Trying for a Baby part 5....

QQuaver

twinklie wrote: »

CD 17....Peak again!

Time for:kisses2:

retro_bluebell

stef240377 wrote: »

Congrats to the new bfp's today, there wont be many of us left at this rate and we will be standing in the streets with placards to round up some newbies.

Attempting to dtd every other night now but head is so messed up with issues with ds1 that i cant get in the mood. So today am occupying my mind having already made enough soup for lunch and then froze smaller portions for OH in week. Tomorrows stew being prep'd into the slow cooker, chocolate cheese cake made, todays roast almost prep'd ready to go in oven and i have a bread pudding to make. After all that i may get in the bath.

Steph I have a feeling I will still be here this time next year still telling myself these things take time (insert rollie eye smiley) so I can take care of the street corners up here (Ive just read that and it definitely doesnt sound right but hey you know what I mean lol).

Hope things get easier for you regarding your son hun and you get the support you need ((hugs)).

Ive been to the beach with the kids an we played at throwing the pebble in the sea then sat in the car once the tide came in and watched the massive waves crash over the pier wall:eek: Was scary and exciting second day we have been own "wave watching".....in a bad mood though cos I can tell the old witch is on her way, Im moody, tired and I have what I can only describe as a dull ache at the top of my thighs iykwim?

*humph*:(

QQuaver

retro_bluebell wrote: »

I have what I can only describe as a dull ache at the top of my thighs iykwim?

I know that one - had it when I was preg...

Red_Rose

retro_bluebell Ooooh, I haven't been to the beach in getting on for two years. Your day sounds great! Can't beat a cold winters day at the beach (even with the vigerous sea).

Was looking forward to a nice lamb rogan josh tonight, but purchased casserole lamb by mistake so thats thrown that idea out of the window! OH moaning hes hungry and don't think he'd appreciate the 2 hour 50 mins wait for it. :rotfl:

Really nervous now! This is gonna sound silly, but AF should have been due tomorrow so every stomach cramp I'm getting I'm convinced its her on her way. Did a CB digital test Friday which came up with 2-3 weeks, so its probably irational thoughts.

stef240377

Having woken with PMA and a son in a delightful mood who offered to take the dog for a walk and came back home full of laughter, soon came crashing back to ground thanks to an inbox on facebook - my kids bio dad who disappeared when i were 18 weeks preg with ds2 who is now nearly 13 is due to expect child number 4 with his 19yo gf. They have been together 5 mins and ironically it was his ex who he left me for that sent me the message. Had to tactfully tell her i could not give a rats behind and then break it to the kid,s to hear 15yo dd say !!!!!! lol. I would not be able to put on her what she thinks of her dad and the age of the girls he goes out with but think along the lines of school gates and prison sentences you get the idea:eek:

retro_bluebell

QQuaver wrote: »

I know that one - had it when I was preg...

Noooo Im being soo good not to SS!! *fingers back in ears*lalalalalalala

twinklie

Oh dear Stef. Still sounds like your kids have their heads screwed on.

retro_bluebell

stef240377 wrote: »

Having woken with PMA and a son in a delightful mood who offered to take the dog for a walk and came back home full of laughter, soon came crashing back to ground thanks to an inbox on facebook - my kids bio dad who disappeared when i were 18 weeks preg with ds2 who is now nearly 13 is due to expect child number 4 with his 19yo gf. They have been together 5 mins and ironically it was his ex who he left me for that sent me the message. Had to tactfully tell her i could not give a rats behind and then break it to the kid,s to hear 15yo dd say !!!!!! lol. I would not be able to put on her what she thinks of her dad and the age of the girls he goes out with but think along the lines of school gates and prison sentences you get the idea:eek:

Oh god he sounds like a right catch him!:eek: Thats the last thing you need atm but just remember theres a reason hes your ex;)

twinklie

Incidentally despite my two days of peak being at the exact weekend I see DH, we haven't dtd. We were both too tired yesterday (both had long weeks) and today we've not had an opportunity and are going out as soon as he's ready to go and get baby nephew cuddles and tea at his bro's house.

Although, I'm not too fussed this month. The whole thing with my friend (which is still dragging on - sac still not passed), has scared me a bit and I think I need a bit of time to get full on PMA back. I know we could cope if I was pregnant, but I don't know if we could if it all went wrong or there were complications given our circumstances.

It's something we need to think about I think.

retro_bluebell

twinklie wrote: »

Oh dear Stef. Still sounds like your kids have their heads screwed on.

I agree! You are doing it right hun x