depression

Sazbo

CCStar wrote:

I feel I have a cold too. Feel so tired

Thankfully our son has done a lot of packing and still doing some in his room.

Want a rest tomorrow and hope the neighbours don't give me their dose of torture. It has been two months and hey, it must be time for some more!

c nut was the word that was !!!!.:D

Wednesday - beauty day and time to self
Thursday - family Christmas dinner together
Friday - housework:(, hubby finishes work for Christmas
Saturday - packing for trip, general pottering
Sunday - go

There's definitely a cold going around. Sounds like a reasonable week ahead for you, on balance CC. So long as the neighbours don't sc rew it up! xx

geminilady

blinky wrote:

We will work it out but it doesn't stop me feeling like turd

Your text cannot be as bad as mine "N" doesn't want a relationship he wants sex with a friend--me,but he wants no ties,comitment or expectations.Not offering a lot is he.

UKJubilee_2

doesn't work with a friend, only when you are strangers apart from the casual thing with no other connections. Done both and with a friend it led to depression and an overdose. Happily in a long term relationship now and though not as exciting does result in me being much happier!

blinky

geminilady wrote:

Your text cannot be as bad as mine "N" doesn't want a relationship he wants sex with a friend--me,but he wants no ties,comitment or expectations.Not offering a lot is he.

No, it just I got upset last night which upset her and in turn upset me even more.

Both want a long term committed relationship

geminilady

UKJubilee wrote:

doesn't work with a friend, only when you are strangers apart from the casual thing with no other connections. Done both and with a friend it led to depression and an overdose. Happily in a long term relationship now and though not as exciting does result in me being much happier!

Yes think i will only get hurt,can't do the casual thing have to have fealings.I do he doesn't story of my life.Did think i might grow on him but he has made things perfectly plain,bit hard to con myself now.Think i would rather have the b who tells you he loves you and then dumps you lol.

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote:

Yes you!

Sounds like the way to go, definitely.

Hmm Sazzy's gotta eat! I'm still here, kinda:D:D Just gonna make cheese on toast or summink, innit.

:eek:

I dunno, flatmate is now home, being miserable, acting like 'S' isn't really important now. I know she is annoyed with how she was yesterday, as she gets annoyed like that, whereas i'm the concerned one.

Did you get your cheese on toast?

Sazbo

Miroslav wrote:

:eek:

I dunno, flatmate is now home, being miserable, acting like 'S' isn't really important now. I know she is annoyed with how she was yesterday, as she gets annoyed like that, whereas i'm the concerned one.

Did you get your cheese on toast?

Perhaps fm is feeling a little hurt by S's behaviour yesterday maybe?

Yeah sort of LOL, but then didn't feel v hungry as I should be in bed soonish! :eek: xx

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote:

Perhaps fm is feeling a little hurt by S's behaviour yesterday maybe?

Yeah sort of LOL, but then didn't feel v hungry as I should be in bed soonish! :eek: xx

Possibly, but she doesn't care for her like I do. She worries about her, but i'm the one who bends over backwards for the pair of them, with little gratitude, sadly.

Sort of had cheese on toast.........was it cheese on bread then?

Bed? Yeah, sounds good to me.

Sazbo

geminilady wrote:

Yes think i will only get hurt,can't do the casual thing have to have fealings.I do he doesn't story of my life.Did think i might grow on him but he has made things perfectly plain,bit hard to con myself now.Think i would rather have the b who tells you he loves you and then dumps you lol.

GL I'm so sorry to hear that. But as hurtful as it is now, you'd almost certainly have been more hurt if he'd strung you along the way you describe, pretending he loved you. I'm not saying I approve of the way he's treated you, I don't, but given two unpalatable options, I'd rather the one that hurts you less, rather than more. I'm sending you (((big hugs))) hun. Much love Saz xx

Sazbo

Miroslav wrote:

Possibly, but she doesn't care for her like I do. She worries about her, but i'm the one who bends over backwards for the pair of them, with little gratitude, sadly.

Sort of had cheese on toast.........was it cheese on bread then?

Bed? Yeah, sounds good to me.

They probably appreciate you more than they let on;):)

Er... more like bread without the cheese!:D

Mr Miro sweetpea, I gotta crash soon. Sweetdreams you, and sweetdreams all our good friends here. Night night. Love Sazza xxx