Trying for a Baby part 5....

Primmer

Ww2b - hugs to you and oh. Give yourselves the time you need. So
sorry to hear your news x

GravesendGirl - so sorry for you and dh, ((hugs)). You are welcome back here when you feel you are ready x

Gravesendgirl

Thanks Ladies,

((HUGS)) WW2B, sounds like you and your OH are having a horrendous time. I hope that it is all over quickly for your both. Take care of each other.

Today we are doing OK. Think it may come and go though. I am back at work tomorrow and am looking forward to getting back to normal life. I was lucky everything was natural and quick. I think I will lurk for this month and we will be back trying as soon as we can. Sure the fun of trying will help us heal!

madbird_2

Hugs to Gravesendgirl and ww2b and your OH's, thinking of you all xx

Well as for me....BFN this evening. Sorry to disappoint. Will leave testing for a couple of days now. I have dildo scanner tomorrow anyway. Still no AF so always hope. I'm fine, think OH more disappointed than me as would like definite answers.

Lets have lots of PMA xx

whowants2brich

Gravesendgirl wrote: »

Thanks Ladies,

((HUGS)) WW2B, sounds like you and your OH are having a horrendous time. I hope that it is all over quickly for your both. Take care of each other.

Today we are doing OK. Think it may come and go though. I am back at work tomorrow and am looking forward to getting back to normal life. I was lucky everything was natural and quick. I think I will lurk for this month and we will be back trying as soon as we can. Sure the fun of trying will help us heal!

That's the thing... If it was a natural mc then it would be easy, we could dust ourselves down, move on, and try again. But whilst the gestational sac is still inside her, my wife won't be able to move on. And since D&C is not pleasant (with a general and all the things they do, we'd prefer to wait and hope things happen naturally), we may have to wait a little while and pray that "things happen"...

At least you can put things behind you and try again and hopefully have better luck, GEG. As so many have said, ladies are at their most fertile immediately after having been pregnant... :T

gratefulforhelp_2

"Things" did happen for me, they gave a week for it to happen naturally and it did. How many weeks is/was she?

whowants2brich

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

"Things" did happen for me, they gave a week for it to happen naturally and it did. How many weeks is/was she?

6-7 weeks... and we are planning to climb snowdon next weekend, we don't want to find that my wife has a natural mc half way up the mountain..........:eek:

gratefulforhelp_2

whowants2brich wrote: »

... but, how long after a MC do you think we should wait before we jump back on the TTC bandwagon?

Its absolutely down to individual choice and how you both feel. Medics say not until after your first normal period, but thats for convenience of dating the next preg.

It took me from miscarriage in April until the cycle beginning first week of June to conceive again.

Has Mrswwtbr been offered the drugs method of starting the process instead of a D and C?

And I hope you are ok and not being overlooked, my DH was in bits for quite a while.

gratefulforhelp_2

whowants2brich wrote: »

6-7 weeks... and we are planning to climb snowdon next weekend, we don't want to find that my wife has a natural mc half way up the mountain..........:eek:

God, no. At least there won't be so much "stuff" then, sorry to be so gross.
She probably won't feel too good and it is possible to lose so much blood you faint if it happens naturally, so she needs to be near home.

Doglover

Still early days madbird - did you say you're 7dpo? Have another pop in 2 or 3 days time and try and chill in the meantime Hun xx thanks for updating though

I can't imagine any miscarriage would be "easy" but I do hope things get easier for everyone going through it xx

Absolutely nowt to report from DL camp apart from continued AF symptoms.

So gang, al a Fanta . . . Things can only get better! ( d-ream)

Big fat hugs all round xxx

As for some PMA I'm one of those annoying people who believes everything happens for a reason so whilst I don't always understand the reason I do find comfort from that thought. I also always think that there are others who are worse off to make me appreciate what I do have

gratefulforhelp_2

Doglover wrote: »

So gang, al a Fanta . . . Things can only get better! ( d-ream)

d-ream and the fabulous Professor Brian Cox...