Trying for a Baby part 5....

madbird_2

Evening all,

CD11 and high, but def some EWCM this evening, may have to seduce OH at half time:cool:.

I'm still tired so no change there. Sorry some of you are feeling low, or the witch has got, hugs to you all.

Perdi, there is something good about using CBFM for first time!!

x

gettingthereslowly

missymoo81 wrote: »

***tiptoes in***

Hi,

I'm on CD 28 but boobs have stopped hurting, but mood swings are horrendous, go from laughing and being silly, to wanting to cry. Am so miserable, doesn't help that OH is away, have been ttc for nearly ten months (I know it isn't as long as some of you lovelies) I just get so depressed when I know AF is coming and that there is very little I can do about it. Didn't realise how much the pill had stopped my PMT, seriously am struggling to live with it, just really hate everyone!!!!!!! Just crept over to the trying for 12months + thread just to see what it was like as am nearly at that point and my goodness it was scary!! I read the first few posts and everyone once they were tested has had something wrong with their baby making stuffs!!! I don't want that to happen to me..... but me and OH are getting to the point of needing to be checked....... aaahhhh am hating this. And a girl at work has just announced she's pg too, everyone around me seems to be getting pg or having babies, sometimes it just seems so unfair..... sorry I know that sounds childish, I just feel really sad for me and OH (.

Sorry for ranting just feel like cr*p can't really talk to anyone about it, and OH would feel awful if he knew that I was feeling this bad, when he's hundreds and hundreds of miles away, and not due home any time soon.

Sorry again, thanks for listening.

***slinks back out again, before she starts bawling her eyes out, AGAIN!!!***

missy x

I know the feeling as Im sure may others here do. and i think the 12+ board is a little scary at first. I keep putting off the drs but really need to get going just soo scared of being told that there is something wrong (how daft does that sound)But please dont feel sorry about feeling upset and wanting to rant. This is exactly what this board is for and we are all here to support you and send lots of virtual (((HUGS)))Stick with it hun. We'll all get there one day. And remember until she comes there is still a chance!

missymoo81

FF thank you for the hug hun, could really do with one right now.

GTF thank you thank you for your lovely words, that is just what i needed to hear, it makes you feel so much better to know that you're not on your own and there are people that I can rant to and that understand.

Much love

Missy x

dustystar02

((Hugs)) - FF and Missy, sometime we just have rubbish days where everything is too much. Pour yourselved a glass of wine and get out in the sun, you'll soon feel better.

Well CD5 for me so I guess CBFM will ask me to POAS for the first time ever in the morning :j. Strangely though today has been teh heaviest day in this AF so looks like AF will be here for some time yet.

I bought my CBFM off ebay and am worried cos I didn't reset it. there were no batteries and I'm sure the instructions said if they are left out for a certain length of time it resets. Any help?

Oh well, I'm trying to do a job application tonight an dit is doing my head in. It's a job I REALLY want working for my old boss and a 50% increase in salary. "Fingers Crossed Smiley Please Anyone?!"
Back to it then......

waterbaby

Missymoo and Feisty - I got hammered with pregnancy announcements over the last few days; four this week alone. It hurts doesn't it, proper stab through the heart. My mood has never hit the floor so fast.

Then again, in one of the conversations were two ladies who are both 30 and have not found an OH yet so despite wanting babies have no chance right now. At least we have a chance.

missymoo81

hey dusty thank you for your thoughts, fingers crossed for the job you want, you go for it hun!! Sell yourself, no one else will do it for you.

missymoo81

hey waterbaby, very true I guess we are lucky. And I have to say the girl at work who announced she was pg, has had 2 mcs so has been trying for a long time, so she more than deserves it. I just feel a little sad, as one girl has just gone on mat lve so will be bringing her bundle in before long..... humph..... just want it to be me that's all.... anyways where is some PMA when you need it!!!

madbird_2

Forgot to say earlier that Tesco sell soy isoflavones in case anyone interested. Think were £2.50ish for 30 one a day capsules. Good luck with job dusty. Missy and waterbaby hope you are ok x

Doglover

Good evening ladies. I am sorry to hear there are so many sad girlies at the mo massive hugs to all of you. xx

I know it must feel total carp and its really easy for me to say but you've gotta try and squeeze a bit of pma out. I know I probably seem odd but there are so many people who swear by mantras and positive thinking, I think it can't do any harm :cool:?!

We've all got lovely OHs otherwise we wouldn't be here (even though mine can be a total pain, I wouldn't swap him) and summer is coming.

I always (well mostly) try and remember that there is always someone worse off and for each one of us who wants our babies there'll be someone who's tried longer and is finding it all that bit harder.

We're all entitled to a rant (some more than others) and hopefully we can support one another through the darker days. But we WILL ALL at some stage be congratulating each other of our happy news :j so hang onto that thought. x

Anon12

Hi Girls, just after some opinions. Posting this 'anon' as I have a family member that frequents the boards, not that I think they will end up in this thread but hey ho...

DH and I have only been trying for a couple of weeks. We did not expect any thing to happen quickly. Now though my period is late by nearly a week, this is very unusal for me. I have take a couple of tests and they are negative. Any idea what could be causing this? I'm not under any more stress than usual. I know this seems a bit silly since we've only been trying a couple of weeks, surely pregnancy wouldn't be possible (especially with the neg tests)? Or maybe it is and it is too early to show up on a test?

Sorry to waffle. I was a bit hestinant to post, as I realise its such a long road for so many and I didn't want to upset anyone who has been finding it difficult to conceive when we've only been trying for a couple of weeks. Feel free to tell me if i'm being daft (DH already has, ha!).

Lots of baby dust to all of you