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Frightened about my future

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  • elsie52
    elsie52 Posts: 1,902 Forumite
    Tea coming up.....

    Its comments like that from people who judge without really knowing the facts that really upset and annoy me.!! Me and OH have worked all our lives, never been unemployed or had benefits of any kind, and then through ill health on my part, and having to take a lower paid job, was the start of all our debt problems.....But, whatever reasons you were to give, folks like that would always have an answer......all I can say is hindsight is a wonderful thing.!!! See now I'm getting fired up again.....

    Tea, calm , calm, calm.


    June 2010 - 11/56 lbs Weight to lose before May 2011.

  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    I dont want to do finance. I think i will leave that for NID and George as you have to be assertive to deal with that sort of stuff.

    I think Jinny would be good too. Look at the fab things she has been saying to the dreadful people ringing her up at home.

    Pixiechick well done, you could make education meaningful and make sure everyone learns how to be financially secure.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Elsie you can be the Minister for Fairer Supermarkets and can be in charge of making sure the supermarkets sell nice, cheerful things and they could have more whoopsies.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Ann for PM!!!!!
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • elsie52
    elsie52 Posts: 1,902 Forumite
    I'll be tea lady please.....that's about as much stress as I can stand at the mo.!!:coffee::coffee::coffee::coffee:


    June 2010 - 11/56 lbs Weight to lose before May 2011.

  • pixiechick_2
    pixiechick_2 Posts: 983 Forumite
    Pixiechick well done, you could make education meaningful and make sure everyone learns how to be financially secure.

    Don't think I'd be leading by example though!!!
  • elsie52
    elsie52 Posts: 1,902 Forumite
    Elsie you can be the Minister for Fairer Supermarkets and can be in charge of making sure the supermarkets sell nice, cheerful things and they could have more whoopsies.


    Oh yes, that would be good. I would pick all the expensive lovely things, that we can't normally afford, and stick whoopsie labels on them all, and make sure there were always plenty to go around.


    June 2010 - 11/56 lbs Weight to lose before May 2011.

  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Nothing like a good cup of tea. We must not let peculiar people upset us. That is how they cope. We cope by being nice. I know which i prefer.

    Elsie you are now the Minister for Tea!!!! Talking of which i am going to have a cup.

    :j
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  • pixiechick_2
    pixiechick_2 Posts: 983 Forumite
    Right, got to go now and go to my daughter's to play with my 18 month old grand-daughter :)
  • mouseann
    mouseann Posts: 1,820 Forumite
    elsie52 wrote: »
    Tea coming up.....

    Its comments like that from people who judge without really knowing the facts that really upset and annoy me.!! Me and OH have worked all our lives, never been unemployed or had benefits of any kind, and then through ill health on my part, and having to take a lower paid job, was the start of all our debt problems.....But, whatever reasons you were to give, folks like that would always have an answer......all I can say is hindsight is a wonderful thing.!!!

    You are so right, Elsie.

    I did read them - felt compelled to, really! And then it really made me feel guilty and like a second-class person.

    I just wonder if that is the sort of thing we should expect if we get a Tory Government.

    Let's just hope that they never need to rely on the state for anything!
    "What does not kill me makes me stronger". Frederich Nietzsche, 1844-1900.
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