MSE Parents Club Part 10

jillie1974

have you been back in touch with the PALS Tara with the info we were all able to get you

tarajayne

jillie1974 wrote: »

have you been back in touch with the PALS Tara with the info we were all able to get you

Did it this morning, no reply yet!

tiamai_d

Glamazon wrote: »

Yesterday I put out 2 blackbags of clothes and today 2 black bags of [STRIKE]crap[/STRIKE] bric a brac, have also cleared 3 bin bags of rubbish!

Just need to polish and hoover the living room but J moaning so not much chance!

I think I will feel so much better once all the crap is out of this house. Will be easier to keep clean and then I won't feel like a fat ugly useless slob all the time. Nomatter what room you go in it's a pig sty. Junk, crap, rubbish and !!!! everywhere. So much washing and most of it is stuff that has just been left lying on the floor. Kitchen tonight. Detox of the mind by detoxing the house eh?

oh yeah, I'm borderline PND right now. I always get it when they are a bit older for soem reason. I shall try this time not to split up with hubby for random reasons that actually just stem from me being depressed rather than anything him doing wrong.

SusanC_2

tiamai_d wrote: »

Actually when can they get milk in a cup anyway? All this faffing about with bottles is doing me head in now.

Whenever you can convince them that a cup is a suitable vehicle for milk.

pigpen wrote: »

I was in HDU for 2 days as blood count was so low.. and all these papp women wailing about wanting drugs.. the staff kept asking me and I was like.. yeah right what for??? it's a bit sore but I've had worse paper cuts. Tell you what though.. the ovarian cyst was agonising by comparison!!!

Now when I had the next one and my bowel, bladder, muscles al tore with contraction number 2 I went... ooh that hurt.. started haemorrhaging and walked to theatre .. was 50 minutes being repaired and cleaned out with 1 spinal and 2 10mg shots morphine then had 2 paracetamol 3 days later for a persistent headache.

Third one I had the spinal and nothing else..

I don't think it hurt at all it was just bruised more than anything and a bit sore.. the stitches from my episiotomy hurt more.. but then I had everything stitched.. cervix, bowel, muscles, vagina, perineum.. everything.. my stitches than the bayeaux tapestry and not half so pretty

:eek::eek::eek::eek:

feelinggood_2

Poor Tia It is good that you recognise patterns from before. Do you remember what things helped you cope?

cazscoob

i have been slearing this place out aswell tia i have boxes everywhere with toys clothes are crap, i managed to gut the boys room when i took the cot down and had 5 boxes of toys that are unplayed with, 2 black bags of clothes and 5 black bags of rubbish!!! where does it come from?
you ok? have you got anyone to talk to??

searching_me

((hugs)) tia still in and out but my inbox is always there if you wanna chat xxxx

jillie1974

anyone any ideas on how i can get K to like bath time.

everytime we give him a bath lately he cries from when he's put in the water till we take him out. thought it might be the water in his eyes when i wash/wet his hair but today i didnt get any on his face and he still cried. just getting a little stressed about it now....

got-it-spend-it

Have you tried him in the bath with you, Jillie?

pigpen

jillie.. my second daughter always loathed bathtime.. she would scream hysterically.. it took 2 to bath her.. one to hold her in the bath and one to wash her.. at 2 we were still wrapping her in a towel like a newborn to wash her hair otherwise she ended up with soap in her eyes and everywhere. We discovered the paddling pool!!! Just a little blow up one.. about 2-3ft round.. blow it up put it in the kitchen and bathtime was silent!! She moved back to the bath at about 4