MSE Parents Club Part 11

searching_me

nik tbh id be upset to but its sounds like theres alittle more to it .. speak to your doctor or hv if your worried sweetie .. and were here for you too x

jillie1974

ooh kindof this could be it!!

try having a bath, it helped me relax and it sped things up a bit as well.

i couldnt sit on the balls as my centre of balance was apalling!! was too dangerous for me to try!!

walking really helped me.

searching_me

kind im no help i went to bed .. figure if it was the real thing it would wake me .. and it did :rotfl: x

SugarSpun

Nikkit, it sounds to me that your OH's ex is just stirring, but even if she isn't, she didn't own the name and now Thomas is your little one and he's lovely and all yours.

:grouphug:

jillie1974

ooh i wanna parmo too.
do you think they could be posted??

(((hugs))) nikki

sounds like ex is stirring.

aless02

nikkit, try not to stress so much. It's ok to feel sad and emotional - if u start worrying too much about that, u'll stress urself out more, u know? If u ferl totally overwhelmed, pls talk to ur hv or gp!

MadDogWoman_2

Susan - our parts manager did hunt everywhere he could think of, but was restricted as we needed to keep the insurance company happy with costs.

Evening ladies, just catching up.

kindofagilr

nikkit72 wrote: »

hi all,
Heating and water all fixed , lovely getting up to a warm house.
A bit of advise if I can please , just found out OH and ex were going to call there child Thomas if it was a boy, I have got really upset over it , I haven't stoppped crying for 2 hours OH told me I am silly and he doesn't remember ever saying this with her, do you think I'm being silly or maybe she is actually trying to stir things its upset me so much I don't know how to stop crying , thinking our child is named after a name they choose ,sorry for babbling, I am scrared this sadness may lad to post natal depression , as I am so low , when I stop crying I look at Thomas and start again x

I would be upset as well (((hugs)))

Thanks Jillie, I might go for a walk around the block before I head in the bath? Im blooming boiling!!!!

jillie1974

kindofagilr wrote: »

Thanks Jillie, I might go for a walk around the block before I head in the bath? Im blooming boiling!!!!

i had 2 at the hospital and it was lovely. although by the time i was finished the 2nd bath i was 4cm. (i was induced)

make it nice and deep. not too hot and relax as much as you can. make sure OH is close bu to help you in and out.

keep us poosted on how you go. bet EA is dead jealous that things might be starting for you

BeenieCat

Don't go on your own missy!

nikkit, i know it's not the same but i worried about choosing a name that they might have discussed,but truthfully that was more to do with the fact i felt like 2nd best. I hope you don't feel like this because with me it was that he kissed her backside loads as she was the mother of his kids and i wasn't. If it sounds familiar then just keep reminding yourself that you are too, and he is with YOU not her.

Sorry if i sound like i've taken it out of context but a couple of things you said when i was on preg thread rang home to me.