Trying for a Baby part 5....

Metranil_Vavin

aww Tiger..hope you're ok hon xxx

I know its naughty to test early, but i did do it for a reason.

Still naughty though I know..those FR tests are eight quid each!! :eek:

sleepytiger

hehe we've all been there. I did the same just before Christmas. :D:D

fantafan

sleepytiger wrote: »

Congratulations on the BFP daleigha. Happy Mothers Day indeed!:beer:

Could it just be taking a wee bit longer than average for your cycles to settle down Fanta? Maybe best to try the fuzz method - at it like bunnies

Slap on the wrist for early testing MV. You know better than that!! Now :money:is going to come to you in your dreams and shout at you for not being MSE.

As for me, CD7 here and feeling like its never going to happen. OH's problem has reared its head again, and aside from making me feel as attractive as something very unattractive, like maybe a headless fox mashed into the road, no swimmers = no BFP.

It's nothing to do with not being attractive the blokes thing, they can be as sensitive as females...honestly from having a 6 foot odd blokes blokes, they feel the pressure. Make more of an event of it, bath relax(says she who hasn't had it in over a week and he's still poorly). The more I want him to "deliver" the less it happens. They're sensitive souls underneath the scent de homme. x

fantafan

Ps. I was talking to my sister who is in the NHS and she said for me not to stress about DTD loads. It was better once (I said not twice??) a week so that quality sperm exist rather than loads of "dead-beat" lazy ones. (Not sure that was the terminology she used but you know where I'm coming from).

And....she doesn't think I'm CDing either. I don't either now. Will see what machine says tomorrow as you can make it 5 days in if you trick it a bit :0)

sleepytiger

fantafan wrote: »

It's nothing to do with not being attractive the blokes thing, they can be as sensitive as females...honestly from having a 6 foot odd blokes blokes, they feel the pressure. Make more of an event of it, bath relax(says she who hasn't had it in over a week and he's still poorly). The more I want him to "deliver" the less it happens. They're sensitive souls underneath the scent de homme. x

Thanks fanta. Its a bit of an ongoing problem with OH which has been happening since we first got together. Logically I know its nothing to do with me, and I'm not even OVing so shouldn't really care, but its hard not to feel like its somehow my fault. I ended up locking myself in the bathroom last night and having a wee cry. For this reason I have never mentioned anything about the process, right times to do it etc to him.- cause then there'd be no chance.

Phew, I'm glad I have you lot for support.

fantafan

Aw Tiger, we've all been there and mine was that I was keeping times from him and surprisingly he'd rather know and wants us to "plan". He's been poorly since but here's to the future "clink-clink".

I think if I were a bloke, I'd really be trying to please the woman... and hell we all know how difficult it is to make us deliver!

Metranil_Vavin

Tiger I second what Fanta has said...blokes are incredibly sensitive souls..especially when it comes to their virility and supposed 'prowess'!

I had a simillar experience this month with OH. It was partly my fault as I was dragging him off to DTD in a really clinical way...'its the right day! come on lets have a quickie!' and it was a bit strained to say the least!

Thats another reason why I want to get preg sooner rather than later. This whole thing is a bit stressful, and I think unless you get it under control, it can put strain on a r'ship.

OH is as desperate for a bub as I am though, so he knows the drill! He has said though that next month he's going to be 'in charge' of the BD'ing!!! cant wait to see what that means!!! :rotfl:

Got a splitting headache this evening, and have had a bit more brownish spotting, so guessing its AF knocking.

I may buckle and do another test in the morning...naughty I know, but I'm away from home for the next 2 nights and dont really want to cart preg tests with me...+ there is going to be booze at this thing....

princessk1

Evening all and Happy Mothers day to everyone! Ivbeen lurking this week due to being ill,had horrible food poisoning last week then caught a cold!
On cd25 now and feeling horribly nauseous and bloated,am hoping AF isnt on the way
Congrats to all the BFPs and fingers crossed to everyone testing in the next couple of days!:j

BigSister2008

daleigha wrote: »

Morning girls!!

Well I POAS today - two days earlier than I said I was going to, but AF was due today and there was no show......so I got BFP!! :jCan't believe it - don't think it's sunk in yet!! Eek!!

Congrats :j:j:j:j:j

tinkwings

daleigha wrote: »

Morning girls!!

Well I POAS today - two days earlier than I said I was going to, but AF was due today and there was no show......so I got BFP!! :jCan't believe it - don't think it's sunk in yet!! Eek!!

:jHuge Congrats :j:j