Rictus uh oh the weekends running out thread

Snaggles

spud30 wrote: »

Snaggs, what happened :eek::eek::eek::eek:

He's apologised for messing me about over this weekend, he's explained why he hasn't been in touch as much, I've explained why it made me feel crap, we've talked a lot and neither of us want to end the friendship, I feel bloody miserable without him, and whilst he didn't exactly say so I know he felt the same, because he told me how much he enjoyed being with me (for the first time ever).

I don't know if I'm doing the right thing, but he's not another Shrek, he's actually a genuinely lovely person (which I hope you will see one day - he would have come next weekend except that he has a match, and no-one to look after the kids), and he pretty much said what Zed says - never attribute anything to malice that can be adequately explained by stupidity. I believe now that he hasn't been trying to hurt me, he's just been shoving his head in the sand because he couldn't cope with what life was throwing at him. So I am cautiously forgiving him, and hoping he will be a little more considerate. Who knows...

SuzySu

spud30 wrote: »

I thought we could have like a raffle. Whichever DFW lives nearest to said friend can go round and keep bottle of expensive voddy :T

Ooooh....fingers crossed said friend lives in Essex. No? Oh well

Snaggles

spud30 wrote: »

I thought we could have like a raffle. Whichever DFW lives nearest to said friend can go round and keep bottle of expensive voddy :T

That would be you! :T (She's just outside Manchester)

ps Bunny and Suzy, could you please decide between you who is making the pasta salad as I am not very good at being bossy. :rotfl:

elfen

I am home!

Been sent back with needles, wool and pattern. Am really tired for no reason!

SuzySu

Snaggles wrote: »

Bunny and Suzy, could you please decide between you who is making the pasta salad as I am not very good at being bossy. :rotfl:

I'll relinquish the pasta salad and go back to the spreadsheet Snaggs. Don't worry

spud30

Snaggles wrote: »

That would be you! :T (She's just outside Manchester)

ps Bunny and Suzy, could you please decide between you who is making the pasta salad as I am not very good at being bossy. :rotfl:

OMG I won :T:j:T:j

I've never actually had expensive voddy :cool:

Snaggles

SuzySu wrote: »

I'll relinquish the pasta salad and go back to the spreadsheet Snaggs. Don't worry

Aww bless you!

Pooky

Snaggs - Just watch out for yourself please :cool:

I can't understand why a bloke who has such relationship and friendship issues was/is on dating sites.....I think he needs to get himself sorted out before he hurts more people.


Elfen - did you have a nice time with your parents?

Butti

Burlesque_Babe wrote: »

ah right, I see. Is it like a DFW meet then, do people already kind of know each other, or is it literally random people turning up to a bar/hotel?

Unlike DFW at POF meetings you have seen pictures of some of the people, particularly those organising it. You get to see whether they look as strange as their pictures, or even more creepy.....or as P said to me. 'I thought you were quite a plain jane from your photo's'

He's a smooth talker!


B

spud30

Snaggles wrote: »

He's apologised for messing me about over this weekend, he's explained why he hasn't been in touch as much, I've explained why it made me feel crap, we've talked a lot and neither of us want to end the friendship, I feel bloody miserable without him, and whilst he didn't exactly say so I know he felt the same, because he told me how much he enjoyed being with me (for the first time ever).

I don't know if I'm doing the right thing, but he's not another Shrek, he's actually a genuinely lovely person (which I hope you will see one day - he would have come next weekend except that he has a match, and no-one to look after the kids), and he pretty much said what Zed says - never attribute anything to malice that can be adequately explained by stupidity. I believe now that he hasn't been trying to hurt me, he's just been shoving his head in the sand because he couldn't cope with what life was throwing at him. So I am cautiously forgiving him, and hoping he will be a little more considerate. Who knows...

You know we love you and worry about you

As long as he realises he'll have us lot to answer to if he hurts you. Shame he cant make it next week. We could've checked him out