Gift or Loan

cleanyspringy

Ok - My soon to be ex-inlaws have repaid 2 joint loans with my soon to be ex-husband. :rotfl:

They total £23,000. :eek:

Now they didnt obtain my written permission to pay these off they just have.

Where do I stand on this - do they have any writes to claim this back off me or can I just tell them (mother-inlaw in particular) to get lost!!:rotfl: :rotfl:

lynzpower

I think they would struggle to reclaim from you

reason 1 ) its effectively a small claim court issue which the top limit of claiming is 5k

reason 2) you didnt force them to do it, theyd have to prove that they had reasonable expectations you would pay them back.

Sounds as if youve done OK there?

cleanyspringy

lynzpower wrote:

I think they would struggle to reclaim from you

reason 1 ) its effectively a small claim court issue which the top limit of claiming is 5k

reason 2) you didnt force them to do it, theyd have to prove that they had reasonable expectations you would pay them back.

Sounds as if youve done OK there?

thats what I thought what a MUPPETT!!

finally sumint goes right for me hahahah:rotfl: :rotfl: :T :T :j :j

I tell ya she is up there with the pauline fowlers of the world!! Any one would think I had the affair which i didnt by the way her beloved son did!!!! :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:

Willsnarf1983

i think thats a disgraceful attitude, it may not have been written but most likely still a verbal loan.

i know that ur ex cheated on u but ur getting of scott free, and u'll probably sting him for alot ofother items


disgraceful

Will

lazy&indebt

Willsnarf1983 wrote:

i think thats a disgraceful attitude, it may not have been written but most likely still a verbal loan.

i know that ur ex cheated on u but ur getting of scott free, and u'll probably sting him for alot ofother items


disgraceful

Will

Not sure if we can really make those judgements, we don't really know the whole story so I thikn it's a bit unfair to slate the OP when they after advice.

EDIT: Blimey, my spelling and grammar are disgraceful! I have an IQ of 127, honest!

spud30

Willsnarf1983 wrote:

i think thats a disgraceful attitude, it may not have been written but most likely still a verbal loan.

i know that ur ex cheated on u but ur getting of scott free, and u'll probably sting him for alot ofother items


disgraceful

Will

I disagree.

These were joint loans and the in laws paid them off to help their son.

I think cleanspringy has every right to feel the way she does....he cheated, not her.

cleanyspringy

Willsnarf1983 wrote:

i think thats a disgraceful attitude, it may not have been written but most likely still a verbal loan.

i know that ur ex cheated on u but ur getting of scott free, and u'll probably sting him for alot ofother items


disgraceful

Will

FYI - I havet got off scott free he has left me with £35,000 how does that sound!


no not a verbal loan have in writing that they would repay

also house being sold he has moved in with new bird I have to go home to house of folks:eek:

perhaps you shouldnt be so sarcastic without asking questions first of all

thanks for the post though:T

cleanyspringy

thanks spud 30 thats exactly what they did. for everyone out there, i dont hate him havent asked him for anything, Still ove my inlwas, god children niece and nephew!

cleanyspringy

exactly laszy & indebt - at least I am on these sights trying to find the answers out!!! :-)

Willsnarf1983

the way i see it is that in marriage that the saying

'whats mine is yours and yours is mine' and inclusive of debts, it doesn't matter whether he cheated on ur or not the debts shud be split down the middle so if he is getting of lightly then that is not right either!

i'm sorry but when u said muppet it sounded like you were out to get what you could.

Will

cleanyspringy

Willsnarf1983 wrote:

the way i see it is that in marriage that the saying

'whats mine is yours and yours is mine' and inclusive of debts, it doesn't matter whether he cheated on ur or not the debts shud be split down the middle so if he is getting of lightly then that is not right either!

i'm sorry but when u said muppet it sounded like you were out to get what you could.

Will

NOw if the people such as Law and lawers thought that then the world would be a much better place!

Apology accepted

But no I am not out to get what I can, I belive in the vows that I took and still view this whole thing a a discrace