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  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    Willsnarf1983 wrote:
    the way i see it is that in marriage that the saying

    'whats mine is yours and yours is mine' and inclusive of debts, it doesn't matter whether he cheated on ur or not the debts shud be split down the middle so if he is getting of lightly then that is not right either!

    i'm sorry but when u said muppet it sounded like you were out to get what you could.

    Will

    Remind me again who broke the marriage vows :confused:
    Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:
    Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
  • Willsnarf1983
    Willsnarf1983 Posts: 1,928 Forumite
    spud30 wrote:
    Remind me again who broke the marriage vows :confused:


    i don't nsee why that matters personally


    Will
    SShhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
  • cleanyspringy
    cleanyspringy Posts: 35 Forumite
    have we touched a nerve with you will???
  • spud30
    spud30 Posts: 16,872 Forumite
    Willsnarf1983 wrote:
    i don't nsee why that matters personally


    Will

    So...whats mine is yours and whats yours is mine matters, but the proper marriage vows dont.

    I dont understand your logic there, sorry.
    Is it better to aim for the stars and hit a tree or aim for a tree and land in its branches :think:
    Loves being a Wonderbra friend :kisses3:
  • lazy&indebt
    lazy&indebt Posts: 597 Forumite
    I hardly think cleanspringy has gotten off lightly - having your heart broken is worse than oweing money! I'd rather be in debt by a million pounds than have that happen to me
    Was debt free... then went travelling!
  • cleanyspringy
    cleanyspringy Posts: 35 Forumite
    yeah thanks for that - I have never started such a heated debate on here before you have all put a smile on my face!!

    oooh did i mention it was my best friends sista!! SCANDAL!!
  • Wonder_Girl
    Wonder_Girl Posts: 999 Forumite
    cleanyspringy wrote:
    oooh did i mention it was my best friends sista!! SCANDAL!!

    OMG! take the cheating lying b*****d for everything he has!!!
    All comments and advice given is my own opinion and does not represent the views or advice of any debt advice organisation.

    DFW Nerd #132
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Will, I think you are being thoroughly out of order.

    If I came along tomorrow and paid your debt off for you without discussing it with you first, do you believe that I would have recourse legally to come and get it back from you?

    Marraige vows dont mean sod all once you break "foresaking all others" as far as Im concerned.
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
  • cleanyspringy
    cleanyspringy Posts: 35 Forumite
    whos being out of order. i totally get the forsaking all others.

    I started this thread just to find out if the threats he has made to get the money back from me were worth the paper that they were written on.

    its five months on Saturda and I am still trying to be the diplomatic one, it was just nice to have sumint go my way for a change thats all
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    good for you cleany. At the end of the day, they chose to pay the loan off, no one forced them to do it. they should have checked with tiher solicitor beforehand I would have thought.
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
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