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Daughter is 11

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  • chriszzz
    chriszzz Posts: 879 Forumite
    CSA_Help wrote: »
    Try 14 years for a contact blocking PWC

    PWC who block contact for no real reason, are a disgrace, they are denying their own children the love of the NRP.
    Would they block the money you send for the child/ren! mmm wont take long to answer this one....NO they wouldnt do that!!!
  • CSA_Help
    CSA_Help Posts: 1,318 Forumite
    chriszzz wrote: »
    PWC who block contact for no real reason, are a disgrace, they are denying their own children the love of the NRP.
    Would they block the money you send for the child/ren! mmm wont take long to answer this one....NO they wouldnt do that!!!

    Defienately not

    Xmas presents from myself and the family were returned (i.e all clothes toys etc ) but money was never returned :)
  • chriszzz
    chriszzz Posts: 879 Forumite
    CSA_Help wrote: »
    Defienately not

    Xmas presents from myself and the family were returned (i.e all clothes toys etc ) but money was never returned :)

    Really sorry to hear the above I can empathize with you on this, we are in the same boat, they keep some of the things we send but send some things back and like yourself no money is ever returned, don't even get a thank you!! :)
  • CSA_Help
    CSA_Help Posts: 1,318 Forumite
    chriszzz wrote: »
    Really sorry to hear the above I can empathize with you on this, we are in the same boat, they keep some of the things we send but send some things back and like yourself no money is ever returned, don't even get a thank you!! :)


    Thats life though hopefully the child doesn't take after the mother .She only recently got childs surname changed in the birth certificate just before the 16th birthday .I wonder if the child knows what a scheming greedy manuplating parent she has been .

    Her time will come in more ways than one :)
  • chriszzz
    chriszzz Posts: 879 Forumite
    CSA_Help wrote: »
    Thats life though hopefully the child doesn't take after the mother .She only recently got childs surname changed in the birth certificate just before the 16th birthday .I wonder if the child knows what a scheming greedy manuplating parent she has been .

    Her time will come in more ways than one :)

    Thing is CSA do these PWC realize what there setting for their own sons for their future when they become adults, lets just use the scenario that their son has been good husband, spent years building and maintaining the home, devoted dad to his children, then the bombshell drops, his partner is having an affair or doesn't love him anymore and wants him out of the marital home, straight away she involves csa, he is on a low wage, carnt afford a place for himself, she then blocks contact, his emotions are all over the place. I wonder if the mothers of the sons are going to sit back and ever think that they were apart of making their sons lives miserable because they themselves abused their powers and helped to make men less important in their childrens life. I wonder if they will sit there and say to their son, thats the way it goes....I think not!!!!
    This scenario only applies to the pwc who blocks contact and the nrp is at their wits end to which way to turn because one thing is for sure, the government are not standing tall for the importance of the father, the pwc are allowed to get away with it at the expense of the father, the child and the tax payer.
  • CSA_Help
    CSA_Help Posts: 1,318 Forumite
    chriszzz wrote: »
    Thing is CSA do these PWC realize what there setting for their own sons for their future when they become adults, lets just use the scenario that their son has been good husband, spent years building and maintaining the home, devoted dad to his children, then the bombshell drops, his partner is having an affair or doesn't love him anymore and wants him out of the marital home, straight away she involves csa, he is on a low wage, carnt afford a place for himself, she then blocks contact, his emotions are all over the place. I wonder if the mothers of the sons are going to sit back and ever think that they were apart of making their sons lives miserable because they themselves abused their powers and helped to make men less important in their childrens life. I wonder if they will sit there and say to their son, thats the way it goes....I think not!!!!
    This scenario only applies to the pwc who blocks contact and the nrp is at their wits end to which way to turn because one thing is for sure, the government are not standing tall for the importance of the father, the pwc are allowed to get away with it at the expense of the father, the child and the tax payer.

    Did u read my book

    She will get what she deserves soon .She might have the money as you can see from my other post but can she pay it back .I have just a 3 page 2nd level complaint together abouth the case officer that abused her powers all for the benefit of the poor pwc .Case Officer will get her come uppings in the end also :)
  • chriszzz
    chriszzz Posts: 879 Forumite
    CSA_Help wrote: »
    Did u read my book

    She will get what she deserves soon .She might have the money as you can see from my other post but can she pay it back .I have just a 3 page 2nd level complaint together abouth the case officer that abused her powers all for the benefit of the poor pwc .Case Officer will get her come uppings in the end also :)

    LOL:rotfl::rotfl:

    Things have a funny way of turning round and one day the government will realize that they haven't been fair (might be to late for us to see) As the saying goes "|You only get out of life what you put in". Things might be okay for the ex now but everything has a way of catching up when you least expect it to, and actually I was reciting stuff out of my own book lol!! :p
  • CSA_Help
    CSA_Help Posts: 1,318 Forumite
    chriszzz wrote: »
    LOL:rotfl::rotfl:

    Things have a funny way of turning round and one day the government will realize that they haven't been fair (might be to late for us to see) As the saying goes "|You only get out of life what you put in". Things might be okay for the ex now but everything has a way of catching up when you least expect it to, and actually I was reciting stuff out of my own book lol!! :p

    Funny though

    This is a chapter of my book that is closed now

    She has far more than the CSA to worry about now once the HMRC and the DWP catch up with her which i believe has happened :)
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