depression

Miroslav

EthelBloggs wrote:

I dont think miro meant that you said that CC.. just that his descriptions of her could be mistaken for thinkng that she is..?

Yep Explained below. Didn't think CC thought that, but thought I may have given the wrong impression of 'S'

EthelBloggs

CCStar wrote:

You could be right but he does things that bring me down too. Sometimes men just say the wrong thing and it can really upset people:(

yeah I know.. tell me bout it :rolleyes: weird how they can get to us innit

Miroslav

IFA wrote:

Distraction and keeping oneself occupied is very good for depression/anxiety. It takes your mind off it so your brain has time to recover.. Painted my bathroom the other day and felt totally fine whilst doing that! Also medication can help and give you a slight boost, I've been on various ssri's (now on cipramil - which helps a bit). Along with diet/exercise,thinking patterns and CBT, some vitamins, st johns wort etc etc.., I've also got into matched betting on the gamblers loophole forum, there's nothing like making free money to keep you occupied and happy Give it a whirl helps me forget things!

Take care everyone, life can be pretty boring at times and you don't have to be happy all the time! Just accept what happens thats the most important thing don't fight it I hope you feel better soon..

Nice to see a new 'face' IFA :wave:

Miroslav

EthelBloggs wrote:

no worries.. I don't do feet *pukes* how bout your kneecaps??

Yeah, feet is not my idea of fun either :eek:

Kneecaps......... I'd guess that would feel odd :rotfl:

Horasio

Miroslav wrote:

Nah, never said you did, hence I said you didn't, I just meant i've probably made it sound like she sleeps around, so wanted to clarify it.

Your post was correct though, she's only had sex as a sex thing as opposed to a meaningful intimacy, which is a shame, as i'd show her what she's been missing, well.........maybe, kind of, I would, but I don't want to.......yet, kind of thing, I mean I wouldn't just wham bam thank you mam thingy.

Something like that....

Yes and the word TART was not mentioned from my lips.

You don't have to be a tart to be used

I give up trying to help if I'm going to be misunderstood!

I give up on men full stop - they react to things that aren't even said yet they say the most dumb things and I'm supposed to take it and be the bad guy for getting upset!

I'm going to give this thread a miss now, I don't need this !!!!!! just now.

I shall probably be slated and hated now for standing up for myself, yet I have to take the !!!!!!.

I am leaving this thread

Miroslav

CCStar wrote:

The word tart never came from my mouth

I am getting very angry now

I don't take kindly to people putting words into my mouth!:mad:

Like I said, never said it did.

Read Ethel and mine explanations.... I thought people may get the wrong idea about my impressions of 'S', not yours. You were right when you said she's never been 'made love too', and I was saying that even though she's had sex, and it was just sex, I had hoped I had not given the impression that she was a tart to anyone here, cos she's not, just that sort of intimacy is what she feels she is only entitled too.

Miroslav

CCStar wrote:

Yes and the word TART was not mentioned!

You don't have to be a tart to be used

I give up trying to help if I'm going to be misunderstood!

I give up on men full stop - they react to things that aren't even said yet they say the most dumb things and I'm supposed to take it and the bad guy for getting upset!

I used the word tart, not you, and nothing within any of my posts was making you out to be the bad guy

Maybe I should have started a new paragraph, or even a seperate post, maybe, so if anyone is at fault, it would be me, but I meant no animosity in any way,

EthelBloggs

CCStar wrote:

Yes and the word TART was not mentioned from my lips.

You don't have to be a tart to be used

I give up trying to help if I'm going to be misunderstood!

I give up on men full stop - they react to things that aren't even said yet they say the most dumb things and I'm supposed to take it and be the bad guy for getting upset!

I'm going to give this thread a miss now, I don't need this !!!!!! just now.

Noooo CC... don't go.. it's so easy to misunderstand things on here cos it's typed and you can't hear voices or see facial expressions and things. Nowhere did miro say that you said she was a tart and he didn't say she was either.. just a misunderstanding is all and dont forget English is second language for Miro

Miroslav

Miroslav wrote:

Oh my gosh, Miro's eyes!!!!!

She's not a tart btw, not saying you said that, but she hasn't been with a guy for a long long time now, it's just the guys she's been with, have used her for sex, and from what she said once, it's all been about the guys pleasure rather than hers.

I wish I could change the post to make it more erm.......'understandable'

I have this problem IRL too

EthelBloggs

Don't worry Miro.. maybe I'm lucky cos English is second language for most of my family so I'm used to interpreting things a bit differently although I saw nothing offensive or wrong in what you said