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  • scaredy_cat
    scaredy_cat Posts: 7,758 Forumite
    anyone with an addiction has to want to get help and recognise there is a problem.

    and there is no excuse for hurting you when he's been drinking....
    Cats don't have owners - they have staff!! :D:p
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  • Elfen I don't know what to say my love, You can love some one from a distance I think - you do love him but you don't love being with him if that makes sense.

    I think to be honest I would concentrate on you, getting yourself together - as you are doing in terms of money/uni/your future (always have an emergency fund money wise) - when he behaves the way he has tonight always remember in those moments that YOU have a way out if needed.

    I would think either he has a problem or he will grow out of it, how he deals with it is his problem. You must look after yourself, other wise you simply won't have a life.

    big hugs my friend xxxxx
    Nevertheless she persisted.
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