depression

rose07

Sazbo wrote:

Rosie you do make me laugh The mad red-headed nurse that goes "mwa ha ha ha" ! That really made me smile. But I just want to say - there ain't nuthin' wrong with talking to ya self - heck, I do it all the time! I say give it a go, will def. feel wierd at first, see how you get on. And make sure you eat something tonight or I'll tell Tiff and we'll get even more bizarre smileys - so don't say you weren't warned rosie, ok? You take care, Saz x

aww glad to make you smile, she does go mwa ha ha tho, and says you will do it, hehehe. she mad and red and has devil horns, a mad, devil horned woman, what could be worse than that? ok will try the talking to myself, 'hello' 'hello' helllloooo' nop saz, theres no one there? hmmm will try again later.

i will try and eat hun, but everytime i eat i feel soo sick, like im gonna spew.

im off now to see me baby, im missing her soo much

take care huni

and love to you all
xxx

welsh

hello back from the shrinks and went ok. he said that i am feeling strange cause o f the tabs and stick with them for a few more days and take them before bed and they seem to effect me bad for like 4 hours after taking. feel more positive and stuff now, still zombie like but hopefull will pass
FG - thanks and glad you went well in the docs
sazbo - thanks to you for nice comments only, hate delays. 1 of my worst nightmares is stuck on packed tube for hours between stops, HV just thinking about it. big hugs to all in need of one x

Sazbo

welsh wrote:

hello back from the shrinks and went ok. he said that i am feeling strange cause o f the tabs and stick with them for a few more days and take them before bed and they seem to effect me bad for like 4 hours after taking. feel more positive and stuff now, still zombie like but hopefull will pass
FG - thanks and glad you went well in the docs
sazbo - thanks to you for nice comments only, hate delays. 1 of my worst nightmares is stuck on packed tube for hours between stops, HV just thinking about it. big hugs to all in need of one x

Good to hear it went ok and that you're feeling more positive. Hopefully zombie-ness will pass... Saz

Miroslav

blinky wrote:

No such thing as an ordinary women, mate there all different. She's probably not used to being able to drop her guard and show her feelings / be vunerable which you might be getting the sense she's regretting telling you.

1 text in 4 days is definitely not OTT. Only 7 today from 'R' but we are trying to arrange when to meet up next week. Looks like Wednesday :j

No such thing as ordinary, but because of her mental health issues, which can be very severe, she is just so difficult at times.

I know she sees me as a guy first, friend 2nd. I mean, she keeps telling me i'm good looking etc etc, but i'm not 100% ready for that. I like the thought of that, but it scares me. I think she may not contact me for long periods as I may have rejected her too much. I mean, I could have had 'sex' with her easily by now, but i'm far more gentlemanly than that

It's 2 texts in 6 days this time..........no reply to either.............does my nut in

Glad things are going well with you and 'R'. Gives hope to the rest of us

Miroslav

Tiff wrote:

Oh miro - you make me laugh hun!:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
It's not like you can take the weekend off from depression!:rotfl: Though maybe you're onto something...:think: ...right, I've decided... I'm booking the whole of December, the 1st 2 weeks of January 2007, the 2 middle weeks of February off!:D
People are ill 365 days a year & thank God there's help available 365 days a year.:T
Hope you're well angel. Hope all is well with you & 's' hun. haven't caught up on all the posts yet - just had to reply to yours 1st.;)
Have I got the Miro & 'S' saga got summed up accurately hun?;)

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:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: -Sorry angel - I just get confused.:o

I hope you have a great day hun. Look after yourself ok?
Much love,
Tiff xxx

This is where my English gets me in trouble I didn't mean you can choose when to be depressed, I meant, 7 days in and out of hospital, I thought they'd at least let her have Sunday off to be at home

Have you got the 'S' and I saga right? I don't know, cos I have no idea myself

Miroslav

Tiff wrote:

For what it's worth miro, if you want to reassure 's' that you're not just trying to get her up that tree;) , you could say that it's a Good Time Bear for her to hug whenever she needs a hug or is lonely. That makes it ok in all scenarios.
You could send it to her hun - see how she interprets it miro. Good luck angel
much love
Tiff xxx

Tree? Blimey, it's not like that and she knows it. It's her that's been trying to sit on my trunk so to speak, and i've been refusing, but now she doesn't even try, she just tells me i'm good looking and leaves it at that

I have bought a bear for her She's like a kid at times, so I don't think she'll take it the wrong way.......hey, i've bought her flowers, and she loved them.

I'm saving the bear for Xmas, that was the whole idea. It's big and furry (the bear) and only £10 Flatmate says she'll love it as she has a smaller bear she cuddles when she's lonely, so i'll tell her to cuddle the big bear, not neglect her other bear, and she can call the new one MmmmMiro

Miroslav

geminilady wrote:

Hi Miro,Please don't let people stop you posting.Nobody who has read all your posts would describe you as manic.You have actualy been very restrained with "S" and as you say you certainly have not persued her in a zealous way.As you know her background i think you have just the right approach,you are showing that you care without bombarding her with texts ect.I am sure i am not alone in wanting to read your posts and like many others are hoping it will turn into the relationship you want.You actualy contradict yourself in your post lol will quote in another colour

Talking about her sometimes helps, when others can help me look at things more positively.

Therefore, there isn't much point in asking advice or ideas re: 'S', as however much I detail the situation, understandably, no-one knows the true situation, and conflicting advice/comments can cause more confusion

you say talking about her sometimes helps and that others can help you look at things more positively so carry on talking! i think its good therapy to write things down and of course it is your choice wether you take peoples advice or not.As you say your the one that knows "S" best and i think you are doing great with someone who from no fault of her own is very hard work

I have been very restrained and understanding with her, but I have to say something as it's not fair on me anymore.

There was contradiction, I like peoples views, I just get more confused than when I started sometimes

She is very hard work I have no idea if I can handle that hard work though

Horasio

We survived and there were no hissy fits.

He was very mature about it and will put the money back from the proceeds of his new job.

We are in the process of him going to close his account and get an online one where we can keep an eye on it.

He has been a bl**dy fool and hopefully, he will grow up and get his money sorted. He wants to leave home and realises he won't be able to if he stays this stupid.

Horasio

Miroslav wrote:

I have been very restrained and understanding with her, but I have to say something as it's not fair on me anymore.

There was contradiction, I like peoples views, I just get more confused than when I started sometimes

She is very hard work I have no idea if I can handle that hard work though

Hi and welcome back

It isn't fair on you and only you know if you are strong enough.

You need to look after you

Horasio

rose07 wrote:

RRRRAAAAAAAAAA

I NEED A HUG please

(((Great big extra special hugs)))