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Old geezers and gal's close to retirement on dmp's.!!

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  • nanna58
    nanna58 Posts: 971 Forumite
    Does anyone else ever feel like the head us going to explode ? i mean apart from the usual stress there are the things in life that get me so down Arrrrrh i wish i was not such a worrywart!!!!!! i worry bout everyone all the time.:eek::eek::eek:
    i will stop now sorry:o:o
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  • elsie52
    elsie52 Posts: 1,902 Forumite
    Hi Nanny and Nanna

    Glad to see you back Nanny, as you say there is loads to read up on.!! :D

    Nanna.....wot you worrying about now.!! Seriously I know what you mean, I can worry for England, and if I've not got anything to worry about, I worry then why its all going smoothly.!! :mad:


    June 2010 - 11/56 lbs Weight to lose before May 2011.

  • mrsinvisible
    mrsinvisible Posts: 1,310 Forumite
    Hi all, if I sold mine they'd think from the size it was abogof offer.:eek::eek: well, family visit over, they didnt stay for tea so we will have chicken 3 nights in a row to use it up. They ate the pea soup tho. (I said sorry I couldnt organise the brewery . But it went right over their heads no sense of humour) ah well, cocoa time and a biccy I think
  • elsie52
    elsie52 Posts: 1,902 Forumite
    Hi all, if I sold mine they'd think from the size it was abogof offer.:eek::eek: well, family visit over, they didnt stay for tea so we will have chicken 3 nights in a row to use it up. They ate the pea soup tho. (I said sorry I couldnt organise the brewery . But it went right over their heads no sense of humour) ah well, cocoa time and a biccy I think

    Hi mrsi...

    Chicken is good.......not sure about 3 days in a row, you might be clucking by the end of it.....why not freeze some?......Pea soup sounds nice though.!! Enjoy the cocoa, although I do like Horlicks or Ovaltine better.


    June 2010 - 11/56 lbs Weight to lose before May 2011.

  • mrsinvisible
    mrsinvisible Posts: 1,310 Forumite
    If there was an olympic event for building dungeons in the sky Id get gold. I think that girls at birth are injected with guilt and worry, we all seem to have our own and someone elses share.
  • nanna58
    nanna58 Posts: 971 Forumite
    Smoothly lucky our elsie :j
    actualy its family, well boys really , they see the "mom" fri nites they stayed last weekend till mon morning. back they came heads full of nonesense.We have worked hard for 2yrs to keep them in a routine with their dad and us while she is off with new bloke (dont forget not wanting to be a mom anymore) and altho i say it myself between us we have done a good job they are great at school and sociable happy . She is trying to spoil it i know she is.:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:
    Sorry pet nothing to do with here so ill stop.
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  • elsie52
    elsie52 Posts: 1,902 Forumite
    nanna58 wrote: »
    Smoothly lucky our elsie :j
    actualy its family, well boys really , they see the "mom" fri nites they stayed last weekend till mon morning. back they came heads full of nonesense.We have worked hard for 2yrs to keep them in a routine with their dad and us while she is off with new bloke (dont forget not wanting to be a mom anymore) and altho i say it myself between us we have done a good job they are great at school and sociable happy . She is trying to spoil it i know she is.:mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:
    Sorry pet nothing to do with here so ill stop.

    I know its nothing to do with debt problems, but its another thing for you to worry about isn't it. I know you have explained a bit about her leaving......she doesn't deserve the kids. I am sure that the boys do appreciate everything you and your son have done for them, and as they get older they will also realize who truly loves and cares for them. Trouble is kids are impressionable, and believe everything they see or hear, whereas we would take things with a pinch of salt.

    If it were me, I really wouldn't want them to have any contact with her, but common sense says that you can't do that, you have to keep things going for the sake of the boys, so that they can have some sort of relationship with their mother. I just hope she realizes what she has missed, and I hope that she appreciates your input into her childrens lives.

    Have a little drinkies, purely for medicinal purposes, and look forward to tomorrow with the boys.


    June 2010 - 11/56 lbs Weight to lose before May 2011.

  • nanna58
    nanna58 Posts: 971 Forumite
    Elsie she wants the money from the account i have been saving for them amd the family allowance.thats all she wants nothing else. her daugther tried to live with her father and she bullied her into staying with "if you go them that means you dont love me "Oh i have never felt hate before and i dont like it:eek::eek:
    Thats it done now no more mention:(:(
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  • nanna58
    nanna58 Posts: 971 Forumite
    Who wants a toddy
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  • elsie52
    elsie52 Posts: 1,902 Forumite
    Ok......we won't mention it again.....but dont give in and give her the money.!!! If she relly wanted the kids, money wouldn't even come in to it, as you and I know.

    Anyway, get a good nights sleep, and enjoy your time off work. :D:D I've got a day off work, but I've got a man coming tomorrow.to service the gas central heating.......so I will have to be up and dressed before 8 o'clock I really couldn't be so cruel as to subject him to seeing me with no make up on.!!:eek::eek::eek:


    June 2010 - 11/56 lbs Weight to lose before May 2011.

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