Trying for a Baby part 5....

QQuaver

How's Lily?:)

QQuaver

I read on another forum that CBFM stops reading the sticks after the first peak.
So after the first peak it'll always display another peak, high then low.

Someone tried putting low sticks in after the first peak, but the monitor gave peak reading, then high, then low. So after the first peak, you can save 3 sticks by inserting any old sticks.

Also, I heard, if you have long cycles, and you get peak on 11th stick onwards, the monitor will automatically ask you for remaining sticks to finish off the second batch of 10s;)

Save your sticks:money:

Evansangel

QQuaver wrote: »

How's Lily?:)

She's great. She made this noise ealier like she had been sick and was choking on it. We turned on the light (and possibly jumped out of bed faster than anything) and she had a small dribble of sick and was smiling :rotfl:

I cant wait for you to get your bfp, being a mummy is great!

Is this your first your ttc?

And good tips on the cbfm sticks!

I pee'd on a IC opk, got a faint line again. Darker than my old faint lines but not as dark as my darkest line... If that makes sense?

QQuaver

Does Lily sleep in the same room as you?

Yes it's our first. I'd love to get a BFP that sticks:o

Evansangel

QQuaver wrote: »

Does Lily sleep in the same room as you?

Yes it's our first. I'd love to get a BFP that sticks:o

Yup, her room is used as storage until we move

They recommened that they sleep with you for the first 6months anyway, hopefully she still fits in her crib for the next 3 months


Hopefully your next will stick, when we lost ours i thought i would never get pregnant again (im a drama queen i know )
Its hard isn't it? Did you ever think that that would never happen to you?

What is weird is now i have Lily i think, what about our mc baby. If i didn't lose him i wouldn't have Lily and i cant imagine life without her. But if i didn't mc then i wouldn't of known any different.

I dont know if because im happy i had Lily, does that mean im happy i mc'd?

Does this make sense? Im rambling :rotfl:

QQuaver

Evansangel wrote: »

They recommened that they sleep with you for the first 6months anyway, hopefully she still fits in her crib for the next 3 months

Oh didn't know that. I'll read up on those things if I ever get to it:p

Hopefully your next will stick, when we lost ours i thought i would never get pregnant again (im a drama queen i know )
Its hard isn't it? Did you ever think that that would never happen to you?

Yep, all the time:o

I dont know if because im happy i had Lily, does that mean im happy i mc'd?

Does this make sense? Im rambling :rotfl:

Not really, but may feel the same way if I get a baby in the end:o

Mum used to say I'm a re-incarnation of her mc baby boy. Seems I had a sex change though:D

Evansangel

QQuaver wrote: »

Oh didn't know that. I'll read up on those things if I ever get to it:p

Yep, all the time:o

Not really, but may feel the same way if I get a baby in the end:o

Mum used to say I'm a re-incarnation of her mc baby boy. Seems I had a sex change though:D

Ah, im also the oldest of 6 and i did a childcare course at college, so i had to know to pass exams

What used to get me is how casual people were about it. Someone said to me "Oh its ok, everyone mc's their first, you'll get over it" :eek:

I didn't actually know i was having a boy, i just wanted a boy so i just say 'him' automatically.

Then again, i thought Lily was a boy for the first 20 weeks. I didn't believe the sonographer and had a 4d scan instead :rotfl:

QQuaver

Evansangel wrote: »

Ah, im also the oldest of 6 and i did a childcare course at college, so i had to know to pass exams

That is handy:cool:

I didn't actually know i was having a boy, i just wanted a boy so i just say 'him' automatically.

My mum's was a late mc, 6 months so it was a boy. I don't know what mine was (10 weeks). I'm guessing it was a boy too:p

Then again, i thought Lily was a boy for the first 20 weeks. I didn't believe the sonographer and had a 4d scan instead :rotfl:

4D scan, how much did it cost?

In my case, people casually said things like, oh my wife had three mcs before we had xx. Don't worry you'll get there (and I was hoping it was a one-off):o

Another person said, well at least you got pg, you'll get pg again soon enough. My daughter-in-law hasn't conceived at all.

Somehow that last comment made me feel slightly better:D

Evansangel

QQuaver wrote: »

That is handy:cool:

My mum's was a late mc, 6 months so it was a boy. I don't know what mine was (10 weeks). I'm guessing it was a boy too:p

Thats sad when it happens so late. Its sad all the time but still

4D scan, how much did it cost?

It was £120 for a 15min scan in 4d and £20 for a disc with all the pics. My pics are terrible as Lily refused to wake up and hid in the placenta and cord ¬¬

In my case, people casually said things like, oh my wife had three mcs before we had xx. Don't worry you'll get there (and I was hoping it was a one-off):o

Another person said, well at least you got pg, you'll get pg again soon enough. My daughter-in-law hasn't conceived at all.

Somehow that last comment made me feel slightly better:D

I also had people rubbing my tummy and saying "Hows bump?:D" and me having to say mid rub, 'well actually i lost it...'

So my new policy is tell no one until 12 weeks.

MIL had 3 mc's. OH twin was one of them, and his nan had 3 mc's too. So it was easier to talk to them about stuff i found.

My mum never had any but always said "Relax and it will happen"
:mad::rotfl:

Also, i note your not in the UK. Im curious now. Where are you?

QQuaver

Evansangel wrote: »

Also, i note your not in the UK. Im curious now. Where are you?

Singapore:D OH works here.
But I'll be back soon though, hopefully after I ov'd:cool: