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  • mouseann
    mouseann Posts: 1,820 Forumite
    elsie52 wrote: »
    Hi Mouseann,

    Well done for getting some kind of response back from them, that at least is a victory.!! I didn't get any post either, but that's okay. I had to ask Niddy for help on some that I got yesterday, and was really happy that he looked at it for me, another one unenforceable. We have now got 3 unenforceable, and 3 which still are not replying, and its over 7 weeks since we started the CCA route. They don't appear to be in a rush to get things sorted, but I certainly don't mind any delay at all.

    well, its still a blooming miserable day, the washing is decorating the clothes airer, such a nice touch to any room, don't you think.!!

    Hi Elsie,

    Great to hear that you have 3 unenforceables! Let's hope the others are, as well.

    Funny business, this post. You sort of dread it arriving then when it comes you feel almost disappointed when there isn't anything - at least that's how I feel!
    "What does not kill me makes me stronger". Frederich Nietzsche, 1844-1900.
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Insulin dependent since 1974. That is a lot of shots! I think of it as a free high. I dont need to pay for drugs i have free hypos and hypers everyday and get spaced out for free.
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  • elsie52
    elsie52 Posts: 1,902 Forumite
    I know exactly how you feel. I think I get myself mentally prepared to deal with what may arrive, and then when it doesn't it sort of feels a "let down" :( .I don't know why we want some post 'cos really its better for us when they don't reply.!! :D Then when I get something I am never sure whether its good or bad. Thank goodness for Niddy, he obviously see's things or rather sees things that aren't where they should be, if you see what I mean. I always think its bad news,:eek: he looks at it and tells me its good news.!!:T:T I will be glad when everything settles down. Although I don't get many phone calls to deal with yet, so that's a bonus.:D


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  • mouseann
    mouseann Posts: 1,820 Forumite
    Insulin dependent since 1974. That is a lot of shots! I think of it as a free high. I dont need to pay for drugs i have free hypos and hypers everyday and get spaced out for free.

    Bless you SW.

    For making light of something which must be an absolute pain for you, and actually managing to turn it into a joke! A lot of people would be moaning and groaning for Britain if they were in this situation!
    "What does not kill me makes me stronger". Frederich Nietzsche, 1844-1900.
  • mouseann
    mouseann Posts: 1,820 Forumite
    elsie52 wrote: »
    I know exactly how you feel. I think I get myself mentally prepared to deal with what may arrive, and then when it doesn't it sort of feels a "let down" :( .I don't know why we want some post 'cos really its better for us when they don't reply.!! :D Then when I get something I am never sure whether its good or bad. Thank goodness for Niddy, he obviously see's things or rather sees things that aren't where they should be, if you see what I mean. I always think its bad news,:eek: he looks at it and tells me its good news.!!:T:T I will be glad when everything settles down. Although I don't get many phone calls to deal with yet, so that's a bonus.:D

    I do feel exactly the same Elsie!

    And it is so good to know that I am not alone in feeling like this.

    Which is really what this forum is all about - well, among other things!
    "What does not kill me makes me stronger". Frederich Nietzsche, 1844-1900.
  • beanielou
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  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    edited 8 June 2010 at 7:07PM
    Nothing wrong with pizza now and again! I have to eat porridge for breakfast tomorrow! They didnt say anything about my weight but i now weigh 55kg, I used to weigh 47! I am a big momma now. I can still fit into a size 8 which is good but all my dresses are a size 6. I am going to have to go on a healthy diet. Oh no! I am not living on lettuce and rabbit food, i refuse. I cant eat crisps now as they have a high glycaemic index and are pure sugar apparantly. Oh gosh i am going to be a rabbit. Someone cheer me up!!!

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  • pixiechick_2
    pixiechick_2 Posts: 983 Forumite
    I'm getting loads of phone calls, 12 today so far and a text. You'd think that they would have realised by now that I am NOT answering the phone!!! Just think, all the payments we've made in the past going on making stupid phone calls like this.

    I haven't even started on sending cca requests yet but I still feel disappointed when the postman doesn't bring anything from the lovely helpful banks and credit card companies :rotfl:
  • pixiechick_2
    pixiechick_2 Posts: 983 Forumite
    edited 8 June 2010 at 7:22PM
    Nothing wrong with pizza now and again! I have to eat porridge for breakfast tomorrow! They didnt say anything about my weight but i now weigh 55kg, I used to weigh 47! I am a big momma now. I can still fit into a size 8 which is good but all my dresses are a size 6. I am going to have to go on a healthy diet. Oh no! I am not living on lettuce and rabbit food, i refuse. I cant eat crisps now as they have a high glycaemic index and are pure sugar apparantly. Oh gosh i am going to be a rabbit. Someone cheer me up!!!

    HHHHHEEEEELLLLLLPPPPPP!


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  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    12 phonecalls is a lot. Oh my gosh. Did you write those letters where they can only contact you in writing? I hope you are sitting in a different room and putting the phone on silent.
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