Weekly Flylady Thread 8th February 2010

cally_c

Hi everyone,

been really busy this week & I'm sorry I haven't managed to keep up with the thread very well.
Lots of hugs to those that need them though !

:j:j:jPlease can I have stars for Mon & Tues, all done! :j:j:j

Thankyou again for the lists & stars, they have made such a difference,

toottifrootti

froddy that is so annoying that the parents didnt turn up and there you are giving up your time! hope you were well wrapped up for your match tonight and if you dont pop in before wed again have a great time at the gig!
FFP (((hugs))) honey - not again - hope you get things sorted out quickly and amicably xx And go to bed:eek::rotfl:
macpep IMHO I dont think a cyst and fibroids is something to 'left' - I would ask for a referral to the gynaecologist - insist that the pain is NOT bearable.
ZLJ sorry I didnt see this until now - I hope today in court wasnt tooo bad and its all been finally resolved for good (((hugs)))
Purpletea - I hope you havent overdone it today and made your back worse
tc3061 dont be disheartened angel - as you get more done you will manage to do rooms quicker - you are doing very well and sorting out and changing the wardrobes has been a big job and you have done it properly which is great:T
rach hope the new WM is a success
pigpen well nobody's BD will survive once you get going - shut them outside and then shoo them out of the garden - you dont need them - hope the day got better.
maralum I know its a bit late in the day but *KICK* - now get off the pc and do something you lazy person!!!:rotfl:

lav1979 wrote: »

16 week midwife check went well, i have a wriggly baby lol

dont ask me why because I have never met you but this seems wholly appropriate for you lav honey!!!:rotfl:
Sarah thank goodness DD is on the mend and feeding again - one less thing to worry about - and stop feeling guilty about your friend - there was nothing you could do about it and I am sure you will manage to make it up to her in other ways later - I hope you are now a proud 'honorary' auntie and the section went ok - How are MUm and baby - and what did she have???
ALIBOBSY you have very generous children then:rotfl: hope you feel better soon - take it steady until you are 100%
hello likklegibbon - nice to see you
AnW'sMum awh honey thats hard - but you are being so very brave that DH would be proud of you and he knows that you dont need to keep everything to hold him close - so deal with them as best you can (((hugs))) I am here if you need a chat.
pooh have you moved everything to check that the cats havent left something 'nasty' lying about? maybe you will have to think of having the panelling removed to check - Try one of the chef's candles by Prices's or they do an 'OPen Window' one - I find they really do work as they use natural oils

will finish catching up after tea
toots xx

pigpen

helen_jelly wrote: »

Pigpen - congratulations on getting rid of that bloomin nuisance :T and special congrats considering EX KH was supposed to be doing it wasn't he ??

No, he is supposed to be paying the loan BUT to$$er says the CSA said he has to pay £372 a month and he doesn't give me any money but does pay the bank loan.. So in effect I am paying the bank loan and giving him the remaining £100 the CSA say he should be paying..

THEN.. he says when the fixed rate on the mortgage ends un July he wants to remortgage just in MY name (bear in mind I have no income!) and ADD the bank loan to the mortgage so I am responsible for all of it and he walks away from me, the children and 20 years of his life scot free.. and he thinks I am stupid enough to fall for this.. oh.. he also wants £7500.. half the bank loan as he reckons that is how much he will have paid on it by July.. Prizewinning to$$er or what??

Toots.. cheers hun... fingers crossed tomorrow will be better.. I am potentially just winding myself up over nothing at all..

kazwookie

Hugs to AnWMum and anyone else who needs them.

Seen plenty of snow today, on my travels.

Dinner cooked and eaten
OH is ironing his shirts!

toochoosey

Went to the hairdressers, can't have our hair cut due to eggs in DD's hair....AGAIN :mad::mad::mad: so we are currently sporting greasy mops!!!! Have made appointments for Thursday....good news though...DD had decided to leave her hair long .

