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The giving up/cutting down alcohol thread part VI

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  • paybacktime2008
    paybacktime2008 Posts: 1,208 Forumite
    Good to see you back Budgie.
    LBM 10/08 £12510.74/
  • budget_babe
    budget_babe Posts: 1,633 Forumite
    Miss_Piggy wrote: »
    Evening everyone

    Sparkles - ((hugs)) hope that excema starts to clear soon.
    DB - ((hugs)) to you too.
    PBT - just :eek::eek:

    Wonder when we'll be hearing from our lovely Budgie? She was hoping her DS would get her on-line over easter. Missed having her around!
    Miss P
    xx

    Oh Thankyou Miss P :A:A

    Hi to the lovely Pbt and our adorable Ms Honey B and our Dear Fedup :-)

    I have no idea how you all are so, if I have missed anything then I am so sorry.

    Its been pants having no internet since the end of January, but hey ho I HAVE SURVIVED :)

    Life is different for me at the moment, I have turned 46 :eek: I know don't lets go there. I have gained weight :eek: Again don't lets go there.

    The biggest news really is that Mr Budgie has moved out 2 weeks ago, we have both mutually agreed this as life just became so difficult. He is not well and wanted to move back to his Dads for awhile. We still see each other and he comes home in the day while I am at work to be with our little westie. We will both spend the weekend with our Ds as we have both not seen him since Christmas.

    To be honest I am feeling much calmer in myself as I had become so stressed and constantly in tears.

    I took and take my wedding vows very seriously, for better and worse etc, and I am still trying to look after Mr Budgie but he has said some very hurtful things to me and I know it is because he is ill.

    So that is where I am at now, its good to be back online as I have missed me mates.

    I look forward to catching up with you all and to finding out what you have all been upto?

    I do hope you have been behaving?

    So hugs to you all and God Bless
    Budgie xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
    Cherish the ones you love and travel back on the road that brings you home :)
    "What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us" Ralph Waldo Emerson :A
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    the return of Gene!

    Don't know about you but I'm all at sea! free-confused-smileys-718.gif
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Life is different for me at the moment, I have turned 46 :eek: I know don't lets go there. I have gained weight :eek: Again don't lets go there.

    The biggest news really is that Mr Budgie has moved out 2 weeks ago, we have both mutually agreed this as life just became so difficult. He is not well and wanted to move back to his Dads for awhile. We still see each other and he comes home in the day while I am at work to be with our little westie. We will both spend the weekend with our Ds as we have both not seen him since Christmas.

    To be honest I am feeling much calmer in myself as I had become so stressed and constantly in tears.

    I took and take my wedding vows very seriously, for better and worse etc, and I am still trying to look after Mr Budgie but he has said some very hurtful things to me and I know it is because he is ill.

    You're beautiful at any age or any size, babe :)

    I'm sorry about your & OH tho. I know he's ill & that makes it even more tough. I hope you can work things out *big big bearhugs*
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • Miss_Piggy_2
    Miss_Piggy_2 Posts: 3,631 Forumite
    So pleased to see you back Budgie, but am sorry to hear about you and Mr Budgie. I hope things sort themselves out soon. Many many ((hugs))

    Miss P
    xx
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • So_Sad_Angel
    So_Sad_Angel Posts: 7,363 Forumite
    Hi Budgie.....take care of yourself Hun at this difficult time...try & see all the nice things in the day & above all keep a smile on your face. Often a break is a good chance to let the dust settle & diffuses difficult situations.

    Nice to see you back:A

    Angiexx
  • So_Sad_Angel
    So_Sad_Angel Posts: 7,363 Forumite
    2 days for me in this shiny new month:j:j:j

    Going to add a fitness target in too.....aiming for 10 miles walking this weekend....did 5 today in the pouring rain & it was wonderful!!

    Happy Easter Everyone.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    edited 3 April 2010 at 8:14AM
    Morning all,

    2 AFDs for me please WBF

    easter.jpg

    Shaggy
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • Good Morning
    Hi Budgie, I'm sorry to hear about you and OH, but only you know where you are at, so be good to yourself.

    Pleased to report 2 AF under my belt , definetely HUFFing !

    DB, I have to have a rant to the DS's, came down this morning, looks like they had a pringle party.....always feel bad 10 minutes later, goes with the territory I guess.

    Interesting conversation re inlaws. One of my SIL was very close to my late DH, lovely sweet lady, but am finding the relationship hard to maintain, a little suffocating where my children are concerned. Like she's taken the role of the MIL. Am trying to be gentle and unselfish.

    Anyway, be good. Off to diaryland.
    DC.
    "Some people walk in the rain... others just get wet... " - Roger Miller
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    welcomeback.gifBudgie. Sorry to hear about you and your DH...:(

    Jo - Sounds like a fantastic leaving do:) :T
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
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