MSE Parents Club Part 10

tiamai_d

GemmaE wrote: »

Hi Tia,

No I was induced early and about 12 hours later my placenta abbrupted (? spelling) and I lost over 3 pints of blood had an emergency c-section and then had to have an iron IV for 2 weeks as my iron count went down to 7.6, which I understand is quite low.

Not quite the water birth I was hoping for, and combined with my waters leaking from 32 weeks I would like some reassurance about why all of this happened, and if my body could cope with pregnancy/ childbirth again.

I would like to do it again as until 32 weeks I had such an easy time and loved being pg, but if I can't do it again we would definitely look to adopt as I want at least 2 bambinos (preferably 3)

Aww huni, I had an abruption with DS2 (story over on the birth story thread).

The risk of another abruption is pretty low thankfully. They can scan you regulary, think about an elective c section (I really didn't want one but changed my mind once the pros and cons were explained) And look at me, I went on to have Amber with no pre eclampsia and no abruption after being tld to terminate her because it would all go wrong. We did decide to have an elective section though, decided it was the safer option especially after an emergency c section. Was completely different.

Deffinately speak to someone for a de-breifing, it's rough and you won't be able to move on until you do. And my PM box is open

Glamazon

GemmaE wrote: »

Confusingly I was due tomorrow, but got induced at 37 weeks exactly, aparently that was safer then leaving her to cook a little longer.

So glad she is here safely with no apparent ill effects of what happened over the last 8 weeks

Sorry that things didn't go to plan hun. We are here if you ever need to chat.
Had you finished work already? I remember we worked in the same industry!

newmoneysaver wrote: »

Yes, with my mystery guest

I am so intrigued and can't wait for Tuesday :j

MM - Manchester Airport is still abit far and I know OH would be put out if I !!!!!!ed off on a Sunday

SM - oh fairydawn!!! Can you send her a message for me??????
Tell her I hope she is OK and that I miss talking to her.

MOTM - Aw she is growing up now!

tiamai_d

NMS, tigger is so cute!!!

Weezl, sorry, I did see and forgot to reply. Thank you, and I got an unconditional acceptance top be confirmed in writing in April. just got to work out the finances now, and crapping myself at the big scary sciencey stuff. But, I don't know that much chemically, the chemistry was only int2 level. I do remember it though

Oh and weirdly today was the first time I missed being pregnant. Standing back in the college hall, listening to my old chem tutor droning on, I suddenly felt like Amber should be kicking me!

searching_me

of course i can glam x

GemmaE

Thanks Tia, might just take you up on that. Usually I am OK with it, but occassionally I still get emotional about the whole thign when I try and talk about it.

Think I am going to head to bed soon, might try and read for half an hour to chill out a bit.

Night all xx

newmoneysaver_2

GemmaE wrote: »

Hi Tia,

No I was induced early and about 12 hours later my placenta abbrupted (? spelling) and I lost over 3 pints of blood had an emergency c-section and then had to have an iron IV for 2 weeks as my iron count went down to 7.6, which I understand is quite low.

Not quite the water birth I was hoping for, and combined with my waters leaking from 32 weeks I would like some reassurance about why all of this happened, and if my body could cope with pregnancy/ childbirth again.

I would like to do it again as until 32 weeks I had such an easy time and loved being pg, but if I can't do it again we would definitely look to adopt as I want at least 2 bambinos (preferably 3)

Aw, I'm sorry to hear you had a difficult time. I don't really have anything useful to add, but I do hope you can get some answers. I know this has been discussed over the past few days, have you manage to write your birth story? others have said it has helped

aless02

Finn is very pleased to hear all your congrats on his poopies . Be back in a bit, someone's hungry from all the pooping!

searching_me

night night gem .. have a ((hug)) if you fancy it x

BrunoM

SusanC wrote: »

Although initially when you find out you are probably going to feel the same regardless of the person's intent, the intent will have an effect on how you feel about it more long term. The same way that if someone stands on your foot it hurts but how you feel about it afterwards depends on whether they say, "Sorry" or, "Ha ha serves you right I did it on purpose."

OK - I agree (it's what I meant by 'partially' ) but on the internet you will almost never actually know the person's "true" intentions so when they say "oh woe is me I am so sorry I lied it is because I am sad", you may be wondering if they are in fact still trolling!
But you're right, if you form an opinion on intent it will influence the perception

What I have derived from this is, if acetate monkey is in FACT Weezl with a big fake moustache, I shall stamp on her foot but then say Sorry.

newmoneysaver_2

tiamai_d wrote: »

NMS, tigger is so cute!!!

Weezl, sorry, I did see and forgot to reply. Thank you, and I got an unconditional acceptance top be confirmed in writing in April. just got to work out the finances now, and crapping myself at the big scary sciencey stuff. But, I don't know that much chemically, the chemistry was only int2 level. I do remember it though

Oh and weirdly today was the first time I missed being pregnant. Standing back in the college hall, listening to my old chem tutor droning on, I suddenly felt like Amber should be kicking me!

I forgot to say congratulations to you! Do you start in Sept?

I miss being pregnant at times too!