A Payment A Day - Part 8!

Wesker

Another £50 from me today please

Still cant get my cat to eat i cooked a chicken leg earlier which he used to love. He showed an interest as i started to pick bits off it, but when i offered him some he sniffed it then looked away.
Its almost as if he has forgotten how to eat.
Its really sad as he has always been a very greedy cat and loved his food

Eager_Elephant

Still trying to catch up, I am at least now on this thread although I am back near the start!!!

Did not get a chance to come on yesterday so today's PAD is £2.50 to Barclaycard.

I have posted on my diary but need to rant, DH has taken out a loan for no reason, he has upgraded his bank account so it costs £25pm..
This is on top of the 4 x 4 he purchased off ebay on his credit card (£6000)!! :mad::mad::mad::mad:

I am so fed up, I know I have said that I will just deal with my debts and ignore his but it winds me up so much that he is doing this. (I think it is an attention thing and that he wants to be in control). Luckily we have no joint debts and only have a joint bank account with no overdraft which is used to buy animal feed!!

If I could walk away today I would have done but for now I have to stay.

EE

angelicmary85

Eager_Elephant wrote: »

I have to stay.

Is there a reason you can't leave?

Eager_Elephant

I can't leave at the moment because we have just started renting a bigger house as one of DH's relatives has come to live with us.

He does not know we have had marital problems and been to Relate (not many people do actually).

As he is elderly it would be a huge upheavel as DH and him would be unable to afford the bills themselves.

Also DD absolutely adores her dad and I don't think she would forgive me if I left and took her with me and I certainly would not leave her with him and he can be very moody if he does not take his medication.

Pathetic excuses but they mean a lot to me.

EE

Silaqui

Hi all, just a quick 25p for me today. It's looking good to be back on track for proper pads in May.
Sorry to hear things aren't good EE.

xx

sashanut

Hi all :j

Still not paid yet - hopefully tomorrow - but a small PAD of £10 to the LLoyds CC please Sashy - thankyou

scoobylicious

321 I think the pam ayres poem is brilliant :j & euro your corinthians reading is really beautiful
psycho I really like the middle kahlil gibran, it's so expressive & has beautiful imagery....I seem to be in a minority of 1 though :rotfl: really enjoyed reading it anyway I think it's good to choose something that you'll enjoy reading too as I'm sure they will be touched with whatever you choose for to read for them

scoobylicious

Wesker I really feel for you will he drink any milk? He'd get a bit of strength from it, and have you tried any cat treats? Waitrose sell little bags of tiny fishy ones, they're only 79p & my dog loves them! Has vet not given you any suggestions? Hope something starts to work

scoobylicious

Forgot pad again.... £1.22 to money tin please sashy

psychopathbabble

EE - hugs to you, if you don't feel you can leave right now for whatever reason, no matter how small or big, then its your decision and none of us will judge you for it! Hope you are doing ok xx

321 - that poem made me laugh!! I was thinking, I could even add slight alterations to suit them .

Scooby - the Khalil one is lovely but might be a bit too complicated if you are listening to me reading it.... I'm going to be nervous enough as it is, and I think it might be too imagery focussed to be easy (i want to say too intelligent but that isn't the right word!!!!)

Seriously though, thanks for all your comments.... I have a little while to decide, and I've start booking the hen do which is definitely the fun part!!