Trying for a Baby part 5....

gettingthereslowly

Congrats Rik on your BFP :j Fingers crossed for a healthy 8 months

Penny i'm so pleased for you that the bleeding has stopped!!

Nothing really to report. Waiting for AF which is due soon (my 28th birthday tom so hoping she's one present I dont get :rotfl: but she can shift and come on Thurs!) Back to TTC then :j:j

Sticky baby dust to all xxxxxxx

retro_bluebell

Thanks girlies I suck I know lol Always get down halfway through Af then PMA comes back but been feeling extra depressed this month....maybe I need to buy some shoes or something?? No??

Maddie

Primmer wrote: »

CD means cycle day and so if you sat Cd1 then you arevon first day of your cycle.
BD - means baby dance

And in the totally confusing language of TTC talk BD = baby dance = s*x

lolly1981

RANT ALERT!!!

why are some people soooooo insensitive .....a friend of mine is slowly becoming the city bike (even tho she doesnt see it as a problem as she oftens sleeps with the same bloke and not new ones) she has a son already and this time last year she got PG and didnt know who the dad was...she decided she couldnt keep the baby...couldnt deal with not knowing and also ds1 and a newbie...so she terminated the PG....she has then spent the last year saying oh my baby wouldve been due now...oh im broody etc...and now after being stupid again , and again ,and again, she thinks she might be PG agin...i think this is just a attention thing but it still annoys me.
she knows i am TTC and how much i would like another...and shes always going oh im so fertile a bloke only has to look at me...well keep you fing knickers on then!!!!

she was seeing this guy who got jealous when she talked to other men...she turns around and says maybe i should get fat then noone will fancy me...to me who is 5ft 2 14 1/2 stone and a size 20!!!! gee thanks love you too.

sorry but shes really got my back up....just needed a rant!!

that aside...still no sign of AF ...but still no BFP

gratefulforhelp_2

I don't mean to upset you, but it sounds like your "friend" is not one, and barely a person at that, IMHO.

lolly1981

its strange..sometimes i wonder why i bother...but i dont have many friends where i live..she is someone i have known 10 years she was a friend when i was a teen and acted the same (not the PG business) my OH things shes a pain in the !!!! lol.
she just doesnt think when she opens her mouth (thats the least of her problems but you know what i mean)...shes a size 8 and she says she needs to lose weight...im like youre hardly big...and she said she doesnt want to get big...we then got onto the discussion that it was the pill that caused me to put on weight and we all know its easier to put on then get off...she was like ohhhh im on the same pill i havent had a problem with it...grrrr!!
sorry...i think im just having a down day...me and OH have been together 2 and half years almost, we're in a loving realtionship but its so hard for us and not the village bike!

ETA i dont usually !!!!! behind peoples back...maybe AF is on her way!

QQuaver

tinkwings wrote: »

I wish I had a magic wand and could make each of you have a BFP and a safe & happy proceeding 8 months. If I could I hope you know that I would in a heartbeat. xoxo :A

Can you just pretend you have a magic wand, and do a spell on me? I'll let you know if it worked or not:D

retro_bluebell wrote: »

Thanks LL- I feel like a complete cow now typing that post sorry if Ive upset anyone

Nothing to be sorry for, we all feel like that sometimes:)
Perhaps you should get some shoes!:j

lolly1981, I think your friend is jealous of you because you have found a great man to properly ttc with:o

Sparkle1980

Lolly, don't let the silly moo get to you - I have a friend who is exactly the same.... She says anything she can to make me feel inferior I'm sure....
She always has to be the best, have the best, and get one better....

For example, a fortnight ago I told her that we are saving for a new car for when we eventually get a family - told her what type, and guess what she and her hubby went out and ordered this weekend just gone - yes, you got it! A brand new car, of the very same type that we want! I'm sure she's done it just to get at me... but, I let her ride over my head now, no use getting upset over her (although it is easier said than done sometimes....)

I agree with Quaver, that she's probably jealous that you're going to have a little happy family.....

A x

MERFE

QQuaver wrote: »

lolly1981, I think your friend is jealous of you because you have found a great man to properly ttc with:o

Agreed, Lolly I would feel sorry for her, she obviously doesnt know any better but you do. Dont feel bad !!!!!ing we all do it occasionally. My 2 closest friends are terrible, unfortunately since having the kids I dont see them so often but since they are both single and out every weekend they live in each others shoes, when they do come round to visit they always moan about the other one. I just listen to their moans then have my own rant about OH cos I know they love each other really, we've been friends since we were 5, it just feels better to get our grievences off our chests, then move on.

lolly1981

our ds1's were due the same day in 2004...and you guessed it she HAD to go and have hers on the due date while i still had to wait 6 days!!!!!....even then she had to go that one better lol

when i first got with OH she then met a guy who the relationship was tyhe same as mine and OH weird how these things happen...i geta haircut..she gets a haircut, i get my nails done she wants hers done yada yada yada she even wanted out sons to share a bday party!! they donbt even share friends...so not sure how that wouldve worked

ETA she did the test and surprise surprise it was negative...still think she was insensitive