Rictus uh oh the weekends running out thread

bank_of_slate

Hello everyone! :wave:

Well done on starting running again hypno :T

My frozen shoulder is really hurting me today, must have slept on it funny
...Linda xx

Butti

scaredy_cat wrote: »

morning Butti, how did your POF party go? i'm on that site and saw the events but am a bit wary of them...

I'm finding it really weird

(Before I say anything I should say I've been brought up with this view that nobody is ever good enough, including me, for my family - everyone is either too tall, too fat, too thin, too short, not attractive enough, out of my league, not intelligent enough, not academic enough, too academic and not practical enough, too old, too young, too poor, too tight - As you'll have gathered basically no man is good enough for me and I should become a nun. Although that would require a drop in income that would be unacceptable to my family

Hence I find myself single at 42 and trying desperately to undo 30 years of crap psychology c/o my parents)

Still looking at the positives I haven't lost my sense of humour.....and I did go out with a man last year who had 4 missing teeth and was earning less than me. He was lovely and very good for me. Didn't quite work out but did give me a bit of hope.

I got a lift from P, who is nice but maybe not right (trying to work out whether that is for me or just the family) Then spent the whole evening with him because didn't feel right abandoning him. If I'd have gone on my own I'd have probably spent the whole night standing on my own! Don't know how I solve that connundrum.

But I don't know, I think I got really really lucky last year because (this is going to go back to my main paragraph so feel free to throw things at me) the people seem predominantly quite rough to me. Loads and loads of skin on display and quite a lot of chest hair. I have been told I am quite opinionated and judgemental though (Insert confused smiley)

B

p.s. Please tell me if I need to duck

Butti

P told me at the POF party that I have a great sense of humour. Think that was the foot in mouth incident from work.

Workmates were discussing one day (predominantly male office) how oysters are supposed to taste like semen. I said 'I couldn't comment, I don't think I've ever had oysters'

B

skint_spice

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:at Butti!

scaredy_cat

Butti wrote: »

P told me at the POF party that I have a great sense of humour. Think that was the foot in mouth incident from work.

Workmates were discussing one day (predominantly male office) how oysters are supposed to taste like semen. I said 'I couldn't comment, I don't think I've ever had oysters'

B

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

thing is, how did they know ??

i was wondering of the events were used more as a pulling place rather than a social thing. i've met a few men from POF, and chatted to some who were 'mercy chats' and i had no interest in them but i didn't want to be horrid to them.

LouiseJ

Butti wrote: »

P told me at the POF party that I have a great sense of humour. Think that was the foot in mouth incident from work.

Workmates were discussing one day (predominantly male office) how oysters are supposed to taste like semen. I said 'I couldn't comment, I don't think I've ever had oysters'

B

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: me neither, to either:eek:

ghostmadlittlemiss

Butti wrote: »

P told me at the POF party that I have a great sense of humour. Think that was the foot in mouth incident from work.

Workmates were discussing one day (predominantly male office) how oysters are supposed to taste like semen. I said 'I couldn't comment, I don't think I've ever had oysters'

B

I have. They really do. :rotfl:
Kayleigh

Burlesque_Babe

What's a POF party?

ZTD

Butti wrote: »

But I don't know, I think I got really really lucky last year because (this is going to go back to my main paragraph so feel free to throw things at me) the people seem predominantly quite rough to me. Loads and loads of skin on display and quite a lot of chest hair.

And that's only the girls...

ZTD

ghostmadlittlemiss wrote: »

I have. They really do. :rotfl:
Kayleigh

And they're supposed to be an aphrodisiac too...