Came home, put 3rd load in for washing, washed dishes, had a chat with mum who popped in on her way home from work and then I found where DD;s TKD grading is tomorrow evening.
Was planning to go shopping in the morning but have decided to get on with the lists :cool:

Well done to Pigpen on clearing your overdraft, I am living off mine(albeit very small....can't seem to catch up with myself each week, will have to try and remedy that!!!)

Penelope_Penguin

Evening all :beer: It is Pancake Night in Pen Pen towers (DS is off skiing next week, and panckaes are his absolutey favourite food, so we're celebrating a week early ). Off for a bit of tossing, so maybe see you all later :j

Penny. x

helen_jelly

pigpen wrote: »

No, he is supposed to be paying the loan BUT to$$er says the CSA said he has to pay £372 a month and he doesn't give me any money but does pay the bank loan.. So in effect I am paying the bank loan and giving him the remaining £100 the CSA say he should be paying..

THEN.. he says when the fixed rate on the mortgage ends un July he wants to remortgage just in MY name (bear in mind I have no income!) and ADD the bank loan to the mortgage so I am responsible for all of it and he walks away from me, the children and 20 years of his life scot free.. and he thinks I am stupid enough to fall for this.. oh.. he also wants £7500.. half the bank loan as he reckons that is how much he will have paid on it by July.. Prizewinning to$$er or what??

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OMG the cheek of the stupid man - fight every step of the way in true Piggers style - we're right behind you and I'm sure that there will be a spare mule lying around to fling in his direction if needed

Helen

hollyh

Hi,

Pigpen he's being totally unreasonable don't let him get away with it.:mad::mad:

I did HH on the Wii fit whilst Tea was cooking, then after Tea i played Mario on the Wii with Ds2. I need sort out the kitchen, stick the wm on and bath Ds2, i'll get him to tidy his toys up first.

tc3061

pigpen wrote: »

No, he is supposed to be paying the loan BUT to$$er says the CSA said he has to pay £372 a month and he doesn't give me any money but does pay the bank loan.. So in effect I am paying the bank loan and giving him the remaining £100 the CSA say he should be paying..

THEN.. he says when the fixed rate on the mortgage ends un July he wants to remortgage just in MY name (bear in mind I have no income!) and ADD the bank loan to the mortgage so I am responsible for all of it and he walks away from me, the children and 20 years of his life scot free.. and he thinks I am stupid enough to fall for this.. oh.. he also wants £7500.. half the bank loan as he reckons that is how much he will have paid on it by July.. Prizewinning to$$er or what??

Toots.. cheers hun... fingers crossed tomorrow will be better.. I am potentially just winding myself up over nothing at all..

Pigpen Well done on the overdraft :T
KH - this abrev always makes me giggle, but is so suited to them!
I agree what a double KH! So sorry that's how you're being treated, you stand your ground. I actually get nothing from my KH at the moment, was getting £10 a fortnight cos he was on benefit, but even then that wasn't all the time (which is why CSA then added £2 a fortnight in arrears lol) and that's between 3 of them! And the reason why I haven't got divorced yet is because I wasn't feeling emotionally strong enough to fight him as even though I've been paying for everything for at least the last six years (can prove this) and actually beyond that, he reckons he should still get some of the house cos he put a few grand into it a billion years ago that he inherited! But funny enough will probably have amnenia to all the money he gambled away etc etc.

Penelope_Penguin wrote: »

Evening all :beer: It is Pancake Night in Pen Pen towers (DS is off skiing next week, and panckaes are his absolutey favourite food, so we're celebrating a week early ). Off for a bit of tossing, so maybe see you all later :j

Penny. x

You nearly gave me heart failure! I thought I'd missed it!

Toots - thanks for, as always, your words of encouragement.
And for making me feel better, as found out DS has been sticking up for me as some of his so called mates were horrible about me, and these are the little darlings I have let come into my house to play xbox, given lifts to and generally been nice to - but not no more!

helen_jelly

TC3061 - hugs for you too for having such a KH [EX] and for those darling little brats but well done to your DS for sticking up for you - moments like that are priceless and tell them to show some respect before you let them in again if at all

Helen x