Trying for a Baby part 5....

balijay

PS has anyone any tips on how to distract myself from knicker-checking every 5 seconds? I am driving myself crazy!!

Murray

Congratulations on your BFP Daleigha! :T

I'll help fill out the testing list a bit, could you put me down for the 26th please GTS? Thank you

Not much BD action this weekend for me because DH hasn't been feeling well but hopefully we didnt miss ov (fingers crossed!). I think we'll try a bit of fun BD during the 2ww just to make sure we've got all the options covered! I still havent managed to pinpoint ov because my IC's dont seem to work and TBH I struggle to test at the right times & regularly! That might be why they dont work

I hope today doesn't drag...I'm not really in to Monday's at work Better crack on though!

gettingthereslowly

Murray wrote: »

I'll help fill out the testing list a bit, could you put me down for the 26th please GTS? Thank you

I've updated the earlier list

Metranil_Vavin

Morning all..flying visit from me as I am getting ready for the next 2 days at work.

I think I'm out for this month as did another test this morning and got another BFN. Not a great start to the week, and I know I'm naughty testing before AF due, but hey ho.

So a 2011 bub for us hopefully.

CD27 for me today so AF due tomorrow or Weds. No PMT signs as yet but have been getting a bit of spotting so imagine floodgates to open soon..typical it comes when I'm away and having to entertain clients :mad:

Good luck to those testing soon, and sticky dust to all.
X

tinkwings

Teenie_D wrote: »

Tinks I am so glad you are feeling better. I don't know if I will explain myself properly when I say your postings have been getting more positive over the past few days - I trully hope that does mean that you are healing, mentally as well as physically (although I know it will take a lot longer for the mental scars to heal). Take care x

Thank you so much for saying that you made me cry (in a good way) :A

tinkwings

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

Morning all..flying visit from me as I am getting ready for the next 2 days at work.

I think I'm out for this month as did another test this morning and got another BFN. Not a great start to the week, and I know I'm naughty testing before AF due, but hey ho.

So a 2011 bub for us hopefully.

CD27 for me today so AF due tomorrow or Weds. No PMT signs as yet but have been getting a bit of spotting so imagine floodgates to open soon..typical it comes when I'm away and having to entertain clients :mad:

Good luck to those testing soon, and sticky dust to all.
X

It not over until AF arrives honey xoxo

Metranil_Vavin

Thanks Tinks..but I think I'm out.

Feeling a bit rubbish today..the Spring PMA didnt last long did it!

A BFN first thing on a Monday morning isn't a terrific start to the week..coupled with having to struggle on the trains with my suitcase, being away from home for 2 days when I'm feeling most c*ap, and the inevitable office mass-conversation this morning about everyone's babies, kids, kids tv songs (accompanied by singing) etc etc..hasn't set me up for the week.

I actually feel really tearful again..probably a mix of AF and just general hopelessness.

I'll post again when I'm feeling happier and less likely to bring everyone else down.

X

gizmodo_2

@Daleigha :j Congratulations :j

CD11. Last night we BD'd and it was great. For the first time I was starting to relax and enjoy it I'm actually looking forward to more BDing tonight Last night we used Preseed and plan to for the rest of this week. Fingers crossed it helps.

@Fantafan, given your temp is up, it sounds like you ov'd. We're all so very different it's hard to know what's normal for a period. 19 days does sound short though. I keep getting told that stress can ruin a cycle, have you had a stressful month?

Ps. I was talking to my sister who is in the NHS and she said for me not to stress about DTD loads. It was better once (I said not twice??) a week so that quality sperm exist rather than loads of "dead-beat" lazy ones. (Not sure that was the terminology she used but you know where I'm coming from).

Hmmm, I know you shouldn't believe all on the internet but I've read much to suggest the opposite. Once a week will surely reduce your chances, because if the sperm only survives for 5 days max, then you could miss the egg.

Here's some info here:
http://www.babycentre.co.uk/preconception/activelytrying/timingintercourse/

tinkwings

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

Thanks Tinks..but I think I'm out.

Feeling a bit rubbish today..the Spring PMA didnt last long did it!

A BFN first thing on a Monday morning isn't a terrific start to the week..coupled with having to struggle on the trains with my suitcase, being away from home for 2 days when I'm feeling most c*ap, and the inevitable office mass-conversation this morning about everyone's babies, kids, kids tv songs (accompanied by singing) etc etc..hasn't set me up for the week.

I actually feel really tearful again..probably a mix of AF and just general hopelessness.

I'll post again when I'm feeling happier and less likely to bring everyone else down.

X

You take care honey sending HUGS hugs xoxo :A

Murray

gizmodo wrote: »

CD11. Last night we BD'd and it was great. For the first time I was starting to relax and enjoy it I'm actually looking forward to more BDing tonight Last night we used Preseed and plan to for the rest of this week. Fingers crossed it helps.

I'm really pleased it's getting easier for you! I remember the first time that I could relax and enjoy it - it felt like a huge breakthrough! Here's to lots more relaxed and enjoyable BD'ing in future! :beer: