay, please forward a copy of the email to your
registered email address and retrieve the headers from there as you are
unable to view them in My Messages at this time.

****, I appreciate your patience and understanding regarding this
matter and look forward to your response so that we can resolve this
matter as soon as possible for you.

Kind regards,

Chip Quinley
eBay Trust & Safety


But i cant seem to be able to find the headers on gmail i dont know whether im just having one of my bimbo pregnancy days or they just are not there :rotfl:
Im guessing from the email they wont accept them without the headers as i originally copy and pasted the whole email with email addresses dates, times etc with it to begin with and got that back in reply